Finding a Kinky Partner

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janegirl wrote:The last post was Jan 2011. Is any one reading this?
LOL, i just did, never even looked at the date, but it was still worth it...few things here and there, but well said overall.

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Would love to find a partner to play with. Contact me
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I run a website that is specifically designed to help people find kinky playmates and partners, maybe you should check it out.

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I know it's not the best but it's absolutely free and pretty damn easy to use.
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Hey folks,

Semi new to the teasing scene (online aspects of it anyways). I'm 20 and currently a student at LU, you can hit me up on Fetlife (Jaimz) if you want. Have no friends :P just interested in what other people like to do, what turns them on, and why it turns them on. My profile is full of stuff I'm interested and curious about.

Honestly on the border line of being submissive or dominant i suppose I'm switch I like taking the lead every so often.

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is it possible to contact any of the girls?
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This information is really great; THANKS.

Unfortunately, the reality is that there are VERY few women who want, or seek out a man for any kind of kink that you may be into.
I am not saying that there is NO women who are interested in an alternative sexual liasion,
but I am saying, that it is very difficult to connect with someone who may share the same tastes as you do,
and be willing to meet up, discuss, and actually experience what each of you has described (whatever that may be).
In my case; I admit that it may be a limited audience that I am appealing to; due to the fact that I am married, but I am looking for a partner to explore no strings attached fantasies, and have unsuccessfully posted profiles on all of the better known sites.

It is great that a site like this one actually posts some very good advise regarding initating contact with others of similar interests, but my experience is that it is unlikely to pan out in the real world.
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Male sub Here having trouble with finding the right dom. Is there any legit website where you can search and find any? I see lots of these dating sites, but im not sure they are safe and actually real. Please help
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Lots here in the same situation.
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The best advice I can give is to get yourself out on the scene, attend fetish events (I think you call them munchies over in America), build up relationships etc.

As others have said, the ratio of submissive men to dominant women on here is huge.
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Thanks for a clear succinct post. I appreciate the "if you want to have a partner you have to BE a partner" portion especially. That is a nice clear way to phrase what I've been struggling to explain to desperate horny net guys.
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Good post, thank you for the effort.
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hi,

posting very nice.
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AliceInBondageLand wrote:Thanks for a clear succinct post. I appreciate the "if you want to have a partner you have to BE a partner" portion especially. That is a nice clear way to phrase what I've been struggling to explain to desperate horny net guys.

I know right? You can explain it a million different ways, Only a few will really get that
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