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The envelop idea was very intriguing, Lindsey. I liked how the controller could reassure the victim their secrets were safe. Of course the secrets might age or not be accurate to start with. But I am sure ways could be thought up around that. Shudder.

In being submissive it all comes down to trust and need. If you are fortbuate enough to have someone take and interest in controlling you and that is what you want, it would not make sense not to do as you are told. If it stretched a limit then begging, safe words or some type of forfiet could be introduced.

There are laws around blackmail, so really the trip has to be power exchange.

Stiil the secenario you painted sounded good and I loved Miss Tira's reaction.

Dan wrote:Hi Lindsey (and hey all),

OK, so everyone's done something they're not proud of to get revenge on someone else, or maybe just to someone they don't like. Might be something big, or something small, but something that other people would be surprised to know you've done. What's the most shocking/surprising thing you've done to someone?

I'm good for any question at all :)

- Dan

Looks like my question got way-layed , although obviously this is a huge thread to sift through! And after all, it is your at your discretion which ones you pick. have another one from a conversation at work today... if you were a man for a day what would be the first thing you'd do?

Lindsey wrote:I'm not going to apologize for the delay, as some people have already been rude enough to pick on me for it. ;) But if I missed any questions, bump them back up, and they're freebies.

-L

And neither should you. I'm very happy that you still keep this up!

I guess these kinda got lost in the mayhem:
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 491#p11491
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 502#p11502
or maybe they weren't interesting enough?

Oh, and for that quantum mechanics question. was the answer you were looking for maybe "Orsay, Paris" by Alain Aspect during 1981/1982 (Bell test experiments)?
It's all very fascinating to read about but oh so very complicated.

jp wrote:Here's one to think about...

Pick a part of your body. How would you use that part of your body to make a guy want it more than any other part of your body? (For bonus points, be more creative than picking the obvious choices of your pussy, breasts, or ass.)


And once again, not that it matters, you can ask me any sort of question.

You're getting good at coming up with questions. These 2 are definitely what I had hoped this would turn into. Well done.

Any sort of question huh? ;)

Have you ever masturbated while looking at a picture of someone you were in a platonic relationship with...someone that was unaware of it. If so, tell us who she was, and tell us about the picture.

If not...have you ever masturbated while looking at a picture of me? You can tell the class about that, in detail.

jp wrote:I thought of another one, and I might as well ask it before I forget it.

You and your boyfriend just had sex an hour ago. He's now watching his favorite football team play their most important game of the year. You're in the mood for sex again, he's obviously not. How would you convince him to turn off his game and go have sex with you?

Shutting off the TV or blatantly distracting him will probably just make him mad and wouldn't work... but I think you knew that.

Any question works in return.

I know how bad you want to see what i'm going to do with this one. ;)

What is dipole moment of the chemical compound present in the earth's atmosphere which absorbs the majority of the radiation entering from space?

-L

And sorry I missed you two...give me a little while and i'll make good on it. ;)

-L

Lindsey wrote: What is dipole moment of the chemical compound present in the earth's atmosphere which absorbs the majority of the radiation entering from space?

0.5337 D.

foofoof wrote: 0.5337 D.

Ozone is incorrect.

-L

Dan wrote:Hi Lindsey (and hey all),

OK, so everyone's done something they're not proud of to get revenge on someone else, or maybe just to someone they don't like. Might be something big, or something small, but something that other people would be surprised to know you've done. What's the most shocking/surprising thing you've done to someone?

I'm good for any question at all :)

- Dan

I've been sitting here thinking about this for a few minutes, and I honestly can't think of a single time i've gotten revenge on someone. When I don't like someone, or someone does something to hurt me intentionally, I just remove them from my life. If someone has hurt me unintentionally, I do what I can to understand they didn't mean it and get on with my life once things have passed. But I can't recall a single time in my life where i've gotten revenge on someone. Not that it's never crossed my mind, i've just never acted on it.

Though i've definitely done things to hurt people, and did it knowing I was going to hurt them. When I was 17 I just plain up and left with my boyfriend, for weeks. I didn't tell my family I was going, they just woke up one morning and I was gone. The two of us drove across most of the country, spent some time together, and we came back. I had a few bad years when I was younger where I had a lot of self-destructive behavior. I'm pretty lucky to still be here.

Dan wrote: Looks like my question got way-layed , although obviously this is a huge thread to sift through! And after all, it is your at your discretion which ones you pick. have another one from a conversation at work today... if you were a man for a day what would be the first thing you'd do?

Besides the obvious thing...having sex to see what it's like...? ;)

I'd want to see what it's like to be in social situations. At a bar, restaurant, party, at work....anywhere really. I'm curious as to what the dynamic with people would be like if my personality didn't change, but my sex did. I want to see what it's like in places I can't go( the bathroom, obviously). I suppose i'm most curious as to what it would be like to hang out with my 'dude friends', and whether or not we'd talk about how good our girlfriends are in bed. ;) I have a lot in common with most guys. I grew up with an older brother, and my Dad...both of whom I was closer with than my sister. So I guess I have a little bit of tom-boy in me. I've always wondered what the guys are like when i'm not around them.

