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So I am a straight male, but have had the fantasy to suck cock for a very long time - partly due to forced bi videos I have seen.

I have come across a dating app, which gay men use to hook up - its actually fairly amazing how to the point guys can be. I have found someone who is local and I am very tempted to just go for a pure one off.


My worries are really around safety, security and privacy. Has anyone done anything like this? What do people think?

Also I have not had much sexual experience, I would only do it to give Oral, but is it perhaps a fantasy I should leave until I can have proper straight sex? Or should I go for it? I am more into it from the humiliation factor rather than being interested in guys, which makes it seem like I should perhaps dodge the fantasy?

Did I understand you correctly that you haven't had "proper" sex yet? I think you should at least experience a decent amount of personal intimacy with someone before you go off to meet a strange guy rooted in fantasy. The fantasy in your head might turn out to be just a fantasy and not something that would be right for you in a real life situation.

Possible scary proposition. I would be very wary of meeting a stranger off of the internet to hook up blindly. I mean extremely wary! I assume blindly because you are straight and therefore probably not getting to know the guy or anything. Some of the people on the internet are looking for victims.

Since you're a straight guy you probably won't be able to pull this off anyway. Especially if you do have the forced-bi fantasy because it would require a Mistress to be involved to make a straight guy do it for her and even then it might not happen anyway in reality. Sometimes the fantasy is way better than the reality. Think about everything before you act on this fantasy and be very careful, safe and smart if you do.

Some basic precautions you should always take whenever meeting someone off the internet:

1. Make your 1st meeting public. Doesn't have to be in the middle of time square, but somewhere with witnesses in case they turn out to be an axe murderer.

2. Make sure someone knows where you'll be, who you'll be with, and when you should be back. That way if you aren't back the next day, they can start the police off in the right place.

3. Trust your instincts. If a person feels creepy or scary or just somehow disturbing, that's reason enough to not go further/avoid them in the future. Don't wait for a person to justify making your skin crawl. That said, don't sick the cops on them or anything. There's caution and then there's paranoia.

A few suggestions more related to your specific situation:

1. For point 2 above, do still tell someone about illicit/sexually compromising/etc. meet-ups. Feel free to lie about the why of the meeting, but be honest about who, where, and when.

2. If you're nervous about telling anyone, try setting an email to be sent with the pertinent details if you're not back to stop it by a certain time or leave a note where it will be found if you don't retrieve it by a certain time. But remember that methods like these add risk of the message being delayed, lost, ignored, or misunderstood.

3. If you're meeting someone just for sex and you're not in it for anything more, be honest about it from the outset. Don't lie to or mislead the other person. That's just scummy.

4. For that matter, since your interest is in forced bi there are better resources than dating sites to use. Try fetlife or alt.com. Both are aimed at helping you find others that share your fetish. I'm pretty sure fetlife is completely free, but I think alt my charge for some things. (I'm not certain on either of these, you'd have to look yourself.)

5. Since you're a straight male with an interest in forced bi, I suggest trying to find a kinky couple with a female dominant (male could be dom or sub) willing to play with you. That way she can "force" you to pleasure him and, who knows, there's a possibility you might get to do something with her as a reward.

Guys do each other at the drop of a hat.

ALWAYS use a condom for anal penetration... blow jobs... well, the jury is still out regarding AIDS transmissions through oral sex.

In that scene, it is considered appropriate to "know your std status" and be able to have safe and sane conversations about that... so actually it is relatively safe to hook up semi-anonymously with a few negotiation conversations and condom use.

I LOVE FORCED BI, so I guess I have a vested interest in you getting to finally suck real cock.

AliceInBondageLand wrote:ALWAYS use a condom for anal penetration... blow jobs... well, the jury is still out regarding AIDS transmissions through oral sex.

As far as I know, it's possible although very rare and probably only under certain circumstances (small wounds or something). But HIV/Aids isn't the only STD out there and.. as much as going somewhere and just having oral sex/forced bi stuff or anything might be an interesting fantasy, you should be safe about it. Don't risk your health because you want to get off.