Milovana.com

Hi, I was wondering if anyone else knows of any decent and similar sites to these listed out there?
Men in Pain
Divine Bitches
Hand Domination
Mistress T
The English Mansion

Can you quantify what it is you like about those sites? That would make it easier to recommend ones that lean towards your interest.

I try for the same video/lighting/bondage quality as the ones you list, but with lifestyle femdoms and real-life mistresses rather then paid models.

it's really hard to find real pro dom and lifestyle sites any more. Years ago when I first started dabbling there were still some but since have closed or they don't update them anymore. One that comes to mind and is still doing great is clubdom.com

I like http://www.owk.cz/ but it's a navigation hell. Once you get recent updates it's cool.

Since you already mentioned them, i'd suggest other sites made by kink.com eg. Upper floor. They are mostly M/f or lesbian though.
As for handjobs or ruined, try googling for Klixen's videos.

Femdom Empire (http://www.femdomempire.com) might be something for you