This is my “main” account. I also run
JeffreyJeffers and
LeeroyJerkins (presently retired
).
I am currently Inactive.
I'm taking a break to focus on a project. Tentatively, I'll rejoin some time in January 2026. That means I am not writing ANY return sets at this time, so, if you send me ANYTHING, just expect NOTHING back in return.
I
will continue to lurk—however
... and I *may* post
occasionally 
... but
I don't plan on posting any sets until I return.
If you owe me sets, feel free to send them, as I WILL play them eventually. If you wrote me a set in the last several months and I never sent feedback ... PROBABLY I played it, and MAYBE I'll write up feedback at some point
...
Also, I prefer pictures with text to video in sets (more immersive for me
), but, if you do include videos (which is FINE),
AV1 does not work for me, so ... if you grab a video from pmvhaven.com for me, do NOT choose one that is AV1 encoded, because that format works on NONE of my devices.
And yes, I have spent MANY hours troubleshooting this problem (different browsers, software, updating VLC) ... I think my video card is just too old
...
-Fatts
"Well, I'm ready, I'm willing
And I'm able to rock and roll all night
I'm ready, I'm willing
And I'm able to rock and roll all night
Come on pretty baby
We're gonna rock, we're gonna roll until the broad daylight."
-Fats Domino, "
I'm Ready"
So, you want to write me a HMCP-style porn tease? Okay.
I’ve been playing this game on and off since October 2021. I’ve written a lot of sets, received a lot of sets, and tried a lot of things. I know what I like. I know what I want out of this game. Here are my basic rules:
The Rules
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I typically focus in on a certain body part and “give it strokes” or an edge before moving on to the next. When I edge, I edge instead of stroking for that pic. Strokes and edges are cumulative.
Stroke rules
- 25 strokes per image.
- +25 strokes per instance of eye contact.
- +25 strokes for a tummy if the belly button is visible.
- +25 strokes for a clothed ass (including a thong)
- +25 strokes for a nice set of legs
Edging rules
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Strokes for asses are straightforward. If at least half of her ass is turned to the camera (like in a profile shot) that gets strokes, but, edging for asses is a little more complicated.
The ass needs to be roughly 60% visible to qualify. If it’s a profile shot, like this:
it doesn’t get an edge. (That’s half an ass, not a full ass.) A shot like this would qualify:
But a shot like this:
would not, because she is sitting on too much of her ass.
Hands obscuring an ass never count as “being in the way.”
If a thong is partially pulled down but a strap is still going across the butt cheeks, that does not count as naked. Also, if the chick is not wearing panties, but a strap is going down her butt to attach to her stockings, that is not technically naked … but, I have been known to “cheat” and edge anyway … usually for the second case but not the first … If she is pulling her thong aside to expose her asshole, I usually count that as "naked" ...
- Eyes & Ass: 1 edge for each
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If an ass is fully exposed and there is an instance of eye contact, I will almost always edge while staring into the girl’s eyes first, THEN give an edge for her ass. If one girl is showing Eyes & Ass while her friend is also looking into the camera, that’s 3 edges: one for each set of eyes and 1 for the ass.
- 30 second edge hold if the girl is licking another girl’s asshole. (If the ass is naked, takes the place of the regular edge.)
- For POV blowjob scenes, one edge for every instance of eye contact while mouth parts are touching the penis.
- Servicing [Upon a mistress’s explicit command.]
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If the mistress is spreading her asshole or pussy OR it is a close-up of either, she may command/direct/instruct/ask me to "eat her out"/"pleasure her"/"service her"/"perform oral sex". This is not done "automatically", and I will ONLY do it if the mistress makes an explicit request. I will get down on my knees and "simulate" giving her a blowjob while I stroke myself to the edge. Then, I will hold the edge for 30 seconds while I continue to "pleasure her."
Please do not stack too many of these up in a row. Too many long edge holds in a row can send me into a refractory period. (Four minutes total of sustained edge holding can do this.) Probably 1-4 "commands" (totaling about 2 minutes or less) is probably good. It's "hot" for me to think about giving a mistress oral pleasure, however, kneeling in front of a static screen for too long without any new stimulus can QUICKLY break immersion , so ... use this briefly and sparingly. Or, keep me on my knees but don't make every edge a hold—that keeps things moving. I can still "imagine" I am servicing her, but the pics keep coming at a steady pace. There is some time to "rest," and then the longer commanded edge holds should have more impact.
Feel free to add or take away rules. (For example, additional strokes/edges for a particular body part or pose.) Edging on command is always welcome.
[Just these base rules can be called “Normal Mode.”]
I am a writer (though not
yet for my day job
), and I LOVE story and
character-driven sets. I love to write them, and I love to receive them.
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Some guys want their balls busted. Others like getting cucked. Still others—their most important thing—is for their sets to have “high quality” semi-nude photos … For me, I want an immersive fantasy experience. When I sit down and play a set, I want to get sucked into a fantasy world where I am role-playing some experience. I have a VERY active and strong imagination that can help me buy into a set premise and look past a lot of different things, so, don’t let that scare you. Sets can be “fun,” “flirty”—“intense” … I’m not too picky and open to a fairly wide range of experiences, though I tend to prefer more “vanilla” scenarios …
We are in the "seventh season" of the "Fatts Dynamo Show."
