Re: JOI/JOE Extravaganza
Posted: Mon Jul 20, 2015 5:18 pm
desertfox wrote:Man that is a holy grail of joi for me. I don't think it exists honestly, I was downloading JOI videos like crazy looking for that combination before I found this site and found more of what you described in teases and cockhero videos.book_guy wrote: 1. Hypnosis induction. She hypnotizes me into doing her bidding. I am in trance.
2. Stroke instruction. She informs me of exactly what to do with my hands, the cock, and maybe an implement or toy. Even better if SHE holds the cock or the dildo and mimics the required strokes.
3. No humiliation. She treats me as though she likes me, not as though I am a worm.
4. Countdown to cum. She toys with me, teases me to orgasm, maybe even backs off of the countdown, but eventually does countdown to cum time.
5. Hot chick. The better she looks, and the more naked she gets, the better the experience for me, of course.
I like the idea of the loss of control being an act of love, kindness and surrender rather than a hostile domination. It is nice to be ordered about, and nice, and somewhat scary to have no control over that part of your life (but then again I've never had control over that part of my life regardless of my desire for it!). But I guess that I see that the idea of a dom and sub relationship as deeply trusting, more so than a normal relationship.
It seems most people do really see kindness in the 'cruelty' though, so it might be only wanting it to be nice as the the stepping stone, not really sure. I do know the more we participate in things the more extreme we go, its human nature. So I'm not sure there, could be how i'm wired, could be that this is something that I only can explore by myself and have no real grounded reality of how it works, who knows. I find it really interesting to think about though.
Anyway on topic, I found a while ago some joi's with 'becky lasaber' I think that I liked. They were light on control but I found her very pretty and loving in how she gave out instructions (rather than robotic and cruel). I'm not sure this is the best example but with some searching maybe you can find a better one than this.
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v ... 2012331905
Very insightfull..book_guy. Thanks for the vid. blew a good load.