It's tough being a girl, as a lot of girls are very caddy and twofaced...and guys mostly just want sex. That's fine of course, but i'd be curious to see what it's like to go through life knowing that most of the people you meet aren't putting up a facade for you. If they act like they like you, you know they do. They're not just trying to have sex with you. ;) Not that I don't have any girlfriends who are genuine people, they're just hard to come by. It would be nice to know people without worrying if they have an agenda or not.

Eh...I don't have a very good answer for you i'm afraid. As trivial as it sounds, i'd be most curious about how funny it would be to pee in a urinal with other dudes standing next to me...so maybe I could say, "so...how 'bout them Yankees?".

-L

Lindsey wrote:Apologies for the delayed responses! I hope this makes up for it!

Foxhawke wrote: And I have another one, actually, this one will hopefully trigger an interesting story (fingers crossed), inspired by your reply to lucifers-pet when he was stuck at a hotel. Name an item that one usually wouldn't think of as sex-related that you have used either alone or with someone else in a sex-related way, and go into as much detail as you're comfortable with. :)

At one point in time I was fascinated (and I suppose I still am) with the idea of taking an object that had nothing to do with sex, and making it so all a guy had to do was look at it, and he'd start getting hard.

My ex boyfriend had a baseball hat that he never wore. I'm not even sure where he got it, but it always just sat on the coat rack in his room...under his coats. We were in bed one night, having quite a nice time, might I add...and something popped into my head...I don't know how I never thought of it before, but I contained myself until the moment was right to implement it.

I was on top of him, leaning myself over his body, wearing nothing but a bra. He always was kind of fascinated with my cleavage, so when I wanted to push him over the edge, i'd lean over him like that and bring my chest nice and close to him...start moving very very slowly on his cock. I felt him getting pushed over the edge, just about ready to cum in me. I got up off his cock, off the bed, and grabbed the baseball hat and I put it on. I got back on top of him, grabbed his chin with my hand and tilted his head up at me as I grabbed his shaft with my other hand and put him back inside me. I just looked down at him and said, "eyes up here...". I fucked him relentlessly until he was cumming inside me.

For weeks, every time we had sex...i'd go put that baseball hat on right before I made him cum. Every single time. And every time, i'd make sure that he was looking up at me wearing it while he had an orgasm inside me. If I gave him a blowjob, i'd be wearing it. Any time he came, it was there.

After I thought I had reinforced things enough, I decided to have a little fun with it. We had plans to go see a show with some friends on a Friday night. I slept over his place the night before, and before i left for work in the morning, I made sure I grabbed the baseball hat and took it with me. When we met up with our friends after work, I made sure I was wearing it. The look on his face was priceless. We were at a restaurant having dinner before the show, and he didn't even get up to give me a hug. He said he couldn't. ;)

I've since done that with other things as well. Neckties, scarves...having a guy say my name every time he cums with me...;) It's definitely a lot of fun.

-L


P.S. I couldn't find a question in your 2nd link.

our friend Lindsey wrote:I already mentioned the first time I gave a guy an orgasm, which was the first time I had sex. But I can tell you about the first orgasm I had with a guy....

Thanks for that, Lindsey. I definitely enjoyed reading your story and picturing you in that situation, trying so hard to hold back that much-anticipated orgasm that was sooooo close. I'm sure I'm not the only one reading this thread who can relate to what it feels like to try to refrain from cumming like that!

jp wrote:
Is it really fun to ask questions that you already know the answer to?

Yes. Yes it is. ;)

Any part of my body? Normally, i'd do something like play games with forcing eye contact and taking it away. But i'm assuming you mean an actual body part. Let's pick one...my thigh.

I'd let you know right from the start, that the only way you were going to cum this particular night would be by rubbing your cock up and down on my thigh. Doesn't sound like a very appealing body part, in consideration of what else you could be rubbing your cock up against, or what you could be putting your cock *in*, does it? ;)

I'd lay down on the bed on my back, and have you get on all fours, above me. I'd reach down and start stroking your cock, while we were eye to eye...not breaking eve contact with you for a second. You'd be there, with your hands planted on either side of my shoulders, and your knees on either side of my hips, and i'd continue to stroke you. To lube your cock up, i'd either have you spit into my hand on command, or i'd just keep some nice lube on the bed next to me. I'd look up at you and say, "Don't take your eyes off mine, no matter what. And you let me know when you're ready to rub yourself on my thigh and cum". I'd jerk you off until you were on the edge of cumming, your arms and legs quivering...so you wanted nothing more than to just let yourself down and rub your cock on my thigh, looking up into my eyes while you came all over my soft, smooth skin. When you told me you were ready and asked me for it, i'd say, "No...not yet, I don't think you want it bad enough...get off me".

I'd plant my foot so my leg was bent at the knee, and you'd be on the bed beside me. I'd tell you to put your hands behind your back and ask you if you wanted to put your mouth to my thigh. If you said yes, i'd tell you to...mouth only no hands, and definitely not your cock. Mmmm, my skin would feel so soft, wouldn't it? Seems a little more inviting to rub yourself on right now, doesn't it? Maybe even to cum on?