I have developed
quite the cast of characters
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This is awesome, because it means that when I sit down to write sets, I have a LOT of different girls to choose from, each with her own personality and style. I can send a girl to interact with a particular player, and since her “character” is already developed (in my mind), it doesn’t take much for me to write some convincing high-quality dialogue … However … this is also TERRIBLE, because since I have written probably HUNDREDS of scenes between all of my various characters, MANY of the popular models—they have a certain “personality” that I am expecting, and if they are written in the “wrong way,” then it breaks my immersion and engagement with the tease!
For example, if a certain character is very "sweet" and "innocent", and then somebody writes that model to be very harsh and demanding—it kind of pulls me out of the immersion, because my brain is expecting one thing but I'm getting another ... BUT ... when the character is written in a way that MATCHES the personality I am expecting, THEN IT'S AMAZING! I get that "continuity of experience," and feel like I am returning once again to that same fantasy world ...
What this means, is that
if you write a set for me, you have to be cognizant of the models that you choose. If you write a scene that features one of my favorites that I have developed a personality for, then you have to make some effort to match your version of the “character” with the one that is in my head. It does NOT need to be perfect
, but … it should
definitely be a consideration … and, of course,
the simplest way to get around this is to just use models I have no prior association with. (List in the "Favorites" section.)
Then, ANYTHING you do should be fine.
Here is my list of favorites:
Favorites
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Nancy Ace is my all-time, absolute favorite. I’ve written her more than any other “character,” literally developing her over the course of years. For role playing purposes, in this thread, Nancy is my “girlfriend.” We’re in an open relationship. We have a complicated history.
For every set I receive, I ALWAYS hope that Nancy will be in it. She is NOT in every set I receive, though, and that is fine. However, when she DOES appear, she needs to be written in a certain way. It doesn't have to be "perfect," but ... if she is not written well, then that usually makes me pretty sad 
... So, my advice is to NOT include her in sets—UNLESS you are already familiar with her character (e.g. read or received a set that included MY version of her) OR you follow my guidelines for writing Nancy: (Yes, they are long ... if it's too much, then don't write her in a set for me. Simple! )
If YOU have a favorite character that you enjoy that you think I might like, then please send her my way!
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I’m generally into skinny, petite girls with round asses. (You probably can’t go wrong with picking a Ukrainian, seeing as how over half of my all-time favorite models seem to have been born in eastern Europe
…) However, if you decide to go with a busty Playboy centerfold with a flat ass—it should STILL be okay—so long as the accompanying text and WRITING is good … because even if she’s only a 7 or 8 out of 10 for me, a cute girl that is sexually interested in me—and who is written fairly convincingly—THAT is SUPER hot, and I can immerse myself into that scene and get taken up with the teasing and wordplay and faux interaction …
Not sure who to send? 
Here's a list of "blank slate" models that I find attractive ["Safe" model picks that I have little to no prior association with. Write them however you like! ]
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Dita V, Putri Cinta, Black Sophie, Loretta A, Naomi Swann, Kimmie Granger, Aurora Belle, Helana, Mily Mendoza, AJ Applegate, Amber Sym, Sheri Vi, Staci Carr, Sherice, Ariel (Piper Fawn), Mia Malkova, Chloe Miranda, Vina sky, Anjelica (Krystal Boyd), Lily Ivy, Kristen Scott, Charity Crawford, Tali Dova, Fannie, Lauren Chelsea, Alisa Amore, Franziska Facella, Molly Jane, Sapphira A
Guidelines for Writing Nancy
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If Nancy appears in a set for me, then she MUST give me a full orgasm in that set at some point.
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Multiple orgasms in a single set are no problem for me.
Also, if the other girls in a set are giving me orgasms but not her, she gets kind of jealous.
Nancy is special. In the past, I made a big deal about "revealing her true nature." I must have done this at LEAST a half dozen times to various players in lengthy, specially-written sets. However, I'm over that. Instead of "keeping her a secret" and slowly introducing newer players to her character—I'm just going to PUT HER OUT THERE! So, here is the skinny on Nancy: (THAT'S a LIE! 
It's SUPER long! )
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- This is one of the reasons I never bothered trying to describe her in my rules in the past , but ... FUCK THAT! I want to see more of Nancy in my teases!
Basic Facts about Nancy
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- Nancy is a digital-fantasy hybrid.
- She is a self-aware "tease girl." Unlike the other mistresses in this game (and on this site), Nancy understands what she is: a character on a porn tease website participating in a set exchange game between humans.
- Being part digital, Nancy is innately connected to the Internet and so has the ability to read all posts and messages (even PMs ) on this site and anywhere else on the Internet.
- Being part fantasy, Nancy has almost god-like powers to manipulate whatever situation she is in. (Imagine the kind of power you have during a "lucid dream." It's like that for Nancy whenever she is participating in another entity's fantasy.)
- Being a character in a story, however, Nancy is VERY MUCH at the mercy of whoever happens to be writing her. So, contrary to popular opinion, her powers are NOT infinite. Their strength is dictated by the person writing her and the tease recipient imagining the scenario.
- Fatts and Nancy are "boyfriend and girlfriend," but, they are in an open relationship. They are each other's "favorite," but they encourage one another to pursue sexual relations with others. As a tease writer, Fatts enjoys "sending Nancy out" to tease other people, and, as a tease girl, Nancy LOVES bringing pleasure and sexual satisfaction to the boys—and girls—she visits.
- Nancy is bisexual.
