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dark wrote:I recognized some women since i am surfin in the internet about BDSM who abuses BDSM to make revenge to all men. I think this is a shame, maybe i will write an article about, because i exposed a lot about this phenomenon the last weeks.

I think most women,who practice BDSM had a point in their life that made them hate men.

RedruM wrote:

dark wrote:I recognized some women since i am surfin in the internet about BDSM who abuses BDSM to make revenge to all men. I think this is a shame, maybe i will write an article about, because i exposed a lot about this phenomenon the last weeks.

I think most women,who practice BDSM had a point in their life that made them hate men.

That is definetly not true. There are a lot of women who do this, because of love not of hate. Of course some women abuse submissive men but they are rare, very rare! There are also dominant men who abuse submissive women. That's just normal because on this planet are bad and good people...

A dom/sub relationship can be very lovely by both sides. It's about love and faith and there are enough women who just do it because the man ask for it to fulfill his fantasies.

RedruM wrote:I think most women,who practice BDSM had a point in their life that made them hate men.

RedruM, if I were you I would think long and hard before writing such potentially offensive generalizations -- especially on a site devoted to the free expression of loving BDSM, such as this. At best, you are not likely to make friends. At worst, you will make enemies.

And that is all I hope I'll have to say about that.

RedruM wrote: I think most women,who practice BDSM had a point in their life that made them hate men.

Plain and simply, i do it because its fun for both John and I. It turns me on to be in control of something that is so personal to him, and it gives me a rush of power that is just awesome.

Plus its a good way to get out of housework

RedruM wrote:I think most women,who practice BDSM had a point in their life that made them hate men.

Umm...no. They do it because it's fun. Likewise, we submissive males submit because it's fun. There's a lot of play with strong emotions like hate, and emotionally charged activities like force, but that's play.

If they hated men, they wouldn't do that to guys that actually enjoyed it. They'd do it to guys that were too psychologically weak to resist, but didn't enjoy it.

OOPS That seems dangerous!

Three words to live by in a D/s relationship. SAFE, SANE< CONCENTUAL. Fun for both parties and noone get hurt or abused

I think it is spellt CONSENSUAL.

Never forget our community is very international, but yeah you are right

Yeah he should smack his cock with a shoe 40 times for making a spelling mistake.

RedruM wrote:
I think most women, had a point in their life that made them hate men.

I fixed it for you.






(I'M KIDDING! I'M KIDDING!)

The KTB is not intended for long term wear. It works on the same principle as a bed of nails. The "teeth" are evenly distributed so they do not puncture the skin. I have have had one for years (although it is unusable now due to age) and have met the people who manufacture that particular one in the picture. If someone were to lose or destroy the key, it would not be difficult to escape. The teeth prevent you from sliding it off, but considering the fact that the teeth are nothing more than staples, they could easily be snipped or bent allowing you to slide it off. The device is very scary looking, but not as bad as it looks.

I own this device (the original KTB), but unfortunately, in a masochistic rush, I ordered the strictest variant; I think there were 3 types available, back in those good ole' times - mild, regular and strict, differentiated by the length of the spikes.. and I have to tell you - there is not much space left in between them..! that's why it is virtually unusable, and, another bad luck, the device is not on sale anymore.. :(

BUT - now there is this new device available:

- from http://www.fantasyleatherworks.com ..

So I have a suggestion for you, Mz Teneale, a suggestion for your next tease - why not to use this cute little ring in it..? just instruct the would-be partcipants to order one, say 1 month in advance.. :)

.. it is true, however, that this ring is a bit on the expensive side.. that's why you could consider something similar and more affordable ($40) - the MCD:
http://www.clubfem.com/mcd1.htm

I'd see this as a perfect instrument for teases with a light femdom/cbt flavor.. :))

that doesnt look light to me

Koala17 it does sound like fun...

But! Im really not that mean. I couldnt lock you guys up in that thing. It would be too tempting to unleash the inner bitch in me

Plus, i dont want you guys to think i am your keyholder or mistress or anything like that. Cos im not, nor do i want all you to be my slaves.