Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by YamiLoli »

I'm an 18 yo bi switch transgirl from Russia (Just want to say this right away: I don't look like a girl yet). I've dommed online quite a lot so I have a lot of experience in it and I already have a distant-relationship girlfriend who is my sub(so keep this in mind please), but she and I are fine with an open relationship and several partners :-D

Since I have a submissive side in me I often have an urge to be ordered/controlled/instructed and I often need help with making choices, mostly small ones, both sexual and non-sexual. Sometimes I just feel really unsure when making a choice so I need somebody confident and decisive to make such choices for me. I hope I can make you happy by following your orders and being a good girl ^^

I think what I'm looking for is a DDLG relationship (definitely over the internet, not local), although I have no experience in it, so I'll need to take some time to get comfortable with it. I know ddlg implies a daddy as a dom and that's pretty much what I'm looking forward to but I’d also be happy to experience a relationship with a girl, especially since a girl would know better what to do for another girl. So in general I'll be happy to have a caregiver of any gender :-D additionally I’d be more comfortable with somebody younger than ~25 years old but it’s not very important.

Of course, I’d like to build a relationship of trust, care, affection and I understand that these things slowly build with time ^^

I am not comfortable with sending pics of me at first (although we can tell each other what we look like if you want) but I definitely plan on doing that after we spend enough time with each other, so I hope I'll be able to make you happy with my pics as well.

I'd like to find a sweet, caring person and most importantly, a communicative one. What I mean by that is that there are a lot of obstacles, difficulties, and misunderstandings in any relationship and I'd like to be able to sit down and discuss each one with you freely and without worry. I can do that with my girlfriend and that's very good for a relationship I believe. I'd like you and me to be completely open to each other without hiding anything (again this takes time). I might be a bit of a complicated person sometimes so I hope to find an understanding partner, and well, I'm also quite understanding :-)

I definitely want to be perceived and be treated like a girl. And I think I'd like you to motivate me in some cases.

I am into tease and denial, general dom/sub stuff so I'd like it if you enjoyed this stuff as well and implemented it in our relationship. I think I need a caregiver to control my masturbation but I'm not sure how much (total control would be difficult for me right now).

I have quite a lot of fetishes that we can discuss later in private, but here are some other main things you need to know:
  • I really dislike humiliation (some very soft, playful forms of it are nice though but I think they might not even be considered humiliation)
  • I like hentai over porn in most cases so I think I'd like a partner who likes hentai as well
  • I'm quite a perverted girl, even slutty (not sure if that goes well with being a little girl in ddlg xD)
Feel free to PM me if you're interested. This post just covers the basic info so we can just freely discuss any questions you have and if it turns out that we don't fit each other feel free to move on ^^
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by dailynap »

Hello there,
20 y.o. male here. I'm from Europe.
I am looking for a master or mistress for online stuff, but I don't want anything too hardcore, I want more of a fun experience for both, so a kind and loving person would be really welcome..
I am pretty easy to get along with and like to chat with people that are close to me, so I'd want a good relationship in this case, therefore long-term relationship would be nice..

I am kind of needy often and quite perverted. I don't really enjoy humiliation much and CBT. But it can be used as a punishment, I guess.
Hentai > Porn
Toys: Dildo, plug, chastity cage, a wand, and beads. Maybe more to come.
Kinks: Hypnosis, censorship, short term Chastity (Though I am trying long term), T&D, light CBT, joi, forced-bi, overall teasing.

In case you are interested, contact me in DM.
Hope to please you soon, have a nice day..
Yo, hi.
I am not taken, so feel free to take me, huehue. :whistle:
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by JohnnySexy6969 »

Hi, I'm somewhat new to this Sub/Domme thing...

I'm looking to try out being a Sub for a domme... I have at least 1 fap session every day and I think it'd be real hot if I had a female domme/mistress to tell me how to stroke, and what to stroke to (like pictures or videos)... I am not interested in voice call or video calls... It would be nice if my mistress could give me instructions and send fap material pictures or videos over Private Messages on this site. I would like to orgasm every session, but I shall let her decide if she wants it to be normal or ruined, and if I shall eat it all up...

I understand people are busy these days so if you can't do it everyday then that's cool. I myself get super busy with work some days and aren't able to get on.

If you are curious as to what I'm truly into, and what I would prefer, feel free to check out my webteases...