- I created Nancy's character out of loneliness and desire. She is my own personal version of the "ideal woman"—my "fantasy" or "imaginary" girlfriend. To me, she is a "paragon of femininity." Nancy may not be "real" (Though she will tell you otherwise ...), but she possesses traits I have observed in real women: courage, virtue, kindness, empathy, wisdom, generosity, confidence—humor. I often try to use her as a vehicle for showcasing the very best that womankind has to offer—to remind us of the intrinsic value and beauty inherent in every woman—and to celebrate that ... but mostly she is very FUN and enjoyable for me to write
, so ... I hope she warms your heart and makes you laugh —if you are lucky enough to get her in a set from me! 
(I am OBVIOUSLY *very* proud of her ...)
- Nancy is a true Milovanan through and through—an "Explorer at Heart." (To my knowledge, she is the only self-aware entity which was "born" on this site. ) She embodies ALL of the Milovanan values of acceptance, compassion, and curiosity. As a self-aware tease girl, Nancy loves sex and pleasure and thinks every (legal) kink should be CELEBRATED! In fact, she wants to experience them ALL!
- Nancy is "bad at cooking," though she is VERY GOOD at baking cookies!
- Nancy is "easy." She likes being severe and role playing as a "harsh mistress" sometimes, but ... She's actually a big 'ole softie! She WANTS to please the boys and make them feel good. She WANTS to watch them cum. She's MUCH more likely than most to give out full orgasms with no strings attached ... because she's EASY! She hates that I call her that, because it goes against the reputation she wants, but ... I just tease her about that ANYWAY, because I LOVE that she's generous with her affection!
Nancy's big debut was in a 9-part Mega Tease I published for Ecik back in February of 2022. Since then, I have featured her in many, many sets. I've literally spent YEARS building up a whole mythology surrounding Nancy and hundreds of hours writing her and developing her character. The above is just a synopsis. If you want a shorter, more recent introduction to her character, take a look at this Fashion Show set I wrote for AsexualCake or this set I wrote for EdgeSlut0828. You will get a good sense of her character if you read or play through either set. Both sets took me over 20 hours to write. I probably could have slapped them with the "everyone set" label, but ... they weren't quite general enough where I felt comfortable doing that, but ... They are BOTH good sets AND good "introductions" to Nancy's character.
Tips for writing Nancy (for me )
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- Our favorite pet name for each other is "babe."
- In sets, she will refer to herself as my "girlfriend." (We're dropping the "cyber.")
- Nancy is smart, though she enjoys using conversational slang to demonstrate she is cool, connected, and DOWN WITH THE PEOPLES!
- Nancy is funny. Any time you can have her crack a joke—that is a HUGE win!
- She loves making pop culture references—especially nerdy ones!
- Nancy is playful. She likes to tease me and roast me and make fun of me. Sometimes she doesn't pull her punches, but, if she hits too hard, she'll remind me that she was "just kidding" and that she loves me.
- Nancy is an emotional creature and has range. She can be happy, sad, angry, sarcastic, doe-eyed, shy, assertive, serious, and sultry. Her mood changes based on context. So, it's hard to "write her wrong," because much can be explained away by me thinking she was in a particular "mood" ...
- Nancy is sweet and kind and caring—but she likes to joke around and have fun ... boring she is NOT!
- Nancy is selfless and altruistic. She puts the needs of others ahead of her own.
- When it comes to sex, I am more "vanilla" than her. So, she is OFTEN trying to push my boundaries and get me to try new things and torment me sexually ... Dirty things excite her, and she's often trying to entice me into going further than I normally would ... but she respects boundaries, too ...
- Nancy is excitable and LOVES to go on adventures!
- Nancy is WILD about me and tries to please me in every way she can. Likewise, I know what she is into, and I support and tease her in the ways that I can—mostly by sending her out to tease other thread members.
- Nancy and I share pleasure, so, when I orgasm—she feels that pleasure, too ... which is one of the reasons why she makes me cum so much—in addition to wanting ME to feel good and pleasure ME—her number 1 guy ...
- Nancy is a switch—like me. She likes to dominate and be dominated. If Nancy tells me to do something, I will try hard to do it, but ... Since she cares about me, she won't "abuse" me, and she'll cut things off if she deems things are going too far and I am not enjoying myself ...
- Nancy is enamored with villains and LOVES "playing the bad guy."
- If you aren't confident that you can accurately portray Nancy's tone or emotional state, have her state her mood at the start of the scene. For example:
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"I’m feeling really horny today and can’t stop thinking about your cock, Fatts. "
"I’m just so subby right now—I can’t explain it. "
"I’m so pissed off, and I don’t know why … Do you mind if I take it out on you? 
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"I’ve been in a mood to role-play today. So let’s play _____. You be the _____, and I’ll be the _____."
Kenzie Reeves has recently been promoted to the position of my "deputy girlfriend" (UNDER Nancy).
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Kenzie is CRAZY and should be written as such! The CRAZIER THE BETTER! She's obsessive AND possessive—and she LOVES my dick. Most people only score like a 5 or 6 out of 10 on the "crazy meter", so ... the more outlandish and wild you can write her—just GO for it! See if you can score a 10 (or even an 11/10 ) on the "crazy meter." There is not a lot of nuance with her character. She can be whatever version of "crazy" is "fun to write." It was basically easier to promote her to "deputy girlfriend" than it was to convince her that she was NOT in fact my "girlfriend." She understands Nancy is still the #1 bitch in my life, though ... so neither one gets jealous of the other ... but I get SUPER weak for Kenzie, and it's hard for me to tell her "no"—unless I'm not feeling it—which DOES happen, but ... if she ties me up—then OBVIOUSLY I have to do what she wants—right!?! ... and I am SUPER okay with her tying me up ...
