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Re: FB: The Self-Bondage Challenge

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...and made it. It was nice (maybe not specially during the walk ... ) but yes, I liked it.
Would do it again when it would be ordered by Mistress ...
Thx for the Tease!
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lotar232 wrote:it was a bit of an ouchie, but I'd do something like this again... my strings weren't the same length so differnt things pulled off at different times... which made it interesting. (also only had about 25 pins on hand so I improvised a little)

usability wise, I spent more time building the zippers than actually doing the rest of it... you should give a warning that theres a bit of a crafting project involved.
I like that the pins come off one by one, so you can feel each one of them. I use the two strings and body symmetry to double the number of clothespins per word of instructions, but the distances are all approximate and you can turn your body so one side comes off first anyway. To actually have the clothespins come off in matched pairs, you would really have to work on it.

One more general question: a few people have done this tease now. Has anyone jerked away abruptly, so several pins have come off at once? Has anyone tried and been unable?

Regarding your comment on setup time, I just added a warning on the first slide that "There is a lot of set-up in this tease".
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Derbisol wrote:Really enjoyed this tease, painful as hell but fun! Also because I'm a big dumb nerd I loved putting the zipper together. :-P

So advice time, I actually built the zipper pins backwards from the instructions because the way I read it the slack would have all been on the end connected to my arms, also a few diagrams would help, even simple ASCII ones like below could help (each | is a pin, each - is 2 inches of rope)

__arms____nips________Genitals______thighs
|-|-|-|-|---|||--------|-|-|-|-|-|-|---|-|-|-|-|---------------------------------------------------

Also maybe have the user edge before the pins go on and try not to cum at the video, but edge again?


Now, to clean up all these clothespins...
Text Graphics! I really wish I had thought of that. Thank you for the suggestion. The applicable page has now been edited.

I was nice enough to suggest to the reader why they may not wish to come, but I am not going to demand that they don't. In my experience, pain really is a lot easier to endure during the arousal leading up to an orgasm, than it is right afterward, so the clothespins would be a lot more difficult for me if I came during the video. But if someone else is so desperate for a cum, they are free to have one, and then deal with the clothespins afterwards.
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misslisa wrote:I just completed this and it was intense. My guy is away on business and I liked the thought of being helpless and having to inflict pain on myself. It took a while to figure out what the rope is for. I also added a string of 8, 1cm diameter beads which I inserted in my ass. Adjusted the length of the string so a bead would pop out when a pin came off my pussy. I also inserted my biggest vibrator and tied it so as I moved backwards it would pull out of my cunt.
I am short and skinny with small boobs and very sensitive nipples. I inserted the beads and the vibrator, I felt full. Then the pins on my thighs and pussy lips. Not bad. The pins on the underside of my breasts were not as bad as I expected. I was shaking in anticipation as I put the pins on my nipples. The pins on my nipples hurt like hell. I like to watch guys squirt and be frustrated so I queued up 15 minutes of ruined orgasm hand job videos. Taking a deep breath I locked myself up and started the video.
The first five minutes the pain in my left tit was intense. As it numbed the vibrator started to do its thing. The combination of being helpless, knowing my predicament, understanding the pain to come, the visual stimulation and physical vibrations all caused a tremendous orgasm.
Sometimes after my first orgasm my clit becomes hypersensitive. When my hubbie is licking me I have to push him away. I am told it is like the feeling a guy gets when I polish his knob. My clit was on fire. I could not push away. I spread my legs as far apart as I could but it did not help. I clinched my fists and curled my toes. Just then the first video stopped and I knew I had made it 15 minutes.
I started to pull away and the first few pins on my thighs were tolerable. Then the first pin on my pussy lips. As it came off a bead popped out and the vibrator started to pull out of my cunt. I took a deep breath and kept moving back. The rush was amazing. My pussy was throbbing in pain as the last pin was pulled out the last bead came out and the vibrator came out. I missed the vibrator. Now to my breasts. Holding my breath the lower three pins were not too bad. Then came the ones on my nipples. Tears came to by eyes. I was as wet down there as I have ever been. I moved quickly to get the ones off my arms.
I was shaking as I tried to get the cuffs unlocked. Once I got one wrist free I crawled over, picked up my vibrator and came almost as soon as I put it on my clit.
Intense and wonderful. I am going to make my hubby do this once he gets home. Thank you, you have added a new dimension to my sex fun.
Wow, thanks for all the details. I am sure a lot of the men here enjoyed them. Glad to know I made a difference!

Even though I am male, and there are plenty of teases for men here, I still really like teases that are made for both men and women. During the more difficult parts, I sometimes imagine a generic woman doing the same tease at the same time, and in my mind we sort of encourage each other to get through it. This fantasy should be much better the next time I do this challenge, now that I know that at least one woman has done it for real.
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Before I sign off, I want to thank everyone who posted here, even those I didn't reply to directly. The feedback has been better than I imagined. The tease was published less than a week ago, and already over 8,000 views with a rating close to five stars. I am still not sure when I will take the time to get another tease written, but I now have every reason this forum can give me to make it sooner rather than later.
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I finally got all the clothespins that I need so I'm now taking the self-bondage challenge. Selfbondage is one of the most amazing things ever and I love it when people make teases like this!
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Ouchie!

