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sexylama wrote:I'm looking for a sub. Gender doesn't matter. (Though I'm not much into cross-dressers or sissies, so if you need that, I'm not your dom. Sorry.) I do not want someone to grovel. I HATE anything that sounds complaining. You CHOOSE to do this. If you want to have an equal play relationship, I'm for that, but if you want me to control you, let me control you. You can inform me of when you're uncomfortable, and wish to stop, but don't whine and still want to do it. My mind just doesn't comprehend that behavior.

I don't punish, but I am getting more of a "scolding" thing, so there's that if you're a bad boy or girl.

I also don't do pain. If you want pain, I will allow it, bu I am not responsible for it.

I also don't do denial. I will tease and delay, but you will be allowed to cum before going to bed that night. I might be into denial if someone can handle it without making me feel guilty about it. Hence, read above about complaining.

I do enjoy being in control, but I have a very soft spot (that is also easily annoyed if you're the one that came in knowing what you signed up for), so that's why I don't want complaining.

I am sexylama and am in chat quite a bit on days I'm on there, but there are days in between I'm not there at all. If we work out, I'll give you my email so we can do that while I'm not in chat.

I also don't do humiliation.

Any gear or toy play depends on what you have in hand.