Mutual Toy

[Melissa's Pet]

I was wondering if anyone had any ideas as to what me and my girlfriend could buy which would be fun for the both of us. Neither of us are into anal so definately none of that. I was thinking about a vibrating cock ring or something of the sort. If anyone has any ideas I would love to hear them.

[curiousSK]

theres always the standard cuffs and restraints that could be fun either way, as for both enjoying it kinda depends if you both want to 'use' the toy or just both enjoy it... if it's the second then really any sex toy would spice things up

[Melissa's Pet]

Thanks for the input, we already have the standard hand cuffs, but I was thinking of getting ankle cuffs. I mean I would want something that we could both use ideally but I do understand what your saying about us both enjoying it =)

[curiousSK]

depending on how creative you are, and how your bedroom is set up, you could always make some binds that are detachable from the bed... so you can just pull them out fasten them to your bed and away you go... something like the old skater belts or dressing-gown cords would work well...

good luck :)

[state of denial]

Nothing says I love you more than a nice paddle.

[dubble]

Okay you're not into anal. What really gets you two off?

Personally I think scents can be a huge fun part of playing. Get a blindfold and scented candles, then secretly each go choose 5 or 10 other things that smell, taste and/or feel good to you.... leather, coffee, herbs/spices, fruits/foods, paint brushes, feathers... there's a near endless supply. Use your imagination. Use those to make a romantic evening with each other exploring, tasting, smelling, touching, rubbing, teasing... taking turns in the blindfold. Earn a special prize if you guess right, maybe a little punishment if you guess wrong! Make sure the TV is off, phones are turned off, no other distractions. Learn to be patient, tease her, and drive her wild no matter how hot and horny you get. Foreplay can go on for hours! It's a great way to become more intimate with her.

There are also many sensual oils, tasty and edible, that have wonderful smells as well as stimulants in them. Certain oils like Peppermint or 'Warming Oil' on her pussy might just be what drives her crazy...!

How about a chastity device and have her hold the key while you are locked? She can have you earn your release! You'll be more than willing to comply to her wishes, please her more, listen better, consider her first... maybe even endure some punishments if she chooses!

Have fun and good luck! Keep us posted.

[Jaberwocky]

Handcuffed and chained together face-to-face, both staring to the ceiling at the melting ice and the key inside. Though given your name I think you are more or less in a D/s relationship.

In addition to the chastity device, how about a strap-on with you cock locked inside of it? You do penetrate her, but will feel no sensation.

Or something with a remote control. It could be a vibrating cock-ring / vibrating panties or something like this:
http://www.dreamloverlabs.com/

[camel]

A wand vibrator like the Magic Wand.