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CruelNatalie wrote:

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CruelNatalie wrote:It's also a way to keep them mindful and focused on who that cock belongs to.

I require my slaves- sissy or not, to wear panties. It's MY thing and therefore it should be important to them. Right?

It's actually a really simple way of reminding someone of control and ownership without having to do any convoluted tasks etc.

Nice and simple, but a strong effect.

hahahaha convoluted! now there is nothing wrong with extremes!

But I so agree that a simple, subtle approach is seductive yet effective. I love love men in panties. Especially a very strong man who celebrates masculinity and the fact that he CAN wear them just for me.

Oh absolutely, extremes and convoluted tasks have their place, but being made to wear panties can be a really strong reminder, especially when other options aren't available.

even better when there's stainless underneath

I'm actually trans and don't even think of myself as a man. But I'm still in the closet and presenting as man a fair bit in my day to day life, and wearing panties helps me feel 'right.' In a good pair of panties I can comfortably tuck my male-bits away so they don't bother me so much (I know some transwomen are fine with having a penis, but not me) and even if i don't do that they're still tight enough to keep things fairly discrete and under control. So I wear panties 24/7, even when I'm dressed as a boy. But there's still a bit of a thrill having a mistress or master (or even just the idea of one like in a tease) telling me to wear them, or even which ones to wear. Even though it's what I would have done on my own anyway, having a dominant instruct me on it shifts it from a mundane thing to an act of submission.

I remember I was still very nervous buying my first pair though, because I was raised to 'be a man' and 'real men don't do that.' And I was worried about what the girls working there would think about it; mostly if they'd be creeped out or otherwise bothered. But most shopkeepers don't really care, as long as you're not perving all over the place while you're there. And I've gotten a few encouraging smiles or remarks as well, so I suspect there's a few who are into the idea of men in panties.

So, where do I buy them? Almost anywhere really; I prefer La Senza or La Vie En Rose, which I think are sort of Canadian versions of VS (ie. lingerie specialty chains) and can have some really good deals. I've also shopped for them at department stores, but oddly that's where I feel the least comfortable about it... maybe just because the staff there tends to be more of an older & more conservative-appearing nature. Specialty lingerie boutiques also have some really nice stuff, but they also tend to be more expensive so I tend to save them for more 'special occasion' type stuff. There's also now a few places online that sell 'manties' - panties for men, in feminine styles and materials but cut more for a man's shape (more ballroom, less hip&buttocks.)

LeanneTG wrote:I'm actually trans and don't even think of myself as a man. But I'm still in the closet and presenting as man a fair bit in my day to day life, and wearing panties helps me feel 'right.' In a good pair of panties I can comfortably tuck my male-bits away so they don't bother me so much (I know some transwomen are fine with having a penis, but not me) and even if i don't do that they're still tight enough to keep things fairly discrete and under control. So I wear panties 24/7, even when I'm dressed as a boy. But there's still a bit of a thrill having a mistress or master (or even just the idea of one like in a tease) telling me to wear them, or even which ones to wear. Even though it's what I would have done on my own anyway, having a dominant instruct me on it shifts it from a mundane thing to an act of submission.

I remember I was still very nervous buying my first pair though, because I was raised to 'be a man' and 'real men don't do that.' And I was worried about what the girls working there would think about it; mostly if they'd be creeped out or otherwise bothered. But most shopkeepers don't really care, as long as you're not perving all over the place while you're there. And I've gotten a few encouraging smiles or remarks as well, so I suspect there's a few who are into the idea of men in panties.

So, where do I buy them? Almost anywhere really; I prefer La Senza or La Vie En Rose, which I think are sort of Canadian versions of VS (ie. lingerie specialty chains) and can have some really good deals. I've also shopped for them at department stores, but oddly that's where I feel the least comfortable about it... maybe just because the staff there tends to be more of an older & more conservative-appearing nature. Specialty lingerie boutiques also have some really nice stuff, but they also tend to be more expensive so I tend to save them for more 'special occasion' type stuff. There's also now a few places online that sell 'manties' - panties for men, in feminine styles and materials but cut more for a man's shape (more ballroom, less hip&buttocks.)

Thank you for sharing your story. It's not big mystery that I enjoy tranny girls & sissies. The frillier the better. Nothing is hotter then hearing them stutter and feel them shake with embarrassment and excitement. I'll be posting real time sissies in training on my blog soon. I know that you don't identify as such but you did mention that you enjoyed being controlled. So if you have time maybe you can touch on that a little.

When instructed by a dominant to wear panties does it simply make you feel more submissive or is it erotic humiliation that is fueling you into submission?

Thanks
Nat

I enjoy the erotic humiliation of panties. I've enjoyed wearing them, using them, holding them in my mouth for online mistresses several times and it never fails to arouse me. I don't have any sissification desire it is purely for the amusement of my mistress at taking me down a few pegs.

In college, for kicks, my girlfriend at the time and I would occasionally switch underwear. Just because it was our little secret while we were out in public.

aka_ireland wrote:I enjoy the erotic humiliation of panties. I've enjoyed wearing them, using them, holding them in my mouth for online mistresses several times and it never fails to arouse me. I don't have any sissification desire it is purely for the amusement of my mistress at taking me down a few pegs.

