What are your thoughts on chasity?

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What are your thoughts on chasity?

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I have only enjoyed chasity alone. I had to put myself in chasity since I beat off on a regular basis. I just need to make it through the night. Meeting a friend tommorrow and I am out of cum. How to get more cum
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Re: What are your thoughts on chasity?

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Chastity is as much a mental excercise as a physical one. Denying yourself is cheating yourself, because there's no outside influence adding to your arousal, making you crave the orgasm.

A chastity device is a tool, just like any other. It isn't a means to an end, and there are very few devices on the market that can't be gotten around with enough effort. Having a device locked in place by a Domme, someone who makes you throb and ache, and reminds you each and every moment of the pleasure you could be having, sliding your diamond-hard cock into her mouth, or her pussy, or ass - and instead feeling the cruel, uncaring counterpressure of the device cruelly locked around you, denying you even the pleasure of a stiff erection - *that's* what chastity is really about.

As for getting more cum ... find something that arouses you like nothing else. Find some porn, or a good erotic story. Watch it, or read it, or listen to it - and touch yourself. Touch yourself in every place other than where you really want your hand to be - and imagine the divine Mistress that's stealing your pleasure away from you. And feel the tension in your balls begin to build ...
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Re: What are your thoughts on chasity?

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My thoughs on chastity are mmmmmmmmmmmm :lol:


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JustHuntsVegas wrote:I have only enjoyed chasity alone. I had to put myself in chasity since I beat off on a regular basis. I just need to make it through the night. Meeting a friend tommorrow and I am out of cum. How to get more cum

I am going to tackle the how I get more cum question.

drink liquids, hydrating liquids

like water, juice.

avoid tea, coffee, alcohol.
http://drbenkim.com/improve-sperm-count.htm
here is a medical list on how to increase sperm counts.

now from what I have read there is a 3 day period after an orgasm until your ball fully refill.
so truly minim chastity would be 4 days. I recommend longer (of course)

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making it through the night
I assume you mean not orgasming during evening/night

the easiest way is just don't masturbate, avoid porn
relax watch normal tv programs, or go out of house if you get to tempted
a little mediation is helpful if your anxious about meeting someone
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/stress_ ... xation.htm
here are some tips on stress relief, diffrent things work for diffrent people so you may have to try a few to find waht works for you



now
I Usually recommend More temptation!
edging and such!
I was just guessing.. so if you post more.. I might be able to give more ideas on how to help.
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Re: What are your thoughts on chasity?

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Snoopy76 wrote:My thoughs on chastity are mmmmmmmmmmmm :lol:


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denymepretty wrote:
Snoopy76 wrote:My thoughs on chastity are mmmmmmmmmmmm :lol:


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There is something intoxicating about taking control of someone to THAT level. I love it!

Also, I find it shifts male sexuality to be less orgasm and cock focused to become more whole bodied... once your cock out as an option, your whole body awakens to sensual sexuality!
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