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It's just that femdom for me is the thing as simple as female in charge. No further. It may take hundreds of forms and still be femdom. While porn-producers seem to have picked just a few femdom-related fetishes, cast everything else aside and are being stuck on them. Which is a fact but is rather silly.

On the topic of words - Internet community have stuffed lots of words with different, at times strange meanings, but that doesn't mean that is good. Google and Wikipedia can still tell you the RIGHT meaning of femdom. The difficulty of search roots in the lack of differentiality of CONTENT, associated with the word. It's simply pretty much the same wherever you look, and that's why only THAT kind is found. Say if there WAS a site devoted to your kink and your understanding of femdom - you'd find it, maybe not in the first link, but you'd find it soon. But as there is no such site, all you find is sadistic women or jerk-off encouragement.

All I'm trying to say that the problem is not in the word's definition and how it's perverted by the net. It's in CONTENT, or absence of it.

Nezhul wrote:All I'm trying to say that the problem is not in the word's definition and how it's perverted by the net. It's in CONTENT, or absence of it.

Yes, you have a fair point there. Even if I DID manage to construct a reg-ex search query that would filter properly for the sub-category of "femdom" that I wanted, it is still probably the case, that the result of the search would be, "No such page with that content anywhere on the internet." Really? ALL the internet and yet nothing?

I can confirm that there's probably no more than one, two, perhaps three decent scenes of what I personally want. I'm looking for professionally filmed scenes of hot girls getting naked and instructing me specifically on what to do with my dick, while also demonstrating explicitly the same motions on a "fake dick" (dildo) in their hands. There's a pretty good Sophie Strauss scene in which she handles a blue vibrator / dildo and tells the viewer what to do. Shinydolls' Lola (who is skinny AND shiny!) does one or two but the kink in those vids is all about the lycra outfit, not the handling of the dildo. There's Straponcum, but that's all about the girl "getting off" when her dildo "cums," which is kind of cool for a futanari fan, but there's usually no instruction going on. My search is almost entirely lacking, even though (to me) it's a pretty straightforward concept. The girl must be hot, and do more than just to say, "Stroke it, yeah, harder, stroke it harder." Rather, she needs to be saying, "Stroke it like this, on the shaft; now change to just the head; now use both hands; now ..." and she needs to be DOING just that to the dildo (or real cock) on-screen. Evidently girls don't like to act like that? Or is there some kind of Federal lock-out to simulating sex acts with dildos, whereas it's perfectly legal to simulate sex acts with an air-dick? Why would I want to look at Clapton play air-guitar while I'm listening to his song, when I can look at Clapton playing REAL guitar (whether or not it's an actual live performance or he's just synching to the song) while listening? If I start to find better hits to my search, I'll collect them and put them up at a blogspot called JOINAD: "Jack off instruction, no air-dicks."

Nevertheless, no matter how simple and straightforward that I might feel the content to be, it doesn't seem to exist out there. Evidently either (a) there's no market for it, or (b) no content provider has decided that there is a market for it.

Well I do feel that the market for your dream is smaller than for what we discuddes here. The topic basically started with the search of femdom where women act feminine and basically care about the subs experience, not just abuse them. As simple as that should have quite large market.

But you are going in specifics, and the more specifics, the lesser the market. Anyway, try this one, it should suit your needs
http://www.kinkondemand.com/kod/shoot/7 ... ebcam.html

Nezhul wrote:Anyway, try this one, it should suit your needs
http://www.kinkondemand.com/kod/shoot/7 ... ebcam.html

Thanks for the thought. But, funny, that's not anywhere near what I'm personally interested in.

Hey Nezhul,

We've had this discussion before..I think strapondreamer was one of the good sites. Did you check out venus girls?

There are also some "erotic femdom" (I dont know what else to call the thing you are looking for) in vanilla porn, but they are hidden and not advertised as such. Where the girl is in charge of the sex.
See eg, http://www.xvideos.com/video1546741/the_tease

Lady Natalie Black also has some femdom videos where she has sex with the slave, but its a bit on the convetional femdom side of things.

There is also Lady Sonia who gives HJ/BJ/sex to slaves.

Nezhul wrote: But you are going in specifics, and the more specifics, the lesser the market. Anyway, try this one, it should suit your needs
http://www.kinkondemand.com/kod/shoot/7 ... ebcam.html

Well, my favorite clip is the following:
http://xhamster.com/movies/1077236/that ... y_joi.html