Finding a Kinky Partner

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janegirl wrote:The last post was Jan 2011. Is any one reading this?
yes. it's an excellent read. lol first post.
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Alison thank you
i couldn't agree more!!!
i think that the most important is acualy 23
never give up!!!!!
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Words to live by, especially as I'm now making the commitment to find a kinky partner in RL (after years and years of cyber-fantasy).
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hello.
i am a dom male and looking for a female sub who is open to video chat and pic sharing.
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I would like find a kinky female friend, if you want pm me :wave:
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I have my professional persona, and my personal persona, and the professional me doesn't mind getting emails and messages from guys telling me they're already mine, they have no limits, they'll do anything for me. The personal me, the one who goes to munches and play parties and invites friends over to watch an intense scene cringes over those sorts of messages.

In real life, if you tell me you're my slave and I don't know what you look like or what your name is, it tells me that you don't value yourself at all. Why would I have a slave that is of so little value?

If you tell me you'll do anything, it tells me you're either inexperienced, naive, or stupid. Two of those can be fixed, the other one can be terminal.

And if you tell any Mistress you have no limits... let me remind you of 'Two Girls One Cup'. That's what having no limits will get you. Or worse, because I have a knife fetish and I'm a sadist, and I've always wanted to learn to do artistic cutting. Think before you tell me I can do anything... and the assumption that because I'm a girl and you're a boy that I can't hurt you? HA!

Basically, all of this. This is good stuff, and everyone should read it. And if you're still in the "i'm ur slave u can do ne-thing to me" *fap fap fap* stage... take it to a professional, and pay her to deal with you, so that people in the community don't have to. For a price, I'll fall on that grenade! lol ;)
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baultista wrote:Most of that is good advice for relationships in general.
exactly.
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a good read!
i just have one advice: if you are bad at grammar and punctuation try to compensate this with well-selected words and thoughtfull sentences (which is - at least in english - hard for me as i am german by nature)
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wow, a lot of information in here
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SemeSabanig wrote:
Protein wrote:I would like find a kinky female friend, if you want pm me :wave:
Hello there!?
Hi, would you like if we become friends? if yes, you can write me pm :-)
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I am a guy which would like to find a kinky female friend. if you want pm me
:innocent: :whistle:
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Protein wrote:
SemeSabanig wrote:
Protein wrote:I would like find a kinky female friend, if you want pm me :wave:
Hello there!?
Hi, would you like if we become friends? if yes, you can write me pm :-)

Hello!
Sure. ;) Glad to be your friend then.
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I am actively looking for an online kinky partner! Somebody introduced me to writeforme.org last week and I'm so addicted already! I would like to invite all women, especially if you are in a relationship irl, to try out the short assignment I wrote, and give me some feedback! Thanks in advance, and I hope some of you will find it and enjoy it! https://writeforme.org/writingtask.php?task=42492
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I know for my part the local munch was amazing fun! I was going to BDSM parties at least once a month and got to know a lot of people with similar longings :blush:

I even invited people from another country through Fetlife to stay at my place for a week and we had fun and held a party as well 8-) I also got similar offer near London where I stayed for a week as well. Went to a crazy cool place in London where there were pretty much constant spanking/whipping noices the whole night. There were like 30+ torture devices set up in there and stuff like that :) I met quite a few people there.

Basically it is the same as with pretty much everything in life. You have to go out and find what you are looking for!
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Post by jackstock »

Great job. I featured your post on my website! I see that your link no longer works. would love to see you update it with your current blog.
Mine is about hypnosis specifically, but yours still applies!
Here it is:
https://transformhypnosis.com/how-to-ge ... -internet/
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