If you have written sets for me before, then you are probably familiar with some of my old favorites. Feel free to tease me with any of those (making a reasonable attempt at "character continuity" ). I will most assuredly be sending some of my "developed characters" out to tease people. If you have a request and want to be teased by one of them, let me know. I can send her your way ...
A List of "Old Favorites" [AVOID using these unless you are familiar with the character.]
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Emily Bloom, Guerlain (aka Lily Chey), Michaela Isizzu (aka Kalena A), Melena Maria Ryabushkina, Melisa Mendiny (aka Lexa), Uma Jolie, Ashley Doll, Jenya D (aka Katie Fey), Toxic A, Leona Mia, Vanessa Angel, Mila Azul, Caprice, Elsa Jean, Gloria Sol, Malena Morgan, Kyla Cole, Sofi A, Uma Jolie, Angela White, Lorena Garcia, Kayta Clover (Mango A), Dakota Tyler, Molly Little, Kaleesy
When making a set for me ... (These are the "basics.")
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- Full orgasm at the end.
- NO denial themes—whatsoever. Don't mention it. Don't bring it up ... you'll just piss me off!
- I’m a cum slut. I often orgasm 1-3 times per day. Multiple orgasms within a set is encouraged but NOT required (but encouraged).
- Ruins are discouraged but permitted. Use them as a punishment during the set (like if I lose a game or fail a challenge). I STILL get a full orgasm at the end , but ... it will NOT be as enjoyable having ruined just prior.
- I hate fake cum countdowns with a fiery passion.
- I tend to like my women skinnier than thicker and with nice asses. Too many tattoos and piercings tends to turn me off.
- Set length: Right now, shorter is better than longer. (Even 1 or 2 scene sets are great! ) My schedule can get busy. Tell me the general length of the set when you post it so that I can budget the appropriate amount of time. Details:
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These are “ballpark” numbers, but fairly accurate for estimating time:
- Mini is 1 (or maybe 2) scenes. Usually around five edges. 10-30 pictures. Probably 20-40 minutes.
- Short is about/around 1 hour or less and/or ~30 edges or fewer. 1-4 scenes. (A typical “scene” consists of around 10-20 pictures.)
- Medium is about 1-2 hours and around 30-50 edges. 4-6 scenes.
- Long is over 2 hours, 6+ scenes, and/or 60+ edges.
- Very Long is over 80+ edges and will typically take 3-4+ hours. That many edges WILL put me into a refractory period at some point (and probably multiple times, so "mandatory breaks" ). 80 is sort of my "upper limit" with 100 being the "extreme" upper limit, and ... I *will* lose immersion and need several very long breaks, so ... I only RARELY appreciate sets of this length.
- Girls only, please. No dicks unless it’s POV.
- I’m a switch. I enjoy "being in charge," but I also enjoy being dominated. That said, I don’t like cuckolding or SPH. Dominate me sweetly or cruelly but avoid personally degrading insults (i.e. “trash” or “worthless”). Nicknames such as “slut,” “toy,” “boy,” “pet”, “stroke slave”, and “wank fiend” are all fine (and welcome).
- No scat, watersports, bloodsports. Light CBT is fine. Cum eating is meh (though maybe fun as a punishment). Hentai is fine if you're super into it and want to make me a hentai set.
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- I like tentacles. Just please keep the 3D and 2D girls partitioned separately within the set. I would prefer 3D girls right now, but … if you wanna share some of your hentai collection with me in a set, that is fine, especially since most people on this thread don’t seem to like it …
- Simple, vanilla, or “girlfriend experience” sets are fine (and maybe even preferred ). I like stories (CRAZY, funny, or serious), challenges, and games. Immersive, character-driven sets are my ABSOLUTE favorite, though simple picture-only sets are fine, too …
- I prefer text+pictures to video. (I find it to be more immersive to the experience.) Videos can be fine, though. When choosing a video, I have some suggestions ...
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- Try to keep it under 10 minutes. Try to integrate the video into the story. Provide instructions like, "Edge X number of times," or "Stroke to the beat," or "Mimic the hand motions in the POV handjob video" ... stuff like that.
DON'T hit me with a 20 minute, final "cum video" if the set was "long" ... I NEED TO CUM! 
JOI (Jerk Off Instructions) videos (with FULL ORGASMS, obviously ) could be a good choice to end on. PMVs are good. POV, too. I like bondage (especially if I am worked up ). Femdom is a pretty good choice. I LOVE POT (Post Orgasm Torture) vids of both males and females cumming ESPECIALLY when being forced to cum when bound. I am NOT usually a fan of "cumshot" pics, but ... a "cumshot compilation" video could work pretty well, here ... ANYTHING ass related would be fine.
I LOVE twerking videos , BUT ...
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- I am NOT a big fan of really big large asses shaking. Skinny girls shaking their TIGHT asses is what I crave! (I swear the Russian Twerk teams are THE BEST on the planet! ) Ashley Alban and Mandy Kay are AMAZING twerkers in my mind! BUT ... once the asses start to get bigger than theirs, my arousal starts to go down.
Some thicc asses in a picture or video compilation are welcome—and a few "fat bottomed girls" in the lineup of asses can be VERY nice ... but somehow when it comes to twerking, "bigger is NOT better" for me. For many it is, but ... not me ... the skinnier girls have less to shake and so require more skill—in my mind ... Twerk Dance Teams are a 10 for me, but ... most "amateur" twerk videos are like a 2 or 3. I am going on and on about this, because one would naively assume since I love asses that I would just LOVE *all* twerking vids, but ... that is NOT the case! Any given "influencer" who does a lot of twerking content will probably be good for me, but ... just stay away from amateur compilation vids that have a lot of big asses ... I would take non-nude galleries 10 out of 10 times compared to those!
