Hi everyone
I’m new in edging practice. So I’d like to know people’s thoughts about edging, especially without touching. I read on Reddit that some people practicing edging without touching. It’s like watching porn for a couple hours in a row, get horny, have leaking precum, but don’t touch yourself. I didn’t practice it, so I’d like to know if someone did and what it’s feels like. Also you can share your experience or advices for better edging experience.
How to edging without touching?
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Re: How to edging without touching?
i'll come to the handless edging from the other end:
i recently came over edges-and-ruins videos, where for the first time i ruined multiple orgasms, some dry some flowing.
the safest ruins for me were by ballooning (tipping my shaft with just indexfinger and thumb), then right before the edge hold with a miniscule amount of pressure, and let go on the edge.
that way you have total control over your wonderfully aching almost-orgasm
but ... when you are out-of-your-mind-horny there is no way you could even coordinate that: then you have to leave your dick throbbing and try not to cum while stimulating your mind -- thus edging without touching.
i think there even are totally hands-free JOIs (try searching for pleasure drome or sensual hypnos).
i you want to forego the physicality, two weeks in chastity should crank up your arousal for sure
Definitely a good question!
i recently came over edges-and-ruins videos, where for the first time i ruined multiple orgasms, some dry some flowing.
the safest ruins for me were by ballooning (tipping my shaft with just indexfinger and thumb), then right before the edge hold with a miniscule amount of pressure, and let go on the edge.
that way you have total control over your wonderfully aching almost-orgasm
but ... when you are out-of-your-mind-horny there is no way you could even coordinate that: then you have to leave your dick throbbing and try not to cum while stimulating your mind -- thus edging without touching.
i think there even are totally hands-free JOIs (try searching for pleasure drome or sensual hypnos).
i you want to forego the physicality, two weeks in chastity should crank up your arousal for sure
Definitely a good question!
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Re: How to edging without touching?
I would say I´m pretty experienced when it comes to edging, so comparing a edging session with or without touching are completely different for me. When I have a edging session where I touch myself, I have way more control over how far, how often and how close I wanna get to the edge and be able to edge basically as long as I want to.
If I have a non touching session I am more towards trying to get a handsfree orgasm then edging since I think its pretty hard to get to the brink of orgasm without touching at all. Sure its possible but compared with touching you just have way less control to build towards a edge quicker and more often.
One other thing is if I dont touch my dick I still use other body parts to stimulate myself, for me my nipples give me alot of pleasure (I guess a activated them by learning to get that hfo with prostate massagers called super O). Also I´m listening to erotic hypnosis (mostly Shibby), a lot of them files will actually try make you cum without touching yourself, def. worth a try.
Since you said u new to edging here is some stuff I really like, u might wanna check it out:
edging with touching;
joi edging video (37 min) - good to start with
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=526608084
more advanced joi edging video (1h 12min) - pretty challenging
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v ... 98fc78d74b
those two vids are from ms. julie who is sadly not around here anymore
joi edging video with edge holding (1h 15min) - tough one
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v ... c4b3e8e24b
edging without touching:
If u wanna try have handsfree edging sessions or tryna go towards a edge or hfo I would start of with some hypnosis from Shibby, she got some stuff for nearly everyone no matter what kind of kink u into.
After that I highly recommend you check out numberonefans stuff over here on milovana, this guy does an amazing job combining shibby with highly stimulating videos (esp. SpaDeSade Series).
special thanks to numberonefan here
One more thing, try using cockrings or strings makes your skin stretch and more sensitive.
Hope some of this stuff helps you out and have fun edging.....
P.S. I really liked the first part of your edging control video, looking for some freetime to check out your second one, great job!
If I have a non touching session I am more towards trying to get a handsfree orgasm then edging since I think its pretty hard to get to the brink of orgasm without touching at all. Sure its possible but compared with touching you just have way less control to build towards a edge quicker and more often.
One other thing is if I dont touch my dick I still use other body parts to stimulate myself, for me my nipples give me alot of pleasure (I guess a activated them by learning to get that hfo with prostate massagers called super O). Also I´m listening to erotic hypnosis (mostly Shibby), a lot of them files will actually try make you cum without touching yourself, def. worth a try.
Since you said u new to edging here is some stuff I really like, u might wanna check it out:
edging with touching;
joi edging video (37 min) - good to start with
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=526608084
more advanced joi edging video (1h 12min) - pretty challenging
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v ... 98fc78d74b
those two vids are from ms. julie who is sadly not around here anymore
joi edging video with edge holding (1h 15min) - tough one
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v ... c4b3e8e24b
edging without touching:
If u wanna try have handsfree edging sessions or tryna go towards a edge or hfo I would start of with some hypnosis from Shibby, she got some stuff for nearly everyone no matter what kind of kink u into.
After that I highly recommend you check out numberonefans stuff over here on milovana, this guy does an amazing job combining shibby with highly stimulating videos (esp. SpaDeSade Series).
special thanks to numberonefan here
One more thing, try using cockrings or strings makes your skin stretch and more sensitive.
Hope some of this stuff helps you out and have fun edging.....
P.S. I really liked the first part of your edging control video, looking for some freetime to check out your second one, great job!
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Re: How to edging without touching?
Thank you a lot for a huge comment and thorough explanations. I will take your advises and try it with the video you sent.
P.S. Glad to hear that you liked my video, part 3 is on the way
P.S. Glad to hear that you liked my video, part 3 is on the way
slaveMade wrote: Wed Sep 23, 2020 8:19 pm I would say I´m pretty experienced when it comes to edging, so comparing a edging session with or without touching are completely different for me. When I have a edging session where I touch myself, I have way more control over how far, how often and how close I wanna get to the edge and be able to edge basically as long as I want to.
