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SCAMMER - MistressLyn
Posted: Tue Sep 17, 2013 6:23 pm
by viktor90
Scammer MistressLyn here on milovana. She/he made several teases wanting you to contact certified_maggie on yahoo. I did and here is result.
Take care and dont trust scammers like this. I didn't loose much when I did this I just wanted to test and see and she/he was a scammer. Hope someone can find this info useful and not fall for it.
Re: SCAMMER - MistressLyn
Posted: Tue Sep 17, 2013 7:15 pm
by CruelNatalie
it looks more like a misunderstanding. I don't think there is anything wrong with someone charging for their time if someone is willing to pay it. I do think though that she should have just told you the cost of her service. But some women think that by saying any amount that someone will be over generous. I think its best to put cards on the table.
Re: SCAMMER - MistressLyn
Posted: Wed Sep 18, 2013 5:03 am
by catcollection
I'm not sure what the scam is? Didn't she reject the low tribute? Seems more like negotiation?
If I was going to run financial domination as a scam, $100 is pretty small. I would probably string the person along with a series of smaller 'donations'(Don't worry, I just do this for *fun*, not the money, honest!), until they felt like they got to know me, then suddenly need money for surgery/getting my Nigerian cousin into the country.
Re: SCAMMER - MistressLyn
Posted: Wed Sep 18, 2013 7:57 am
by Banquo
catcollection wrote:I'm not sure what the scam is? Didn't she reject the low tribute? Seems more like negotiation?
If I was going to run financial domination as a scam, $100 is pretty small. I would probably string the person along with a series of smaller 'donations'(Don't worry, I just do this for *fun*, not the money, honest!), until they felt like they got to know me, then suddenly need money for surgery/getting my Nigerian cousin into the country.
Exactly, this looks less like Scamming and more like financial domination to me. FD is a valid fetish (albiet not my cup of tea.) We are all adults here, if someone asks you for cash there is nothing stopping you from saying no.
Re: SCAMMER - MistressLyn
Posted: Sat Sep 21, 2013 2:23 pm
by skrote
My day job is suspicious activity on credit cards which includes scams.
from what I read, there is not enough information to know if it is a scam or not, because sending funds is common in financial domination.
The thing that does concern me the most that is a red flag is the fact that they require you to send a wire. Most scams that are overseas have you send funds via wire, or getting the money pak cards.
The other real danger with an actual scam is actual blackmail. In a romance scam (not fetish related) they get your real information, get footage of you doing acts on cam, and when you start to no longer cooperate they threaten to send the dirt they have on you to family/friends/co-workers (Real blackmail).
Personally, if I were to seek the services from an online dom, I would feel better about it from someone who has a presence on some of the major websites like Nite Flirt, and even then I would be weary.
I would personally steer clear based on what you posted.
~Skrote
Re: SCAMMER - MistressLyn
Posted: Mon Sep 23, 2013 9:45 am
by Snoopy76
Agree that FD is a fetish in its own right but just cant help but thinking with BDSM as in any other relationship we enter in to as adults, honest communication is key.
I can understand that when submissives look for dom(me)s the search can start to feel desperate so when we do find someone the excitement and anticipation is off the scale. To then have hopes dashed as all of a sudden there is an FD element that wasn't declared at the start seems dishonest to me.
But FD isn't a kink of mine so maybe I am not thinking about this in the right way.
Play nicely out there peeps and don't lose faith, what you want is out there...
Snoopy x