- During the first scene, try to avoid using any edge triggers until the 10th or so pic to give me a chance to get warmed up.
Special "Mode" Rules 
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Here if you want them. TOTALLY optional ...
"Dom Mode": Normal rules are suspended. All restrictions are removed. I can cum if I want. *I* am in control. All stroking and edging is optional, and I may stroke and edge without limit.
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- This is just free stroking and edging, but ... I try to put myself into the "dom mindset." I go at my own pace. Role play in my head. Imagine or even say out loud the commands I want the sub to do, thinking about how they might respond. I immerse myself with my newfound freedom, being free from my rules to stroke and edge and do as I see fit. Great for immersion and if you want me to be dominant. After being in a submissive mindset, suddenly turning this mode "on" flips a switch in my brain that allows me to "come alive." It's VERY exciting, and I am eager to enjoy/experience my "newfound freedom." Probably best used with a few branching options, but ... when I am in this mode, I will scroll up and down through pics as I see fit to create the experience I want. Obviously, text enhances the experience, but ... a set of ONLY pictures with NO TEXT could also work. I'm a cumslut, so ... assume I will cum during the scene, UNLESS you provide narrative incentives NOT to, but ... as *I* am in control, it will be MY decision.
"Teasing Sub Mode": My normal rules are in effect, but the limits are removed. I have to do the minimum number of strokes and edges per pic, but I can do more strokes and edges—as many as I like. I am NOT allowed to cum during this mode.
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- This is a situation where I am in control and the dominant sex partner, but there is a back-and-forth of teasing, with the sub sometimes forcing actions on my part. (Like if she flashes her naked ass, that will force me to edge. ) I can reject requests she makes, because "I am in control." (If she asks me to edge for her pussy, I might say, "No," whereas in "Normal Mode" that would be "forced" ... or, I could edge for it 5 times when normally it would just be once.) Mostly, this mode is a trigger and signal for me to enter into the "dom"/"I'm in control" mindset without allowing me to cum. This is good for scenes where my partner is submissive (but you want me to hold back my cum) or where we mutually tease each other but the dominant/submissive roles are not defined.
"Torment Mode": The girlies can put me into "Torment Mode" which adds the following rules:
- Edges are performed while squeezing my balls.
- Exposed breasts: 5 seconds of palming.
- Exposed pussy: 7 ball slaps, each harder than the last.
Torment mode lasts until the end of the scene or gallery unless otherwise specified.
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- Pain by itself does not arouse me. Being dominated and forced to do things I don't like can. The idea of "punishment" arouses me , so if "Torment Mode" is enabled as a "punishment," be sure to mention that, as that will help with immersion and "scene effectiveness." Sometimes, a "change of sensation" (a little bit of pain) can help to make things interesting. I will not do ball hits harder than "medium." (Don't even ask. ) Feel free to throw some dick slaps in there if you want to mix it up. (Those can be hard. My shaft can take a LOT more punishment than my balls can! )
Palming can get REALLY uncomfortable for me. 5 seconds is tolerable—a change of sensation and a reminder that I am NOT in control. 15 seconds is a PUNISHMENT for me. If the mistress is pissed and REALLY wants to punish me, 15 seconds (several times ) would be appropriate ... 30 seconds is, "Oh, FUCK—I don't like this! This isn't fun anymore ... PLEASE make it stop! " Do not make me palm for more than 30 seconds at a time. 2 minutes total of palming would make me nervous and kind of scared—appropriate if I screwed up pretty bad. If you do 5 minutes of palming, someone better have died!
Toys
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Belts, ropes, shoelaces, etc with which to bind myself.
Magic wand vibrator and variable speed adjuster
-with hummingbird attachment.
-with anal attachment. (It doesn't work well, however, I CAN use it as a butt plug.)
The vibrator has two factory settings (high and very high), but, I can use the modulator to adjust it to roughly 6 discernable vibration settings:
Vibrator modes
1 teasing (possible to cum, but must be VERY aroused and not cum earlier in the day)
2 light
3 medium-low
4 medium
5 high (factory standard "low" setting)
6 extremely high (factory standard "high" setting)
The vibrator heats up and becomes unusable after 25 minutes and needs to cool down for 30 min. However, if you use a setting below medium, it can go indefinitely.
Suggestions on using the vibrator …
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I prefer to be tied up (computer chair or bed—see below) with hands bound while the vibrator is going with either a video playing or an autoscrolling slideshow (like scrolller). I can scroll through a tease or slideshow while bound, however; I just put my hands behind my back in between using the mouse.
The vibrator can be used without bondage. It stimulates my cock in a different way than my hand, so ... If you are trying to get me to cum more than 3 times in a single set, sometimes using the vibrator helps get my limp, fatigued dick harder more quickly due to the change in sensation. Feel free to use it just as a tease. Placing it between my ass and balls while using my normal stroking rules can be quite effective. POT generally isn't effective on me. However, pressing the vibe against my head after I have cum might work.
After stroking and edging for a while, putting it on extremely high has made me cum as quick as 90 seconds and usually within 3 minutes.
Trying to avoid cumming while the setting is high (ESPECIALLY if there is a punishment involved ) has been fun. Also, trying to "cum in time" before the end of a video when the setting is low has also been really fun. You have all the numbers and stats. If you want, get creative and try something out.