Next i'd have you sit on the side of the bed. I'd get on my knees in front of you and take you into my mouth. But before I did, i'd tell you..."Don't you fucking look at me. If I catch you looking at me, i'm leaving, and you won't cum at all tonight...stare straight ahead at the wall in front of you, and don't you dare look down at me sucking your cock". I'd suck you off relentlessly....letting up every time I felt your cock start to twitch and I knew you were close to cumming. The rules would be the same again...you would tell me when you couldn't take it anymore and wanted permission to cum on my thigh. When you did, i'd take my mouth off of you cock and say, "My thigh? No...you're not rubbing your cock on it yet. Maybe if you ask nicely i'll let you look at my thigh right now...do you want to look at my thigh while you stroke yourself?". You'd say yes...I would think. ;) I'd squirt a little lube in your hand and tell you to start stroking yourself...but not to look at my thigh until I gave you permission.

I'd let you edge yourself up nicely, sitting at the edge of the bed, with me on the floor under you...i'd sit just like I was when I let you put your mouth against my thigh before...you'd be staring straight ahead, repeatedly asking me for permission to look at my legs. I'd say no, and no again, and no again. And when I thought you were so close to cumming you may let yourself my accident. I'd say, "Ok...if you want to look at my thigh, hands off your cock. When you take your hands off, you can look". After tormenting you like that, i'd let you touch with your hands that time, and not just your mouth.

I wonder if you'd have a little bit of desire to rub yourself on my thigh by then. It would probably be nice to feel yourself rubbing back and forth against my smooth, soft, warm skin...your cock just a few inches below my pussy, but knowing that you wouldn't feel what it was like to be inside me.

Care to move on to another body part first? We still have my cleavage and my pussy left before you even have a chance at cumming all over my legs. Or maybe I would give you a chance....at that point, what would you do if I gave you the choice?...I would either let you fuck me, or i'd get on top of you and fuck your brains out. Or...you could cum on my thigh. I'd lay down on the bed, and you'd get on top of me...rubbing your shaft up and down, back and forth against my leg...looking up at me while I locked eyes with you...my hand on the back of your head, massaging your scalp...my other hand on your hip, reinforcing your motions as you humped yourself up and down against my leg, getting ready to explode and let your warm thick semen ooze out all over me. When you finally did cum, i'd tell you to rub your cock on my thigh, and wipe up every last bit of it off me...so you could kneel down with your cock right in front of my mouth and let me take you inside me and clean every last bit of cum off your dick with my tongue...

Which would you pick at that moment in time? You would fuck my pussy, but not cum...or you could rube yourself on my thigh and have a body quivering orgasm before collapsing on me with my arms wrapped around you. If you didn't want my thigh bad enough yet, i'm sure I could do things with my pussy and my cleavage that would change your mind about it. But i'm guessing your decision would more than likely be made by then....or would it?

-L

jp wrote:
I think this question might need some clarification before I can answer it.

What type of radiation are we talking about here? UV? Visible? Infrared? The different wavelengths are absorbed differently by specific compounds.

Edit: Actually, I'm going to take a guess... it's an educated guess, so I don't feel bad about it.

The dipole moment is Zero.

I feel safe in saying that because the primary chemical compounds found in the atmosphere have dipole moments of Zero.

Zero is incorrect. It's a relatively large dipole moment. If you take all types and frequencies of radiation into consideration, this chemical absorbs the most of it. Upwards of 70%. There are 2 big hints in that statement. ;)

-L

Lindsey wrote:
Any part of my body? Normally, i'd do something like play games with forcing eye contact and taking it away. But i'm assuming you mean an actual body part. Let's pick one...my thigh.

I'd let you know right from the start, that the only way you were going to cum this particular night would be by rubbing your cock up and down on my thigh. Doesn't sound like a very appealing body part, in consideration of what else you could be rubbing your cock up against, or what you could be putting your cock *in*, does it? ;)
..........................

Which would you pick at that moment in time? You would fuck my pussy, but not cum...or you could rube yourself on my thigh and have a body quivering orgasm before collapsing on me with my arms wrapped around you. If you didn't want my thigh bad enough yet, i'm sure I could do things with my pussy and my cleavage that would change your mind about it. But i'm guessing your decision would more than likely be made by then....or would it?

-L

Oh my! That is quite the picture you have burned into the imagination here.

You are so wickedly awesome Lyndsey. What a great post! Where do you come up with these ideas?

Thanks for making my head spin

brian

wow. I wouldn't be surprised if I get a little hard the next time I see a baseball cap or similar on a coat hanger in the future!

Lindsey wrote:P.S. I couldn't find a question in your 2nd link.

The second link was my answer to your question. I haven't managed to come up with another good question yet.

jp wrote:Oh, I meant to reply to you. "Orsay, Paris" is not the correct answer, either. The experiment Lindsey was thinking of is much more recent than even that. (Hint: her experiment was more recent than the one I mentioned in my correct answer. That's why there were two acceptable answers, because she couldn't remember which one was first.)

When I first read the question I thought I read an article about this around when it happened, so I figured it'd be fairly recent. But I fail to find any information that I can understand enough to identify an experiement where they did this.