Hi all,
I'm relatively new here and have been enjoying a lot of the flash teases. However one thing i came across the other day (no pun intended!) was holding an edge for 30 secs...
now i know what edging is but how in the lord's good name can it be held for 30 secs? I'm not asking for how to physically do it but i just dont get what is being asked as surely once you edge, you dont have 30 secs left in front of you!
any advice would be appreciated,
Cheers, Matt
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JustKrissy
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Re: holding an edge
Mhm, well, obviously you don't keep going at it like you were in a race..
The way I used to do it was when I get to the edge, I slow way down, like that you can sort of balance right on the edge by barely moving your hand/whatever else you are using.
Very frustrating of course. ^.^
The way I used to do it was when I get to the edge, I slow way down, like that you can sort of balance right on the edge by barely moving your hand/whatever else you are using.
Very frustrating of course. ^.^
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Re: holding an edge
^^ What he said. It may seem very difficult at first, but with practise it gets easier, there are some on here who can hold an edge for 30 minutes or more
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mattboyslim
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Re: holding an edge
30 mins? 
I think i had better get practising then!
I think i had better get practising then!-
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Re: holding an edge
Indeed, practicing, learning to know your own body as well as humanly possible is the key to this - as well as discipline of course.
That is actually one of the main advantages with edging - you learn your own limits so much better than most vanilla people do in their sex lives - which in turn gives you a massive advantage whether you are playing with yourself or having sex with others.
That is actually one of the main advantages with edging - you learn your own limits so much better than most vanilla people do in their sex lives - which in turn gives you a massive advantage whether you are playing with yourself or having sex with others.
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Re: holding an edge
When I need to hold the edge I just make stimulation more lighter. The closest what I can get at holding edge without cumming is repeat it in very fast rate. Like one second down from edge and one on the edge. I can't keep that tingling feeling all the time or else I can't hold it. But when I'm down I'm very close and even one stronger touch can push me over. Idk if this is same as holding the edge... maybe it is... ?