Being “at the computer” …
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- is good if you need me to use the mouse to scroll around or set timers as well as adjust the vibe speed. Legs tied together (or apart) still gives me that “feeling of helplessness”, and the vibe attached to my dick takes away a LOT of the feeling of control. I can also slip on some “handcuffs” to limit my movement during certain parts. (They are thick, adjustable ropes that “feel tight” and take some maneuvering to loosen—but don’t lock. [Safety! ])
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- pretty much sounds like it is. I lay on my back. Usually, I have the vibe hang down (off of a chair I place on the bed), but I can also tie the wand to my leg or across my chest. In this position, I can tie my hands to the headboard of the bed and set up my tablet so that I can view it easily while laying down on my back. This position is better for longer videos since if my hands are tied up, I can’t move them to adjust the vibe speed or scroll around or click new videos that easily. This position allows me to really relax, but, ALSO, can make me feel REALLY helpless—much more than being chair-tied. So, less control, more helpless.
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- HOWEVER … it does not work so well with my setup. The vibe is usually not tight enough or in the correct position to REALLY make it work most of the time, and, USUALLY, if I shift my hips, I can shift the vibe to a spot where the POT becomes MUCH less … and also, sometimes, it just feels fine. Too many variables like angle and vibe setting and cock hardness all play a role, and USUALLY it just doesn’t work … PLUS I am not “truly” bound … but, feel free to give it a try. Sometimes a high setting can be uncomfortable after, but … just be prepared that it might not work ... HOWEVER ... if I am chair-tied and can more easily get freed, I COULD press the sleeve+vibe or vibe harder on my penis after I cum, and it MIGHT work ...
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- You can have me set a countdown timer that repeats. (So do "chair-tied," because I need to click around.) 60 seconds per picture is pretty good. If there is text and the girl/position is gorgeous, 2 minutes might be alright … No text—30 seconds is probably good (unless the picture is AMAZING )—but WITH text in the context of a scene with some immersion … probably 1 minute is better (with perhaps 2 minutes for AMAZING poses), because reading the text takes time, so … I have found that 30 seconds is too short, because by the time I have read the text and processed it and then started looking at the picture, there is little time to enjoy it and the experience.
Using the vibrator while bound takes a non-insignificant amount of time to set up. So, if you are going to do it, make it last more than one scene or make the scene extra long.
Normally, I am not into long videos ... EXCEPT when doing stuff with the vibrator. 20, 30, or even 60 minute videos would all be FINE —just make sure to use an appropriate setting and give me some instructions (like "avoid cumming" or "cumming in time").
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- You can do an ONLY video and vibrator set for me! I would LOVE that! Mostly videos would make it easy to write ...
- The vibrator has 6 settings. 1 is low. 6 is highest. You can change the vibe setting during the tease—or not. For a chair-based "pictures" tease/scene, it is quite easy to change the setting.
- On 5 or 6, the vibrator will begin to overheat around 25 minutes. Just make sure that you keep the setting on 3 or lower if you want it to go for a while. (... and it CAN on "3"—for HOURS ...)
- You can set a goal/target where you want me to cum either as often or as little as possible. Feel free to assign additional tasks/homework/punishments to complete as a consequence if I fail. These can also be decided after I post feedback.
A few examples of vibrator+boundage tasks/teases ...
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- The first video is 5 minutes on setting "2", followed by an 8 minute video on setting "6." Basically, a GUARANTEED orgasm!
Or, Video 1 is 3 minutes on setting "5." Video 2 is 12 minutes on "4", and I am instructed NOT to cum ... and then Video 3 is 40 minutes long but on setting "1", and I am instructed to cum before the video ends.
Tips on Set Creation ... (These are extra, optional, and MUCH more in-depth, with
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- I am a "sigma male." If I don't like the direction a set is going, I'll rewrite the script, and take the course of action that *I* want. You'll hear about it in the feedback where I will explain to you the unexpected "alternate" course that *I* "imagined" and took instead.
- The standard “cum at the end” of the set is fine. HOWEVER … I *do* enjoy cumming multiple times in a single masturbatory session.
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- My refractory period is relatively short. [My record is cumming 5 times (full, not ruined orgasms) in a single hour. Not looking to set a new record any time soon , but … just a stat so that you are aware. ] Cumming once is not usually enough for me. 2-3 times is typical, but … having just 1 orgasm at the end of a set is fine …
- If there are multiple orgasms in the set, I may break it up and play the set across multiple sessions. If you want me NOT to do that, explicitly state that in the opening and tell me I must complete the set in a single session. (For example, if you want to “drain me dry,” or it’s a punishment set or something … Don’t forget to include your estimation of the set length.)
- For shorter sets 1 orgasm is fine. Even with a medium (or even long), 1 orgasm is fine. With multiple orgasms, just note that my stamina will decrease with each one. After 30 edges or so, I am *usually* at the peak for having a VERY big, strong, and POWERFUL orgasm, so …
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- if you are looking to “maximize my pleasure” , somewhere around 30 would be the time for orgasm #1. Then, after that, lower the number edges before the next orgasm—say 10-20 … and then maybe just 5-10 before orgasm #3 … just be aware of my flagging stamina and consider tapering edges with set length. Also, you can put in breaks. Switching things up to a video or vibrator for later stage orgasms can REALLY help. The change in stimulation or sensation can REALLY liven things up. I used my vibe for a couple of the orgasms that time I set the record … also was trying to do as many Os as I could in the last hour before NNN 2022 started, so … THAT ALSO gave me some motivation!