I have never really tried this before so please be respectful if I drop out... But I can imagine I will like it... :smile:

Private Message me if you may be interested and we can talk over it :) Thanks!
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Jharrow575 »

Submissive male, new and ready to learn
Looking for an online orders and T&D relationship
Will do photos, no face
Please IM me or email your orders to [email protected]
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Post by edgemeplease »

Seeking a domme to controll me online. Wont write too much here. But if you want an online edge slut im your sub.

Thanks all

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by cbzp »

Looking for a domme to chill out, play videogames, watch series and much more :)
Pm me if you are interested to get to know each other and see if we can click :)
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Hi there! 28 yo M top. Looking for a sissy, or someone intrested in feminization.
My kik: stolenprofile
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Looking for a mistress just to talk to about something quickly.
Likes: Teasing, Edging, Denial, Porn Watching, Ruined Orgasms, Foot/Stockings/Thighs Fetish, Not touching myself while watching porn, Pictures/Videos for Girls.
Dislikes: Cei, Anal, BDSM.
Limits:Feminization, Hard Humiliation, Permanent, Social Suicide.
Toys: Shoe laces, Panties.
My favorite pornstars, please use them for any challenges/dares/punishments.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Master89 »

Still looking for a dom :-P

My little dickie keeps thinking it's of propper size and can cum whenever it likes. Someone really should take controll of it and teach it a painfull lesson :smile:
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Hi i am a 22 yr old female domme looking for online slaves at the moment, message me at kik cuteintroductions
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by MaoMao3974 »

Does anyone actually find a Domme on here? It just looks like so many searching but no masters can be found starting to feel like a minion! :-)

P.s still looking. . (see earlier post)
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Master89 »

I found a master here once :-P Never tried Tabasco, but DeepHeat is better - it keeps your cock warm and only burns when you stroke :lol:

(Also still looking :whistle: )
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Post by LovesPeeDespair »

I am a pan/bisexual male switch, looking for partners to push boundaries and gain experience. 25 year old, gmt +1

Please pm if you are interested in (one of) the following:
- Exchanging messages about fantasies, desires or masturbation
- Shared masturbation
- Limited sub/dom play
- Shared anal
- Shared pee holding
- Exchanging pics (no identifying features). Also it's cool if you just want to send pics but don't want to get any back.
Over text or voice, without the expectation to make this a regular thing.
I like people and bodies of any gender.

Please don't pm if you're:
- Outside the 20-33 age range
- Only interested in women
- Looking for long time dom/sub in me
- Looking for video chat
- Interested in black mail in either direction
- Looking for a long distance relationship with me
- Expecting money/want to spend money
- Just going to send dick pics without also sending text back and forth

Hopefully some people are interested and not scared by my lists haha :love: :love: :love:
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[22M] Sub/Switch LF [18-30F] Domme or Switch

Post by Uncanny007 »

Hello there, friends of Milovana!
I am a 22 year old male sub/switch looking for a female domme or switch for online play.

Fair warning, this is my first time seeking an online partner so I may not get everything right on my first try. I might need some time to adjust and I might not be comfortable with doing certain things immediately. However, I'm here to learn and grow. If you are inexperienced like me, we can explore and figure it all out together. If you already have a decent amount of experience, you can take me under your wing and mentor me. Either way, I am looking for someone I can build a connection with, someone I can grow to trust and have a good time with. I want to build a two-way relationship where we are both providing something to each other. I want to explore our desires and safely push boundaries together at a pace we are both comfortable with.

As for myself, I mostly identify as a submissive at the moment. However, if you are a switch, I would be interested in trying out the domme role and potentially becoming a switch myself. Perhaps we could alternate our roles every few weeks, I think that could be quite fun.

As for what I'm into, I am not into any crazy fetishes but I am somewhat kinky. You can see all of my likes and limits through the link I have in my signature below, that should give you a good idea of what I'm into. I will say, I have no interesting in revealing my face or identity. In fact, I'm very reluctant to share photos/video at all. I'm not completely opposed to it, but a certain level of trust would need to be reached before I would consider it. That being said, I think that receiving photos/videos from a partner is very sexy and I understand that they can add a lot to an online relationship like this.

If my proposal piqued your interest or you have any questions for me, feel free to send me a PM! I'd love to hear from you! :-D
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by NTGFFS »

Straight Male switch, looking for a dominate mistress.

I live at college but I can bend my schedule other than my classes. I am looking for someone who can let me experience what it's like to be a sub. We can chat through IM or email the we can discuss about.

My limits: No public, No long term chasity

Anyone interested feel free to message me
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