Being in chastity and hitting on women?

[reese316]

I am a single guy, but have a chastity fettish. I will wear a CB-3000 off and on sometimes. I found that if I'm out at a bar, or anywhere in public, and I see a hot woman, I treat it differently than when not locked up.
Like I don't focus as much on my sexual attraction to her, and just talk to here like normal.
It has never paid off, Like I have not gone out in chastity too much. But I think maybe chastity could help me hit on women.
I'm also kind of shy, that is really my main problem.

Wondering what you guys think...

[les]

I wonder if being in chastity means to your subconscious,
that it knows you will not have to perform and so you are relaxed for that reason???
Just a thought, for others to think on.

[SexualChoc]

I wonder if being in chastity means to your subconscious,
that it knows you will not have to perform and so you are relaxed for that reason???
Just a thought, for others to think on.

I agree Les
also your horniness level is in general higher
the thrill that they would say yes and find you locked up.

It is kind of fun sometimes when my wife is wanting sex and I am locked up
she goes Oh! your wearing that?
I blush and use my tongue.

so subconscious hope to be discovered
added with general horniness
and a relaxed feeling of not using your dick

and yeah I could definitely see this to be true.

Just for fun when your talking to a girl while out and about,
say your at the grocery store and you chatting about the weather
ask, "Do you know what a chastity deivice is? I have one."

to add to the thrill

[strokerboy3]

I would also have to agree with Les that you may be more relaxed knowing that your not going to have to perform in any way. It's kind of similar to the fact that when you have a girlfriend it seems so much easier to approach women knowing that nothing is going to happen.

I've found for me personally that if i intend on doing nothing with a girl and just talk with them and not try to pull any moves my success rate is much higher than when I go out looking for a girl. I was actually talking to the girl I'm currently hooking up with about this last night and she said she thought when I invited her over I was just trying to hook up and when I didn't try anything it really threw her off her game and made her that much more interested in me.

Just my drunk two cents... Good luck buddy

[S.M.]

I need to say that my self discipline is very bad, and the longest I've ever managed to edge without cumming was four days.. And as far as I'm usually very shy when talking to girls I find attractive, during that time I suddenly gained so much self confidence, I was very open and not stressed at all. Just as if I was a different person. I described that somewher in "Deck of Denial" thread. After my release everything came back to normal, but I think my approach improved a bit (still no success in picking up though ;) ).