If I have a non touching session I am more towards trying to get a handsfree orgasm then edging since I think its pretty hard to get to the brink of orgasm without touching at all. Sure its possible but compared with touching you just have way less control to build towards a edge quicker and more often.
One other thing is if I dont touch my dick I still use other body parts to stimulate myself, for me my nipples give me alot of pleasure (I guess a activated them by learning to get that hfo with prostate massagers called super O). Also I´m listening to erotic hypnosis (mostly Shibby), a lot of them files will actually try make you cum without touching yourself, def. worth a try.
Since you said u new to edging here is some stuff I really like, u might wanna check it out:
edging with touching;
joi edging video (37 min) - good to start with
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=526608084
more advanced joi edging video (1h 12min) - pretty challenging
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v ... 98fc78d74b
those two vids are from ms. julie who is sadly not around here anymore![]()
joi edging video with edge holding (1h 15min) - tough one
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v ... c4b3e8e24b
edging without touching:
If u wanna try have handsfree edging sessions or tryna go towards a edge or hfo I would start of with some hypnosis from Shibby, she got some stuff for nearly everyone no matter what kind of kink u into.
After that I highly recommend you check out numberonefans stuff over here on milovana, this guy does an amazing job combining shibby with highly stimulating videos (esp. SpaDeSade Series).
special thanks to numberonefan here![]()
One more thing, try using cockrings or strings makes your skin stretch and more sensitive.
Hope some of this stuff helps you out and have fun edging.....
P.S. I really liked the first part of your edging control video, looking for some freetime to check out your second one, great job!
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Re: How to edging without touching?
Thank you for your explanations
vanCoochee wrote: Wed Sep 23, 2020 12:52 pm i'll come to the handless edging from the other end:
i recently came over edges-and-ruins videos, where for the first time i ruined multiple orgasms, some dry some flowing.
the safest ruins for me were by ballooning (tipping my shaft with just indexfinger and thumb), then right before the edge hold with a miniscule amount of pressure, and let go on the edge.
that way you have total control over your wonderfully aching almost-orgasm![]()
but ... when you are out-of-your-mind-horny there is no way you could even coordinate that: then you have to leave your dick throbbing and try not to cum while stimulating your mind -- thus edging without touching.
i think there even are totally hands-free JOIs (try searching for pleasure drome or sensual hypnos).
i you want to forego the physicality, two weeks in chastity should crank up your arousal for sure![]()
Definitely a good question!
Re: How to edging without touching?
I am sorry, I didn't find a thread to say welcome and who I am in a few sentence. But I am new.
Okay, let's say: I do this. But to be honest, I want to experience a hands free orgasm. But that never happens. Or I am not sure. There was one time. But I forgot if I really would count it.I forgot the circumstances and I am not able to redo. So I think maybe I cheated in a way.
I watch porn and try to imagine that I do what the male actor on the screen do, if it is a scene like that. Or I do imagine that I jerk off and try to feel my hand doing it. It take me 7 to 10 minutes and precum leaks. It could go on for very long time and I am kind of frustrated because it is not turn to a hands free orgasm.
After this I just get limp and try later again or I do masturbating or I do a special stroke that makes me cum almost every time with one stroke after that preparation. But I do this because my emotions are really boiling and I start treating people like trash, cannot sleep anymore and other bad side effects. I I could I would just denial me untill it works. But I heard, that this is a misunderstanding of hands free orgasm and maybe I trained me in a way that makes it even more difficult to get an hands free orgasm.
Okay, let's say: I do this. But to be honest, I want to experience a hands free orgasm. But that never happens. Or I am not sure. There was one time. But I forgot if I really would count it.I forgot the circumstances and I am not able to redo. So I think maybe I cheated in a way.
I watch porn and try to imagine that I do what the male actor on the screen do, if it is a scene like that. Or I do imagine that I jerk off and try to feel my hand doing it. It take me 7 to 10 minutes and precum leaks. It could go on for very long time and I am kind of frustrated because it is not turn to a hands free orgasm.
After this I just get limp and try later again or I do masturbating or I do a special stroke that makes me cum almost every time with one stroke after that preparation. But I do this because my emotions are really boiling and I start treating people like trash, cannot sleep anymore and other bad side effects. I I could I would just denial me untill it works. But I heard, that this is a misunderstanding of hands free orgasm and maybe I trained me in a way that makes it even more difficult to get an hands free orgasm.
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Re: How to edging without touching?
In a lot of HFO files a trick that is used is to clench your PC muscles. This requires a bit of practise, but it certainly works. Another thing it is often combined with is to buck your hips ('thrust the air while lying down').
For me this works the moment a file is very good and in certain conditions (a lot of edging in the past days OR, the opposite, some time without stimulation). I would definitely advice Kinky Shibby for quality content. In many files she guides you through the process.
I guess what works is different for everyone. Some people might need visuals! This video of digitalparkinglot has the highest success rate for me, but once again this probably comes down to preference again...
viewtopic.php?f=25&t=20280&hilit=wet+dream
Good luck!
For me this works the moment a file is very good and in certain conditions (a lot of edging in the past days OR, the opposite, some time without stimulation). I would definitely advice Kinky Shibby for quality content. In many files she guides you through the process.
I guess what works is different for everyone. Some people might need visuals! This video of digitalparkinglot has the highest success rate for me, but once again this probably comes down to preference again...
Good luck!

