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Hi there,

I have been a looking into the forums teases and all awesomeness. Now I am in a relationship with my lovely girlfriend and all is great and awesome.

Now I always thought she liked the dominating part in the relationship and she occasionally does, but it seems she also likes to be dominated
So I know some awesome nice stuff to do to her and she likes it.
Tying up, blindfolding, ice-play and some of that stuff.
Now lately we are getting more and more into it. But she is kind of afraid of it. for example, nipleclamps are a big no-no she tells me. however, when i pinch her nipples (and quite hard) during sex she likes it...

So my question is kind of like "how do i ease my girlfriend into the more kinky stuff?"
We are quite open about this so we are getting there and its taking some while. I just wanted to know do you have any hints, tips or fun stuff to do for 'not so kinky couples'?
Or if there are any teaases for couples or women which i can get great idea's from please let me know. (there are so many!!!!)

Thanks for your reading and for your advice :)

duranduran wrote:. for example, nipleclamps are a big no-no she tells me. however, when i pinch her nipples (and quite hard) during sex she likes it...

Do you Want to stay married?
sounds like a really stupid question?>???

I NEVER, EVER recommend going passed ANYONE's limits!!!

so I would suggest... you talk out fantasies..
read books of fantasies
or even use Literotica
or heck here!!

share them.. if you have trouble talking write notes
heck make it erotic poetry!!

but communication is VITAL!!!

I have been divorced and am now very happily married and in a kinky relationship with my spouse.

best of luck to you!

thanks SC,

Its not that we dont talk and i think we are going the right way slow but steady which is nice.
Its more like the question, what kind of light bdsm would be advisable. i guess the best idea is just asking her. but helping with idea's is always good me thinks.
I wont do anything to her she really does not want.

thanks for your clear answer