Where Should I Start?

[mouseechan]

I am normally a very shy person and just got in the the whole bdsm scene. Now I have been tied up, teased with ice and fire (candle wax or something warmed). Whipped sometimes and spankings are ok as well. My boobs as well. (they are a G so there is plenty to do with them) I am submissive as well. i have had two masters (one was online only). This is all very new for me as well as too my new boyfriend. He has always shown a interest in it. But has yet to find a woman that is to, that is until me. I had a friend of mine show me this site to come in for help for the both of us. Thank you in advance for the help.....

[enoch]

This girl likes being teased a great deal, she loves being caned, likes what bondage she has experienced, she is also somewhat bisexual, and she is shy, as she says.

What she is asking for is advice on how to proceed, as well as information (links, books, general advice) for both her and her new boyfriend. I am the person who introduced her to all this, and I am still a good friend of her's, so I directed her here for some input from the community at large. Plus, I imagine she could benefit from the exposure, as it might help her shyness.

If anyone has any trouble with her please contact me and I will ensure the proper person is informed and proper actions taken. Thank Y/you all in advance for any advice or input given.

[bobroberts]

for female denial try tantalism.org

[SexualChoc]

There is LOT's of female content here
but it may not be suited to your tastes...

You could have your Dom on chat here

there are several female subbies here
You can post in forums and even create a forum blog... if you wish

I did one a while back..

If you are looking for Ideas feel free to PM me
I am the Moderator of the game room, I also write teases.

several lady subs have posted stuff in Forum... Just look at Shell.
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=5918
Who has thousands of posts...
though she is away for a little longer...

You can do Private Cam for your Dom here
without others viewing and even turn off Private messages so only you and dom chat and others will not bother you.

You OR your Dom can write teases or use the teases here..
there are several though I am not sure how many cater to yur tastes.

As to where to start:
I recommend looking at our teases first to see if you can find ones you like.
That is where many people start..
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/#tags=for-gals

but there are many possibilities and a very caring community
though... I must tell you though if you go in chat.. and pick female..
you will probably receive several requests from some guy to be a domme..
no matter how well know you are as a subby,
even people like Shell
and Angelanna
get requests,
So I recommend turning of private messages when going into chat..
until you find the good community that does live and breath here!

please post in forums again!
glad to have you here!

[Snot]

Welcome!

Not sure how much help I will be as iv been trying my turn at dominating but I know there are people here that would beable to give you some great advice. The best part about this community is that it helps your explore yourself and learn what you like.

Ask questions and tell us about your experiences. We'd love to hear some of the things you and your boyfriend have tried.

[mouseechan]

Thank you so much for all of the information. This is all so very new to me and him. As for right now i guess my denial is on. He goes to school and works, and we both live in different cities. bout 30 mins away from each other. (i don't have a car, yet) So he has more important things to worry bout than teasing me ;) I hope it calms down soon. I am coming into a maid outfit that will feed both of our kinky sides as you will. Again, I cannot thank you all enough.