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first toy?

Posted: Sat Jun 22, 2013 10:51 pm
by mitchk23
Hey there, I'm a male. Going to go to the local shop tonight and plan on purchasing my first toy. Not sure what I I want. Any advice?

Re: first toy?

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2013 1:24 pm
by SexualChoc
not sure where you are shopping..

but I recommend:
http://www.calexotics.com/p-21503-xtreme-kit.aspx
to see the product you will have to click the main screne..it will then pop up.

It is a bullet vibrator

but... it has 35 different setting so your chances of getting bored with it..are close to zero.


Why a vibrator and not something else?
place it on balls while stroking

or in ass as an anal toy
or on cock head
or on clit or i pussy...

or nipples


In other words it is very... versatile
most oter toys you actually don't need to buy!

humbler can be made cheaply
whips paddles... just use a big spoon

anyway hope this helps.

Re: first toy?

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2013 7:23 pm
by Nezhul
As for the first toy for men I'd recommend Fleshlight. Pretty much any texture you like. They make absolutely THE BEST fake pussy there is on the market. No rivals at all, IMHO.

As for the vibrator be aware that some men don't feel nothing good from vibration, so it may be useless purchase. Better try it out on the cheaper things first.

Re: first toy?

Posted: Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:09 am
by mitchk23
I went for mid size, remote control, vibrating buttplug ;) it is fantastic !

Re: first toy?

Posted: Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:40 am
by Tobias23
When I read that post I tried to remember what my first toy that I actually bought with money was.

And I couldn't remember ;-(

Where did my childhood memories go? The internet corrupted me pretty early, but I got the first hint of the BDSM culture from a little TV I was allowed in my room, which I turned on mute at night, watching those 'late night' movies. I saw Tokyo Decadence, which in later years I downloaded and still to this day gives me great pleasure watching. So yeah I got curios about BDSM, and it didn't take long until I stole some clothespins from my moms laundry room, and a spoon out of the kitchen.

That I can remember, but I can't remember what I bought after I truned 18, and could order online. This kinda bugs me now, lol, why can I remember stuff form before, but not my first shoping experience?

Anyways ... vibrator was a good choice, and I do also agree with the Fleshlight. I went through three fakes pussy, which were worse than my hand, until I finally found the fleshlight, and never ever needed another fake pussy :D