- Timers are really helpful to improve engagement.
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- If I have to complete a scene or number of strokes in a certain amount of time or do X number of edges during a video … If I cum and you want me to cum again as soon as possible, set a timer (and a consequence if I don’t make it ). When I am warmed up, 1 edge a minute is DEFINITELY possible. I can also edge multiple times per minute, but too many too close together can send me into a mini refractory period.
- You can make me a set where I cum every scene. That is fine. Chabo once did this for me, and it was GREAT! I actually ended up having 8 orgasms in total and the set was played across 4 sessions … and it was only a standard-sized set with 6 scenes. Talk about efficient set writing!
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- For a set like this, I can choose when to stop, so … I can play 1 scene as a “mini set”, and then later, on say the next day, I could play 3 scenes back-to-back … Not a bad way to go!
- I enjoy “being dominated” and “feeling helpless”—especially being “forced to cum.”
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- Bondage + vibrator can be REALLY good for this, as can “metronome stroking”, but be aware I can stroke at 240 and 300 BPM for extended periods of time without edging, UNLESS I am VERY aroused (e.g. LOTS of ass pics or) or edged a lot beforehand.
- The girls can also just be nice to me and flirty/teasing/playful.
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- While getting dominated and the “loss of control” that comes with it can be VERY hot, it can be stressful, and many times I just play these to relax, so … not every set needs to be “intense.” (Probably would prefer to have “lighter” sets more often than “intense” ones … but intense ones can be SUPER fun and hot, so … if you have an idea—go for it —but … if you DON’T … I would “default” into “light/fun”.
- Punishments are really helpful.
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- Give me a task and a consequence if I fail. Love that. REALLY helps to increase arousal and engagement! I LOVE the idea of being punished … make sure the girls remind me a LOT about my failure, but … the punishment DOES need to have a “reason.” CBT can be fun, but … “Do these ball slaps as a punishment because you were “bad,”” doesn’t really work for me … that just seems random and unfair—which turns me off. So, always have a “reason” for the punishment.
- Also, I am a switch. If there are opportunities/plot arcs where *I* can be dominant in the set (or watch someone else get dominated), that is welcome—though VERY difficult to pull off … (I would know. I have tried. )
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- I LOVE the confident and dominant girls people write on here, but … if you wanna mix it up and write a REAL subby, submissive girl for me … give it a try! I don’t think I have EVER had that—that I can recall … if you wanna try it, DO IT!
- If you have a “character”/personality that you have developed for a certain model (perhaps for your #1 favorite), PLEASE share her with me, even if you don’t think she is my “type.”
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- Ecik has written me MANY well-written sets featuring Angela White—who is generally FAR too thicc for my tastes—but her fun, mischievous, and dominant personality … We ALWAYS have a good time … Good teasing is about the writing as much as it is the pics, so … if you have a character you are proud of, send her my way!
- Shorter videos are better than long. Giving me a challenge (“edge X times”), a beat to stroke to, or instructions to go with the video are all good ideas. I own a vibrator with hummingbird attachment and enjoy self-bondage. If you take advantage of those, then long videos are preferred.
- A lot of people and/or the girls don’t really like that my rules state that I have to have a full orgasm at the end of every set. If a particular girl has an issue with that …
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- then don’t have them give me a full orgasm. Have someone who wants to do it. They don’t have to indulge me. And they can make me earn it, too. And a ruin empties out the balls, which makes the next orgasm less full–and therefore less pleasurable. So, if someone is pissed and thinks “I’m entitled,” they can ruin me first—or edge me or bust me or whatever they deem is sufficient to “earn a full orgasm” ...
This is NOT a “theme” I necessarily want to explore, by the way. Just based on experience and how this game is USUALLY played, many tease authors often end up having hang ups with my “always full orgasm at the end” rule, so … This was just put in to address that.
- With my dominant side, I like to be in control, so …
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- cumming at the end is definitely a part of that. I work really hard to hold back my cum during the set. I feel like that deserves something. I don’t really want a bunch of heavy sets right now. I’m not looking to prove myself as some sort of impressive sub. When I get together with the girls, it’s to blow off steam and have fun. The girls know what I like, so, it’s kind of disrespectful when they don’t give me what I want at the end because they know what I like and it just seems petty that they’re going to end our time together by screwing me over. If she wants to play with me, then we’re both there to have fun … That’s what I want—to have fun. I’m a cum slut.
Not everybody on this thread is. Lot of denial sluts on here. So making me cum a bunch is an option that they have that they don’t get with others ...
- Use my "Dom Mode" or "Teasing Sub Mode" to give me more control in a scene and help me "feel more dominant."
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- They help to "unshackle me from my rules" and allow me to "take charge" of a scene. You don't have to write out "everything that I do" ... If I am engaged and immersed, my imagination will "take over," and I will just conduct the fantasy the way that *I* want in my head!
- I am actually not 100% opposed to denial, BUT ...
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- I have to agree to it first, so ... Either *I* will suggest or offer it—as an option to the mistress—which is rare ... OR, she can request I give her the opportunity to deny me, but ... such a request MUST be made in the context of a specially-crafted 1 scene mini set (or longer) where she makes me cum at the end [It's a "freebie" that doesn't count towards our set exchange.] ... I don't like this BULLSHIT where the girls float "denial" in my regular sets ... I fucking HATE that shit!
