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Somatic Etiquette.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 9:05 pm
by Atmon
I have never yet put my mouth upon a woman's behind.

I have had some relationships involving cunningilus, and that's great in the right circumstances, but then I have always felt the need to ask before any sort of kiss on the lips afterwards. When I put my mouth on the pussy of a woman that really love, I don't kow if SHE thinks that my mouth is clean enough to kiss without some listerine or whatever, and that could spoil the mood of the evening.

Now that I am older, I realise that mostly any of the ladies with whom I have enjoyed oral sex in the Biblical way were never about to make any great fuss over a good kiss on the lips at the end of it, because they knew that I'd never have explored such regions in the first place if not for good wholesome tucker, but that still leaves me with one question going a begging ...

What is acceptable to kiss with one's mouth after having some oral contact with one's partner's posterior? Assuming that both parties are well known to each other, and go to the beach alot, and all healthy people, what should a man do with his mouth after kissing a woman's arse?

There are 600 different muscles in the human body and plenty of skin on your average woman, but is it acceptable to kiss a woman on the lips or on her vagina directly after kissing her on the backside?

Re: Somatic Etiquette.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 9:29 pm
by Atmon
Sorry that there was no EDIT button on the OP, but what I'd hoped to add to the post was that it is almost 4:30 am and I'm off to sleep, and look forward to some opinions on this issue later this afternoon when I wake up. It's a tough one, although it doesn't seem to be a major matter in the heat of the moment, but I have to know what she thinks. I can't kiss myself in those places, and nor can she, and when I kiss her lips after, would she feel comfortable? It's just one of those hairy questions that I hope there maybe others with good advice in the coming hours. Goodnight and thanks.

(Where's Cactusman when ya need him?)

Re: Somatic Etiquette.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 10:06 pm
by janmb
The answer to this is that it is highly individual and that you should simply ask her what you just asked us. Be open about your uncertainties about this - it's always the best solution and gives you a lot more confidence and ease of mind.

If she allows and likes you to kiss/lick her anus in the first place, that suggests she is fairly at ease with it in general.

The only thing that is always true here is to be careful not pulling bacteria from the anus to her vagina - not because of how you or her feel about it, but because of the significant danger of vaginal infection... Just like you should never ever use an anal toy then use it vaginally without disinfecting it first. And just like girls should never ever wipe from the back toward the front after going to the restroom either.

Re: Somatic Etiquette.

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 10:21 pm
by SexualChoc
another solution is obvious
do this in a shower with lots of soap nearby
and maybe e a toothbrush which can be used for all sorts of fun!!

I am married and my wife has no desire to "taste herself"
anal would require a VERY high level of being clean before you then kiss her!!!
was not only lips, mouth exterior, but also inside of mouth as well!!!
and not necessarily just for her either!!
safe, sane..
but a really nice clean butt.. :blush:
they are a LOT of fun to kiss!!
just clean up before you go kissing anywhere else, just in case..