Whew. I honestly don't think I would have been able to do it if I wasn't sweating so much. the ones on the scrotum just didn't want to budge!

I would say that the person should do the string clips before all the bondage stuff.

I think the tease would have benefited a lot if it had more diagrams. If you explained the clip things better like "you need 5 for the arm 6 for the penis..." my strings would have turned out better.

I look forward to your other teases!
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Wow! just wanted to say thank-you (i think?! :-/ ) so much for this tease. I love self-bondage and have been waiting years for a decent SB tease. The pictures and story were perfect and very well written. I really hope you're encouraged to write some more, hopefully similar, teases very soon. I'm sure you're aware of http://www.boundanna.com/ plenty of inspiration for scenarios on there!
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My tale.
So I tried it 4 nights ago after popping to the store for another 40 clothes-pins. I followed the instructions to the letter and was full of nervous excitement through the whole thing. Building it all took a good 45 mins or so. Getting all the pegs on was pretty painful but I powered through. It turned to a dull ache after the first 5 mins. I managed to stroke a little through the porn to keep me interested but resisted the urge to come. Very glad I did too! Unfortunately, the additional hardness made my cock head with the 2 pins on either side extremely sensitive, I couldn't even touch it and every time the pins moved in the slightest it sent a shockwave of sharp pain through my poor cock.

Then came the point of no return...'click'
I've had reasonable experience with clothes-pins so I knew roughly what to expect. But, it was much worse than I had imagined. I've never used that many, never left them for that duration and never normally pull them off without opening them!
I spent maybe 15 agonising minutes slowly pulling the first 10 pins off, then decided to speed up a bit. Thighs were awful, the balls were ok, cock was insane. When the 2 finally popped off the end of my cock head it was unbearable. I composed myself and decided just to go for it with the final 16. Was no more than 10 seconds before they were all off. I had to wait till my hands stopped shaking to get the key.

Once i'd finished I had a huge orgasm whilst thinking about all the other users who have maybe never tried clothes-pins before. Having just felt the first couple snap off their thighs and suddenly feeling terrified!
I still have the bite marks all over my body and have had to wear long sleeve tops so the arm marks are not noticed.
I swore i'd never do that again!

I did however keep the whole set-up....making it very quick and easy to do again. Although next time i'm thinking of tying my ankles together then tying them to my balls to ensure i cant speed up, maybe adding my inflatable plug, maybe freeze the key in ice first, maybe freeze multiple fake keys and put them in different places, maybe add a gag and a blindfold.....hmmmm.
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desswhitewood wrote:Ouchie!

Whew. I honestly don't think I would have been able to do it if I wasn't sweating so much. the ones on the scrotum just didn't want to budge!

I would say that the person should do the string clips before all the bondage stuff.

I think the tease would have benefited a lot if it had more diagrams. If you explained the clip things better like "you need 5 for the arm 6 for the penis..." my strings would have turned out better.

I look forward to your other teases!
I've added the text-graphics since the original version, but I don't want to add too many diagrams, because I would rather have the user seeing the pictures of beautifully dominant and authoritative women. Also, I like the idea that when the user is tying the clothespins on the string, they don't yet know yet exactly what each clothespin is for.

There are three other tease ideas I have at the moment, though none of them involve this sort of self-bondage. One is already written up, but it is a modification of another user's tease and I would like to get their permission first. If you want to comment on that, please do so on this thread with all the details I am willing to make public at this time: viewtopic.php?f=2&t=19087. I'm not sure when I'll get around to the writing up the other two ideas (though with the response to this tease, its becoming more a matter of "when" than "if"). The idea which drives them isn't for everyone, but it certainly will be something different than you are used to seeing here.
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John Book wrote: Then came the point of no return...'click'
I've had reasonable experience with clothes-pins so I knew roughly what to expect. But, it was much worse than I had imagined. I've never used that many, never left them for that duration and never normally pull them off without opening them!
I spent maybe 15 agonising minutes slowly pulling the first 10 pins off, then decided to speed up a bit. Thighs were awful, the balls were ok, cock was insane. When the 2 finally popped off the end of my cock head it was unbearable. I composed myself and decided just to go for it with the final 16. Was no more than 10 seconds before they were all off. I had to wait till my hands stopped shaking to get the key.
Wow, so we get the first report of someone pulling multiple pins off abruptly! Congratulations!
John Book wrote: Once i'd finished I had a huge orgasm whilst thinking about all the other users who have maybe never tried clothes-pins before. Having just felt the first couple snap off their thighs and suddenly feeling terrified!
The number of clothespins and the sensitive body parts they are attached to are both pretty cruel, but I figured newbies would be surprised to learn that the cruelest part of the tease is making the user wait 15 minutes. You could probably see that I had the same delight in writing it, explaining it to them once it is too late to turn back.
John Book wrote: I still have the bite marks all over my body and have had to wear long sleeve tops so the arm marks are not noticed.
I swore i'd never do that again!
I have seen other teases which demand clothespins on parts of your face, but I never did any of that for fear of bite marks. Now that I think of it, even the bite marks in this tease could become a problem in a more tropical climate where long sleeves would seem out of place. I think I'll add a mention of this concern early on in the tease...
John Book wrote: I did however keep the whole set-up....making it very quick and easy to do again. Although next time i'm thinking of tying my ankles together then tying them to my balls to ensure i cant speed up, maybe adding my inflatable plug, maybe freeze the key in ice first, maybe freeze multiple fake keys and put them in different places, maybe add a gag and a blindfold.....hmmmm.
I thought about instructing the user to make a gag in the tease, but decided that this tease was involved enough as is. A number of people here have talked about other things that could be added, but I am nervous about the fake keys and blindfold you mentioned...