In college, for kicks, my girlfriend at the time and I would occasionally switch underwear. Just because it was our little secret while we were out in public.

I would like to select your next panties

I like these for you


http://www.amazon.com/SISSY-pouch-panti ... 8S861VQGCV

These pics are posted by permission. I just did a call with sissy m who I have been talking to and doing panty humiliation for almost 4 years. It started with just panties and just moved deeper into all kinds of things. He now has a small collection of panties, petticoat, garters and stockings. Today we played a little game where he pretended to be a real man on cam wearing his boxers. I told him that wasn't going to do AT ALL and I started dressing him on cam.

He read my most recent blog post where I dare Lucy to get dressed and go through a drive thru. It made his willy rock hard! I think we are heading in that direction. Panties have magic and will make you do naughty things!

I have a collection of maybe 12-15 feminine panties. I only wear them when I'm doing cage-time.

Only 1 or 2 are actual ladies underwear; I find that the cut of the front panel just doesn't provide enough space! Some have been sourced online from gayboy websites; others from another site which seems to have started running a few lines of more feminine mens knickers.

My most recent purchase:


These are very soft, delicate and comfy.
I'm usually caged-up in undies more like those in my avatar.

The obvious sensations of being confined in silky fabric is more than enough to get me aroused... But I agree, it's more of a thrill when a woman has selected pair of underwear for you - Feeling her soft feminine touch influencing your man parts all day.

I suppose it has a lot do do with escaping from mundane manwear, and experiencing what it's like to feel a bit girly and objectified.

Though I do own a fair amount of man lingerie, I definitely get off on the special kind of humiliation that comes with the frills, laces and bows of women's underwear. A visual reminder that I'm snug and tight inside of the pretty panties that I always seem to be chasing.

The first time I wore girls' underwear to work, I decided to go all out with a red & black lace skirted G-string... I finally gave up even trying to keep my cock supported by the G-string, and had to settle for letting it flop out one side.

Girls' boyshorts are kinda fun to wear too. More discreet than panties. The silky feel has been replaced by tight stretchy fabric that smothers the cock and balls with attention.

When I encounter a girl, I usually wonder what her panties look like... But when I'm wearing panties in public, I also wonder if her panties are prettier than mine. Men are never supposed to feel that way... But it's the exploration that makes it fun!

I think it definitely goes beyond simply being made to feel more submissive... I'm usually prepared to submit anyway, as I enjoy being controlled sexually. The humiliation adds fuel to the fire, making me more submissive and therefore more aroused.

When you wear panties under your men's clothes do you still feel the same level of humiliation? Curious

stallionBoi wrote:The obvious sensations of being confined in silky fabric is more than enough to get me aroused... But I agree, it's more of a thrill when a woman has selected pair of underwear for you - Feeling her soft feminine touch influencing your man parts all day.

I suppose it has a lot do do with escaping from mundane manwear, and experiencing what it's like to feel a bit girly and objectified.

Though I do own a fair amount of man lingerie, I definitely get off on the special kind of humiliation that comes with the frills, laces and bows of women's underwear. A visual reminder that I'm snug and tight inside of the pretty panties that I always seem to be chasing.

The first time I wore girls' underwear to work, I decided to go all out with a red & black lace skirted G-string... I finally gave up even trying to keep my cock supported by the G-string, and had to settle for letting it flop out one side.

Girls' boyshorts are kinda fun to wear too. More discreet than panties. The silky feel has been replaced by tight stretchy fabric that smothers the cock and balls with attention.

When I encounter a girl, I usually wonder what her panties look like... But when I'm wearing panties in public, I also wonder if her panties are prettier than mine. Men are never supposed to feel that way... But it's the exploration that makes it fun!

I think it definitely goes beyond simply being made to feel more submissive... I'm usually prepared to submit anyway, as I enjoy being controlled sexually. The humiliation adds fuel to the fire, making me more submissive and therefore more aroused.

I'm not into feminization or sissification... but I do have a pair of panties that was an ex's. I had forgotten I had them for a while.

When I first did some online play, it wasn't long until someone told me to put on a pair of panties. I was like, "I don't even have... oh, wait, yes I do."

Wearing them doesn't do anything for me in and of itself, but I like giving up control, and I like bondage. Being ordered into panties is almost a softer version of being ordered into rope; just some nice control right around my privates. In that sense I like it.

CruelNatalie wrote:
Thank you for sharing your story. It's not big mystery that I enjoy tranny girls & sissies. The frillier the better. Nothing is hotter then hearing them stutter and feel them shake with embarrassment and excitement. I'll be posting real time sissies in training on my blog soon. I know that you don't identify as such but you did mention that you enjoyed being controlled. So if you have time maybe you can touch on that a little.

When instructed by a dominant to wear panties does it simply make you feel more submissive or is it erotic humiliation that is fueling you into submission?

Thanks
Nat

Hi Miss Natalie,

Sorry I didn't reply sooner, but I wanted to give an honest answer to your question and had to think about it. And honestly, I'm still not really sure... but i think it (erotic humiliation) is definitely a factor in some way. Especially when it's something that tends more towards the sissy side of things... while I don't *exactly* identify as a sissy, I did pass through that space in figuring out who i was as both a trans girl and submissive, so I don't quite disavow the identity either.