Edging and Teasing for women who don't orgasm easily

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Edging and Teasing for women who don't orgasm easily

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My experience with teasing and edging a woman in person is still pretty limited. But it is something my current partner and I are definitely interested in and would like to explore more as we are both switches.

The last time I really explored this, my partner was the type of woman who could orgasm very easily. This made edging and teasing her pretty easy to experiment with, since just about anything could get her to the brink.

My current partner however does not orgasm easily at all. Pretty much the only way to actually get her there is with a vibrator focused on clitoral stimulation. She can orgasm using just her fingers in the same spot, but it takes her a while and isn't the most comfortable thing. As for me I've gotten her close and can tell what feels good, but am still learning what works best to really push her towards orgasm.

So, my question is how to best start with something like edging her? I can absolutely tease her in other, softer ways but those aren't quite the same as bringing someone to the brink and then stopping.
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Re: Edging and Teasing for women who don't orgasm easily

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Ultimately, you will have to experiment. If she can orgasm from a vibrator, then you can use that to edge her. Vibes are usually the easiest way to edge a woman.
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Re: Edging and Teasing for women who don't orgasm easily

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For sure, and that's definitely where we would start. I suppose I was looking to see if anyone had any helpful insights or advice beyond just starting to experiment with the vibrator and go from there.
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