I am 42 YO, not bad looking with a penis on the small side (4.5 in when hard). I am submissive by nature and that is clearly why I married a wife is very much a take charge kind of woman - that is in all things BUT SEX! ARGH!
I am very turned on by submission and cuckoldry. AND LOVE THE WEBTEASES!!! (OLd favortie was teh taylor workout tease , as my wife leaves every day for the gym looking HOT in her LuLu Lemons
AS i said my wife is a dominant personality but very vanillia in bed and actually very uninterested in sex altogether. I have been trying to get her to come out of her shell a bit by sort of bottoming from the top - if that makes sense. That is I often submit to her without her asking. Some ways I do this are:
1) I will wake her up in the morning with oral sex, (or perfomr it at other tiems too) wihtout asking -or even allowing- her to reciprocate at all. I tell her it is just about HER pleasure and that is what turns ME on the most is making HER feel good. I have to say she no longer protests or trys to reciprocate, I see this as progress is her learning that she should in fact EXPECT such services.
2) I often kiss her goodnight on the small of her back , jsut above her sexy ass, or on her ass itself. (She likes to sleep on her stomach)
3) foot rubs while watching TV
4) during sex, I tell her to PUSH my head down to her sweet pussy to service her. She will often then ask, or beg me to do it, and I sternly tell her NO TELL me to do it,a nd PUSH me down. then she does. she has not really caught onto this one yet.
5) I ahve apologized to her after sex for my size. Telling her I know she should have something bigger/better. She jsut kissed me and said "OH Oney, you are fine". FINE! FINE!! ouch, talk about damning with faint praise. Clearly she wants more, but needs more encouragement to DEMAND it.
6) always answer the phone when she calls either "Yes my love" or "Yes my Goddess" or "Yes, Love of my life". she just shrugs this off as me being silly.
AS I alluded to above there is some progress, I think as she has said that I should wake her up that way more often (with oralsex) -although I ahve tried and been rebuffed. WE ahv also bought her her first vibrator. A pretty small one and she likes it, but never ASKS for me to use it. It is alsways my idea, and she says she "doesn't need it".
She is always very flirty in public, adn I ahve told her how hot it makes me when other men look at her, and knowing they want her. BUT she is never interested in actually having sex with me. But we do do it (it seems often out of a sense of obligation) after we go out on a date night, or on special occasions - like Valentines Day.
So , rist sorry for the long rabling post, but I wnated to intro myself and ask for any input/insight/advice/admonishments you all might have. I will post more in other threads of iterest to share more about us. I would love advice and to keep you all posted on my progress.
I am hoping on valentines night to present her with some sexy handcuffs, and encourage her share a fantacy, and they perhaps I can share one back and see how she responds. Like I fantacize about WATCHING her cum, masturbating...perhaps leading to or having sex with another man
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Hello to everybody!
