Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread
Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2014 9:59 pm
Hello!
My name is Brian and I'm looking for a mistress!!! phew that's the hard bit done.
So now about me:
I'm 48 years old, self employed working from home which gives me some decent amount of time alone, in a place called derbyshire in the uk, I live with my partner but having a sexless marriage through reasons I would rather keep personal to myself I find I need someway to live out my bdsm lifestyle and fantasies hence fetlife, of cause she does not know about my submissive side and wanting to find a mistress and I want to keep it that way, ok I expect lots of people will think I am bad for this and I agree, I do love her but I am human and do need release from normal life from time to time as much as anyone else. so please don't judge me too harshly. As for my personality, I'm very submissive, and tend to follow blindly just about what anybody says. However that doesn't make me dumb or naïve, it just means sometime I like to get myself into trouble. I do like normal things as well for example, motorcycles, scuba diving and photography to name just a few.
Do I have Experience?
I'll be honest, not very much. however I will be VERY dedicated to this relationship and do not intend on leaving this relationship anytime soon. I'd really like an owner with more experience than me, to help me have more fun.
now I bet your wondering what I'm into
Likes
One of my favourites is humiliation! you can never go wrong with humiliation. I love being called names. Anything that let's me know I'm worthless and owned property. I want to be controlled in pretty much every aspect of my sex life. From what I do to how I do it. to remind me that I'm owned 24/7. However, the biggest thing of all is: I'm still technically a beginner and I'm willing to try many new things.
a few examples of activities I also like are:
Anal: Not sure what to say about this its pretty self explanatory,
Dehumanisation: I like to be humiliated and feel/act less than human. This may include hidden or semi public.
Mild pain: I can enjoy forms of pain when combined with other tasks,
forced Bi: I suppose most men have had fantasies about this but would never actually carry it out, I also think about it quite a lot and is something I would try with the proper guidance and enforcement from a mistress.
forced masturbation, ruined orgasms, spanking etc. etc. I am sure you get the idea.
as I say I don't have much experience and would be more than happy to be tested and have my limits pushed.
Dislikes
I'll be short with this.
I don't do scat, family, permanent, or anything illegal, blood, animals or blackmail. I might have more dislikes but I'm fairly certain those are my hard limits, and I am not afraid to try new things!
Other things you should probably know
I also have a few toys and I'm wanting/willing to get more,
I would prefer real life domination in the Nottinghamshire or Derbyshire area mostly in the daytime as unfortunately my normal vanilla life means I cannot travel hundreds of miles to see you or accommodate you here.
however I would also be more than happy being dominated online through emails / messenger/ webcam or similar and of cause online means any potential owner could be anywhere in the world , that would be ok.
I know any online domination or activities carried out would involve me submitting pictures or video as evidence of my obedience and performance and I am more than happy to also do that. ( although to start with I would prefer hiding my face as I don't really want my next door neighbour seeing me online and thinking : hey I know him, why is he running round a field naked being chased by a farmer wearing pink boots? ) sorry only joking about the farmer but you get the message.
How to claim me
I'm not strict on accepting messages, its not like if you screw up one thing your ignored ,just Send me a PM. Easy as that, no application or other web sites needed just a simple PM.
have any questions then please just ask - even if its to ask if I know any farmers with pink boots ( ooop's there goes that farmer thing again ).
so any Mistresses , Doms , Switches, Subs or farmers ( hang on!!! seems to be a pattern evolving here now I am getting worried ) feel free to send a friend invite or even to just say hello and chat.
Ok, Ok time to wrap it up.
I look forward to meeting lots of people and maybe making some new friends along the way. Brian
My e-mail address is: [email protected]
My name is Brian and I'm looking for a mistress!!! phew that's the hard bit done.
So now about me:
I'm 48 years old, self employed working from home which gives me some decent amount of time alone, in a place called derbyshire in the uk, I live with my partner but having a sexless marriage through reasons I would rather keep personal to myself I find I need someway to live out my bdsm lifestyle and fantasies hence fetlife, of cause she does not know about my submissive side and wanting to find a mistress and I want to keep it that way, ok I expect lots of people will think I am bad for this and I agree, I do love her but I am human and do need release from normal life from time to time as much as anyone else. so please don't judge me too harshly. As for my personality, I'm very submissive, and tend to follow blindly just about what anybody says. However that doesn't make me dumb or naïve, it just means sometime I like to get myself into trouble. I do like normal things as well for example, motorcycles, scuba diving and photography to name just a few.
Do I have Experience?
I'll be honest, not very much. however I will be VERY dedicated to this relationship and do not intend on leaving this relationship anytime soon. I'd really like an owner with more experience than me, to help me have more fun.
now I bet your wondering what I'm into
Likes
One of my favourites is humiliation! you can never go wrong with humiliation. I love being called names. Anything that let's me know I'm worthless and owned property. I want to be controlled in pretty much every aspect of my sex life. From what I do to how I do it. to remind me that I'm owned 24/7. However, the biggest thing of all is: I'm still technically a beginner and I'm willing to try many new things.
a few examples of activities I also like are:
Anal: Not sure what to say about this its pretty self explanatory,
Dehumanisation: I like to be humiliated and feel/act less than human. This may include hidden or semi public.
Mild pain: I can enjoy forms of pain when combined with other tasks,
forced Bi: I suppose most men have had fantasies about this but would never actually carry it out, I also think about it quite a lot and is something I would try with the proper guidance and enforcement from a mistress.
forced masturbation, ruined orgasms, spanking etc. etc. I am sure you get the idea.
as I say I don't have much experience and would be more than happy to be tested and have my limits pushed.
Dislikes
I'll be short with this.
I don't do scat, family, permanent, or anything illegal, blood, animals or blackmail. I might have more dislikes but I'm fairly certain those are my hard limits, and I am not afraid to try new things!
Other things you should probably know
I also have a few toys and I'm wanting/willing to get more,
I would prefer real life domination in the Nottinghamshire or Derbyshire area mostly in the daytime as unfortunately my normal vanilla life means I cannot travel hundreds of miles to see you or accommodate you here.
however I would also be more than happy being dominated online through emails / messenger/ webcam or similar and of cause online means any potential owner could be anywhere in the world , that would be ok.
I know any online domination or activities carried out would involve me submitting pictures or video as evidence of my obedience and performance and I am more than happy to also do that. ( although to start with I would prefer hiding my face as I don't really want my next door neighbour seeing me online and thinking : hey I know him, why is he running round a field naked being chased by a farmer wearing pink boots? ) sorry only joking about the farmer but you get the message.
How to claim me
I'm not strict on accepting messages, its not like if you screw up one thing your ignored ,just Send me a PM. Easy as that, no application or other web sites needed just a simple PM.
have any questions then please just ask - even if its to ask if I know any farmers with pink boots ( ooop's there goes that farmer thing again ).
so any Mistresses , Doms , Switches, Subs or farmers ( hang on!!! seems to be a pattern evolving here now I am getting worried ) feel free to send a friend invite or even to just say hello and chat.
Ok, Ok time to wrap it up.
I look forward to meeting lots of people and maybe making some new friends along the way. Brian
My e-mail address is: [email protected]