blondie88 wrote: Sun Jan 09, 2022 8:50 pm
The thing is, from what I've read, tons of people built this DIY rig and loved the results, with some recommending it to be even superior to some professional devices, and as I (to the best of my knowledge) followed the schematic directly, I can't help but wonder why it doesn't feel so good to me.
Keep in mind that stimming involves a learning curve. It's not something you can connect to once and get the results you want. I think I've been doing this for 3 or 4 or more years now and two nights ago, I found a new setup that is even better than I'd done before. It's a labor of love that just keeps paying off more and more. It's also a hobby that can get expensive if you start buying a bunch of electrodes to try out.
Half of the battle of getting a stim signal to feel good is to be in the right mindset. If you're watching porn that isn't appealing, the signals can be the best in the world, and it's not going to do it for you. A lot of posts out there even suggest that you just lay back and let your mind go blank or use your imagination with no visual stimulation. Not for me, but hey, different strokes, right?
The next thing is to not turn the signal up too high to start. You don't want to be zapping your junk to the point that you're jumping out of your chair with every beat.

I keep my volume so low at the start that I can't even feel it, or, at most, can
barely feel something from the right channel. After a minute or two, with no volume increase, it starts out as just a warm sensation instead of an acute zap, tingle, etc. If you're expecting the DIY box to feel like you're getting a blowjob as soon as you click 'play', you're looking at it wrong.
Third is to not be afraid to help yourself along. HFO's don't happen the first time for most people from what I've read, and certainly not for me. For some people, they never happen. You have to train your body and brain that what you're feeling is good and that it's ok to react like it's a good thing. So, the more you give yourself a hand, the more your brain associates the tingle feeling with good feelings and the closer you'll get the next time. Don't go into it expecting the signals to make you nut. Go into it expecting them to make you feel good. If you get pleasantly surprised by an HFO, great.
Fourth is that it's a marathon, not a sprint. Some people talk about 3 hour sessions. I don't know how you all have the willpower to do that. I don't. But it's also not a 5-minute game of whack-a-mole either. Set aside an hour or so to let your body get into it.
Finally, don't try some weird tri-phase with the negative common split between here and there and hanging upside down while you smoke a blunt and do a no-hands-tequila shot. Stick with the basics; 2 discrete sets of electrodes, each with a positive and negative. Maybe right to the taint and balls and the left to the base and head. Figure out what feels good from there. Once you get yourself feeling good a few times like that,
then start experimenting with different electrodes, positions, and whatever else comes to mind (as long as it's safe!) If everything you've tried so far has been with 1 signal or signals from one author, switch it up. I've got a few files out there for some older CockHero videos, but the newer ones put out by Puste, LondonGent, and DigitalParkingLot are all outstanding. I know there are others too, but those three come to mind, and are all very effective.