A comment in general to anyone who wants to do a modification of this tease: the first question you should ask yourself is "Could this interfere with my ability to free myself after the clothespins are removed?" I really don't want to ever learn of people getting into serious trouble because they were unable to free themselves from my tease. You saw all the precautions I had people take in the set-up, but I cannot adapt to changes people make when they go off-script. Needing to search for a key while blindfolded sounds too risky to me, especially with having to sort through fake keys around yourself.

That said, this is ultimately your experience with it, and I am OK with any modification which anyone wants to make which doesn't compromise on safety. As long as you have at least the clothespins described in the tease on, and you need to pull away from them before freeing yourself, you have succeeded in answering my challenge. Additional edging, cuming or lack thereof, vibrators, gags, butt-plugs, tying ankles to balls, etc: go for it!
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This one is very well written. I hope you have many readers even if there aren't that many doers. I am not one for all the pain. But I an inspired by the thought and talent that went into this. I will see if I can work out a good time for the task.

Ideas:
I have an old heavy iron iron. I thought about working that into the scheme. It could be set on a high ledge the line could go through an eye to the iron. A second line could be used to pull the iron off the ledge. I am not ready for this. Others maybe.

I think that pulling them off in pairs would be difficult. Having them off in less of pattern would be better. Extra line between the pins should not be a great issue save for the total lenght. So I thought about making four or more lines with wildly varying gaps so that the order of pop off is not that predictable. I smaller pilot project may be needed.

I like the idea of the blindfold and placing the key at the end of the line.

A gag might be good if one is prone to screaming. But may be dangerous. A athletic mouth guard may be a compromise.

Adding to the iron above... the iron might be supported by an ice cube pulled through an eye, so it fall when the ice melts. Then if you don't do it fast enough one by one, then the iron will zip them off for you. With the blindfold you would not have the warning.

The pins/pegs I have are wooden. I wonder if there may be splinters removing them this way. I may need to find some of plastic.

If you have a trusted friend. Set up a check up visit when you do self bondage. Play safe.

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Another idea...
The pins / pegs ought not be worn very long. So (depending on your hydration) drink an extra amount of water before attaching. Your bladder distress will be your timer and an extra in sentiment to step away soon.
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I will try this tease
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[email protected] wrote: Ideas:
I have an old heavy iron iron. I thought about working that into the scheme. It could be set on a high ledge the line could go through an eye to the iron. A second line could be used to pull the iron off the ledge. I am not ready for this. Others maybe.
I have tried similar "weight pulls off clothespins" tricks before, though not as elaborate as you have suggested. The biggest problem I found is finding an object which is heavy enough to pull the clothespins off, but not so heavy and awkward to potentially cause damage as falls uncontrollably to the floor. Perhaps people who don't live in an apartment with neighbors below would feel comfortable dropping heavier objects on to their floor than I would.

In any case, most of the critical comments I've gotten here is that the tease as I wrote it is too complex in the setup, so I don't want to make it any more complicated. Also, having clothespins pulled off of you abruptly is a different experience than pulling against them one-by-one. When you pull against them, you are still in some control of your pain, and that can become a tyranny of control when you cannot quit the tease. You must choose to hurt yourself, again and again, as you pull against each clothespin.
[email protected] wrote:Another idea...
The pins / pegs ought not be worn very long. So (depending on your hydration) drink an extra amount of water before attaching. Your bladder distress will be your timer and an extra in sentiment to step away soon.
I do like that idea. I don't see any way it could cause danger of not being able to escape once the pins are removed, but it adds an extra element of trade-off between pain and potential humiliation.
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ngozzz wrote:I will try this tease
I look forward to hearing of your experience with it.

We are also still anxiously waiting to hear from mr-max, srtye, and sguy. I would hate to think that any of you would chicken out of this tease. If you have done it, please remember to write back here and let us know how it went.
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