I am NOT interested in that 
—my regular sets getting clogged up with BULLSHIT "denial sales pitches!" Denying ME is a PRIVILEGE not a RIGHT! If you don't like that I cum full at the end of EVERY session—THEN DON'T FUCKING AGREE TO PLAY WITH ME! I'm not some spineless, subby WANKER with no agency! I am NOT going to be randomly denied on some bullshit WHIM 
... it has to be something that I CHOOSE, so ... IF a mistress wants to deny me—make your fucking pitch—BITCH! You've got ONE SCENE to try to seduce and convince me, and ... if you DO—then I will AGREE TO IT—BUT ... if I don't want to—because your sales pitch was SHIT—then at LEAST I get a free, full orgasm out of it, so ... it wouldn't have been a COMPLETE waste of my time , so ... "THOSE IS THE RULES" when it comes to fucking "denial sales pitches" ...
Special Set Requests
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If you think you have an idea that I'll like—go for it, man! Some of the BEST sets come organically from creative ideas, so ... if you think you have a good idea for me—then run with it!
General Requests
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- If you have a favorite character—send her my way! I just LOVE character-driven sets ...
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- ... even if you don't think she's my "type"—send her anyway! I am SURE that you can concoct some reason that she would want to play with me ... and if you can't—have Nancy "arrange it" and "force me" to submit to her ... I'll do just about anything for Nancy , so ... if she "orders me" to be the slave or temporary lover for her friend ... I would TOTALLY do it—as a favor to Nancy ... and THEN—since Nancy "appeared in the set"—you can just end the set with a "Nancy scene" where she makes me cum ... if you aren't certain that I will like it, but ... PROBABLY I will—because well-developed characters make sets VERY engaging to me ...
... and if you are going to feature her—then FEATURE her! "Solo model sets" (that only contain a single model) are risky (What if the person doesn't like the model? ), but ... if this chick is your FAVORITE ... then I am SURE you can write her well, so ... don't be afraid to use her a LOT in the set!
- It's SUMMER TIME where I live ...
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- ... so "vacation-themed" sets are IN! Send me on vacation—anywhere —and have me meet some lovely ladies who are looking to have a good time ... Flirty fun—a hot and heavy "summer romance" ... a "one night stand"—poolside blowjob ... or maybe write your own fan fiction version of "The Hangover" ...
Or ... better YET ... send me on vacation with NANCY —and have us get into trouble and shenanigans and adventures!
Remember: I can cum MULTIPLE TIMES in a set, so ... if you have some larger story/tease session/experience in mind, then ... having me cum once at the end is FINE, but ... if you were going to do a bunch of random one-off scenes ANYWAY ... Then why not just have me cum at the end of EVERY SCENE!?!?! I can take breaks and split it up over however many sessions I want—and trust me ... just ONE well-written scene is enough to work me up to the point where I want to cum , so ... no large "build up" is necessary ... I would MUCH rather have a "vacation" where I cum 5 times than "just once." Just let me know it is a "multi-cum, play at your own pace" type of set in the initial description ...
Specific Requests 
(My "Fantasy Wish List" ...)
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These set requests are NOT for the faint of heart! They are VERY SPECIFIC sets/experiences/fantasies that I have OFTEN wished I could have ... but ... Something THIS specific is QUITE restricting and probably would feel more like a creative writing "homework assignment" than a "leisure activity," and ... set construction is supposed to be FUN! And THESE sets will require MAXIMUM effort and focus ... so ... if ANY of these "feel like a chore"—then DON'T DO THEM! With these ones ... I am looking for someone who is EXCITED for the challenge—and is ALSO a VERY capable writer , so ... don't pull one of these off of the "Quest Board"—Adventurer —unless you are CONFIDENT that you can pull it off. Some are easier than others, and I will "rate" the difficult of each one, but ... you CANNOT "half-ass" these or just "do them because I am asking" ... They need to be GOOD and well-written. I would rather just not have them at all then for them to be mediocre and end the set "disappointed" that my dream didn't come true! PROBABLY no one will take these up—and that would be FINE, but ... who knows? Someone MIGHT—and so I decided to write them up and post them. So ... hopefully THAT is enough to scare away the "riffraff" and people who might not take it seriously, but ... if after reading ALL of that ... and you STILL want to do it—but aren't sure ...
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- ... then you probably SHOULD!
Details coming later ...
- Revenge set (Addict may claim? )
- "The one that got away ..."
- A promise made, a promise kept ...
- Getting drained SOFTLY ...
- Volunteering for a CRUEL experiment ...
- Getting taken advantage of by CRAZY!
Rules last updated September 8, 2025.
Sets I need to play:[Updated September 8, 2025.]
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- These are both currently on the back burner to play.
- Addict's "double" vacation/beach return set
- Addict's "blackmail" set
Current To Do List [Updated September 8, 2025.]
- Write Reptil a "beach" return set.
- Write Ecik a "lust angel" return set.
- Write BBC_sub a return set.
- Do the thread "set exchange +/-" update.
"Back burner" To Do List ... (stuff which may or may not ever get done
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- Write "Part 4" of the "Kay J visit" series.
- Write Addict an "Ashley Doll" set.
- Write the special set for Ecik. (DANCE PARTY! )
- Write the edge record-breaker set for EdgeSlut0828.
- Write Chabo feedback on his excellent “club” set and "reopen" his special "club" and start an "everyone set" thread game ...
- Return set for lmind's August 20, 2024 set.
- Special "summer" set for brian.
- Melena Maria owes brian a full orgasm for following through on his pledge to Uma.
- Return set for benbron's June 25, 2024 set (if he ever becomes active again).
I'm BACK!! 
