Re: Using denial to get in shape
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 4:12 pm
Sorry I should have said EXTEND, not endurslaveboy4u wrote:authority to end the "workout challnege" for as long as she wants
Sorry I should have said EXTEND, not endurslaveboy4u wrote:authority to end the "workout challnege" for as long as she wants
Thanks for continuing to post these updates! I enjoy reading them and imagining what it would be like to be in your shoes.urslaveboy4u wrote:Well she has now also added nightly stamina training. She chooses an amount of time and speed at which i have to stroke each night. If I cum, she will extend the workout deal for another 8 weeks, and my release may only occur every 2 weeks.
For me, it varies. If it's an online-only tease and she's really enjoying it, I'm usually in a pretty good mood. If it starts to seem like she's losing interest or doesn't care much one way or the other, then I get edgy, irritable, etc. In the last couple years, I've been lucky enough to find someone in real-life who likes teasing & denial (among other kinks). Here's the weird thing... I really don't like real-life tease & denial that lasts more than a few hours. It's just too much. The longer-term denial is been an interesting & fun way to spice up masturbation, but when it comes to real sex, well, I just don't need *that* much spice. Honestly, Lindsey, if a girl teased me the way you described, I'd love all the sexual play but would likely be frustrated (in the grumpy, irritable way) with the outcome. Unless, for example, I knew that if I held out until the next time I saw her then I'd get to turn the tables and do annnnnnything I wanted with my former tormentress. Then I might be in a better mood!Lindsey wrote:What I actually wanted to post is a question. When guys are in a prolonged state of denial, do you find yourselves in a good mood from day to day? Or do you find yourselves edgy, irritable, etc? How does it affects your daily mood?