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I really like this idea.
I have a very sexy female co-worker who I wish would control my orgasms. She likes to take off her shoes at work a lot, which extremely turns me on, so it's not hard to imagine she does it to tease me.
Too bad she doesn't have an online journal, so I'd have to come up with another idea.
Maybe I'll set up the rule to only cum when she wears something of a certain color.

As for the punishment, if you're into financial domination, maybe you could set up a punishment fee for cumming without permission. To not make it to weird, you could pay to a professional dominatrix, or just some organization and only pretend it's to her.

I've tried this with an online friend of a good 10 years or so and before I mentioned my kinks to her I used to only allow myself pleasure when she text. Fortunately she texts a lot and still does so I never had to wait long :)

She's never really enjoyed taking control even when I throw money at her. She loves the money of course but just not dominating enough to play. Perhaps I should try your Facebook rules as she rarely updates that and just spend the money myself for once as I've run out of ways to try and get her interested in taking control and my wallets getting lighter >.<

She is an ex but my first so it's not a stalking thing and we've both moved on.

With the number thing, if she puts more than one number in the message you could go with the average of all of the numbers mentioned.

herlilbitch wrote: -If she ever mentions her boyfriend on her facebook, I have to have a ruined orgasm and eat all of my cum (I'll be pretending it's his)

Get one of these tonight

Interesting topic and discussion. I personally don't see this as "stalking" since all the information you have about her is stuff that she is choosing to share with her Facebook friends and you are one of those friends.

Which reminds me, you should consider that the worst case scenario for sending her $ is that she decides to un-friend you. Or, her boyfriend doesn't like it and convinces her to un-friend you. Or... well, you get the idea.

herlilbitch wrote:No ideas for a punishment?

How about something like this:
1. No looking at her Facebook info for 1 day. (I'm guessing that you check it multiple times per day now). Each time you cheat, the punishment goes up by 1 day.
2. For your next orgasm, pick out your least attractive/sexy/desirable female facebook friend. Use her account instead of your sexy ex's. Same rules about when you get to cum, but all fantasizing must be done using the less attractive girl. You can imagine that your ex has "loaned you out" to service a needy friend or something.

slutty1 wrote:Interesting topic and discussion. I personally don't see this as "stalking" since all the information you have about her is stuff that she is choosing to share with her Facebook friends and you are one of those friends.

Which reminds me, you should consider that the worst case scenario for sending her $ is that she decides to un-friend you. Or, her boyfriend doesn't like it and convinces her to un-friend you. Or... well, you get the idea.

herlilbitch wrote:No ideas for a punishment?

How about something like this:
1. No looking at her Facebook info for 1 day. (I'm guessing that you check it multiple times per day now). Each time you cheat, the punishment goes up by 1 day.
2. For your next orgasm, pick out your least attractive/sexy/desirable female facebook friend. Use her account instead of your sexy ex's. Same rules about when you get to cum, but all fantasizing must be done using the less attractive girl. You can imagine that your ex has "loaned you out" to service a needy friend or something.

Ya I guess that could be worst case scenario... but it's still not that bad. And I just wanna giver her my money sooooooooo much. I just love the idea of her using my money to buy sexy outfits, go on dates with her boyfriend, get drunk at the clubs, etc. I mean she's a college student working on ton of hours a week for what I'm guessing is close to minimum wage. Could she really turn down, say a free $2,000?

Also, I really like the idea of her loaning her out to her friends. Sounds hot lol.

you should just be like me...i have an x-wife...but we worked things out sort of, she has boyfriends/girlfriends and i have other girlfriends...but we still fuck, and she still dominates and plays with me when we both have a little free time...cyber stalking is a waste of time..get the real thing or go to a strip club! yahoo!

Cider wrote:you should just be like me...i have an x-wife...but we worked things out sort of, she has boyfriends/girlfriends and i have other girlfriends...but we still fuck, and she still dominates and plays with me when we both have a little free time...cyber stalking is a waste of time..get the real thing or go to a strip club! yahoo!

I mean I would obv love this but its pretty hard to work things out when she refuses to talk to me. That's one of the main reasons I wanna ask if I can giver her money, because there's an ok chance she says yes and if she does it opens us up to communicating again. Which could lead us to having some kind of relationship which I would like, even if it wasn't sexual at all.

Thinking more about the financial domination thing. We will both be graduating from a very expensive school this year. I think it would be really hot if I paid off her student loans for her, and think it would be pretty hard for her to say no to that offer.

i wouldnt say no!

Wouldn't say no even if it was from an ex boyfriend who you hate and haven't talked to in 3 years?

seriously dude. From anybody.

I saw her today for the first time in months and WOW. She's so freaking hot. She got her hair done and it looks great. She had short shorts on showing off her perfect legs and flip flops so I got to see her amazing feet. I honestly can't believe she ever let my worthless dick touch her, she is way too hot for me. I would literally do anything for this girl!

This very well might be the creepiest thread I've seen on here yet. You need to quit living in the past or your future will suffer. Time to move on and let her go.