Milovana.com

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Welcome Mistress Jenn!

Hope you enjoy your time here and best of luck with your stable
-Brad

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I'm not deliberately trying to be rude, but you all are operating with double standards here. Just like Mistress Jenn, I wrote in my welcome thread an advertisement ( An off the cuff, subtle reference to me looking to find a Mistress, after my last RL breakup), with the only difference being I was seeking a Mistress, not subs.

And I was swiftly told off by an Administrator...
Because, I was told, this isn't a place for finding people, this is a place for sharing an interest.

Just thought I should point that out, and I apologise if i sound like a whiny bitch, but I believe I have a point
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I think the difference is that subs looking for a Mistress tend to be extremely annoying. We get so many requests with subs seeking a Mistress on Milovana (and even on other bdsm related websites) it's kind of become the norm for that stuff to be viewed as cheap and distasteful, mostly because the subs are mostly only out for themselves. They want the big O, and nothing else. Whereas when a Mistress is seeking a sub, they know what they want, they are inviting that interest, so it's not the same. But if you think about it, it only makes sense. It’s all a part of being a sub really.

PS. Hi again Mistress Jenn.

I can understand about posts that go a little something like:

"Im a slave, and I need a Mistress to punish me and I will do whatever she says"

But what I said was first of all subtle, not in your face, simply letting everyone know where i stood, and secondly, the advertisement was part of a much larger post. You couldnt possibly mistake me for someone looking for a quick tug.

I dont believe Mistresses are just given rights when they put on a title, they have to earn them, and the respect of their subs.
Or at least thats how it works in RL where I am.

Hi Mistress Jenn! Welcome to Milovana and have some fun!
Im sure there will be many applicants replying. You probably just have to chose...

Wow... I was not expecting this many messages. It will take me awhile to go through them all and pick some to continue talking to you. Stop sending me messages every 3 hours asking me why I haven't responded.

Wow - a message every 3 hours... So you got about a hundred new messeges to read in your mailbox Maybe a little edit in your first entry would be appropriate by now - making everyone post here instead of private.
Just a thought...

Mistress Jenn wrote:Stop sending me messages every 3 hours asking me why I haven't responded.

Its not just me it happens to then lol

Good luck with your reading Jenn!

Little Miss Jay x

Indigo wrote:but I wasn't able to tell ... what color are your eyes?

Her eyes are green. Actually, I know her...or at least I know the girl in the picture. I wonder if she recognizes me though.

-L

Lindsey wrote:

Indigo wrote:but I wasn't able to tell ... what color are your eyes?

Her eyes are green. Actually, I know her...or at least I know the girl in the picture. I wonder if she recognizes me though.

-L

Oh my! Look who's been lurking!

mrfire wrote: Oh my! Look who's been lurking!

You just never know what sort of mischief-makers are hiding behind the curtain, do you?

Lindsey wrote:

mrfire wrote: Oh my! Look who's been lurking!

You just never know what sort of mischief-makers are hiding behind the curtain, do you?

I'm going to have to start peaking behind the curtain more often!

*eyes Lindsey's surreptitiousness*

Surreptitious, surreptitious...

Boys, boys...Let us not usurp this thread from our newfound member anymore than we already have. Not that my affinity for attention isn't interested in soaking it up. ;)

-L