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So im new to the sight recently, and am recently old enough to actually come here, (just turned 18) so i was wondering if anyone could point me to some beginner teases, because alot of them i've tried to do require objects that i don't have, or things that would be hard to hide from my parents. Anything would help.
Thanks :)
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when I first started coming to this site I ran into this tease. This is a nice starting tease and series

http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?
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Hmmm, it said that it wasn't found, i think maybe a bad url?
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Yeah looks like he messed up the url.

In a more general sort of way, though its not an issue at the moment, its frequently been an issue in the past. (not parents for a long time=p. but roommates, et al.) Lots of impromptu things that aren't that hard to hide...such as Icyhot/equivlents/vaseline... (just keep in bathroom, they have legitimate uses. as an aside, a woman I work with uses vaseline for chapped lips pretty regularly, has it in her purse...and I can't help but remember how I used to be so guilty about secreting it err. (poor mans personal lubricant? lol))

Shoelaces / candles in a drawer are also fairly reasonable. Though it helps if you actually use the candles beyond their sex-application. And you have to be careful about scented/colored candles...thats a rabbit hole, google it. And clothespins are easy to hide/explain unless your family has absolutely none in teh house. (it honestly never came up, but for a long time my excuse (pre-prepared) would have been 'hmm, how did those get there?' they were stored in an ash tray=p.

Also, a disclaimer, all of the above (except stuff that belongs in a bathroom...lol) was/is in a very cluttered drawer. I mean, its got all kinds of stuff that doesn't have a ready explanation. Or a sexual use. lol. And really, who (besides one of us, maybe..) would see some candles, spare shoelaces, and clothespins in a drawer and think 'ooh, kinkytoys'. Then again, maybe everyone thats ever been alone in my room went through that drawer and just never commented =p. Belts/brushes/rulers/shoes are self explanatory...

That should get you through most teases, really. Very few call for sometihng like a flesh-light/toys. (Its possible to just skip 'backdoor' stuff, assuming thats even an interest of yours. If it is, uh. At one point I err...made friends with a certain sharpe. And I even kept an appropriately sized hard-plastic tube of something-or-other for awhile... Its been awhile since i've felt the need to experiment with that particular kink though. Be creative.)

Also, unless you have a junk drawer...dispersal helps hehe. Just be prepared for innocent use of your err. stuff. I once had a certain sharpe in a zip lock bag...(gift from a girl...loooong story, kinda.) and well...one day I saw it out (it was well hidden too, man...) and someone had used it. lol. Innocent, but hard to be casual about when that happens so be prepared for the possibility... Speaking of which, bookshelves are a pretty good place to hide thin stuff...Kept a pair of panties in an envelop that way for a long time.

Hope that helps. As I said, that should get you through most teases. (And its cool (IMO) to adapt teases slightly to fit your kinks/ cheat slightly. Like there was this one tease I used to LOVE (mother & daughter...not that that part turned me on, but it was a great tease and required (IIRC) panties, shoelaces, and a fleshlight. I did it many times prior to acquiring panties (from a relationship, she knew=p though maybe not the use I eventually put them to...) or a fleshlight. Anyway, I don't see anything wrong with cheating like that; the important thing IMO is the fantasy and your enjoyment of it.

Sorry for long post.
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Here's a tease you can try. I don't really know if it will fit your criteria, but...

http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=5877

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jasey,
none of my three teases require anything more than a die and your hands. I don't have a lot of the items required myself so I write the teases with only the equipment I have readily available. Hope you find what you're looking for.
PS my "Buying a pet" tease isn't the best, but it's just a tease I had to post.
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Re: New to this

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sissjaseycumslut wrote:So im new to the sight recently, and am recently old enough to actually come here, (just turned 18) so i was wondering if anyone could point me to some beginner teases, because alot of them i've tried to do require objects that i don't have, or things that would be hard to hide from my parents. Anything would help.
Thanks :)
It would help if you told us a little more about your likes and dislikes. For example do you want to be allowed to cum at the end of a tease or would you like to be made to "ruin" your orgasm or would you prefer not to be allowed to cum at all.

Are you able to "edge" - do you like it?

Are you turned on by CBT or do you prefer a pain free experience?

Do you like to be humiliated by the woman in charge of the tease or encouraged?

You can use the Search feature for this site to find teases that suit your interests. Personally I have always like the teases written by

http://www.milovana.com/webteases/#author=chewit

and

http://www.milovana.com/webteases/#author=all2true
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Re: New to this

Post by sissjaseycumslut »

Thank you all for the posts, ill have to try some of those teases tonight, and also pic up some icy hot and other items for myself. :) and to respond to bookworm, i really like the idea of feminization, and humiliation, i find it hard to do the pain stuff, because i usually backout, and i like expirementing with the "backdoor" though im really inexperienced. Also have always wanted to do Cum-eating but always lose the nerve :( edging is tough for me but i try, and i like a mixture or ruined and full orgasms. Hope that helps, and thanks again for all the help everyone
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sissjaseycumslut wrote:Also have always wanted to do Cum-eating but always lose the nerve
Try lying on your back and bringing your legs over your head. That way you cock is pointing down at your face and you can cum in your mouth while you are still in the mood. Works for me.

As for everything else, you can use the Search box to find lots of teases covering those topics.
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Re: New to this

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Welcome!!!! If it makes you feel any better, I've definitely been in your shoes of exploring in terms of exploring my submissive side while living under the same roof as my parents.
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