Surviving Ball Busting

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Surviving Ball Busting

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If I got kicked or punched in the nuts, I'd be rolling around on the floor. If Ball Busting is your thing, how do you survive that? How different is it when you get kicked the second time? You already have that "racked" feeling, does it just extend it or is it cumulative? I see people get punched 10 times in row. How different is the first punch from the fifth punch from the tenth? What about from a different angle or direction? I would really appreciate an in depth answer to better understand what the Bustee is going through and how it is possible to take so much punishment. Thanks.
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So first of all, ignore a lot of porn as it's made to look good on camera. So, a lot may be acted out rather than real. Hits can look harder than they are, or the guy can play up how painful it actually is.

For the rest, I'm not a masochist at all, but I still enjoy ballbusting quite a lot. Generally, ballbusting for sexual purposes is an entirely different thing than how a woman might kick or punch to the area in a self-defense situation. If you're doing it with a partner, there's going to be an element of learning how hard to hit, how to hit and how it feels for both and so on.

Beyond that, it's much like any other sort of pain play whether that's something like clothes pegs, hot wax, whips...whatever. With the right intensity and timing, the discomfort or pain enhances arousal and all the other feelings going on. And again, if the woman isn't just full force trying to hurt the guy, the pain and sensations can build over time which is why the repeated hits. It's a heck of a lot safer, and way sexier IMHO, for the busting play to last a little while and build up instead of her just hitting once as hard as she can and leaving the guy nearly sick on the floor (which is hopefully not fun for anyone).

The other element is mental. Submitting and allowing her to do that to my balls is one hell of a powerful way to show her control and domination. It is also a sharing of intimate trust, that she will take this play and enjoy it but not go too far and hurt me. And overall, if everyone is sane about it the risk is low.

The last thing to keep in mind is the balls are actually way more durable and harder to hurt than we think, especially if nude. A full force kick for example will send them flying of course, and much of the force won't even land on them as the balls move out of the way, unless the guy is just unlucky and one gets pinned somehow. This is why a guy might stand and take what looks like a really hard kick no problem, but the moment the woman grabs his balls so they can't move and starts slapping them he might really look in pain.

That's what comes off the top of my head anyway. It's very much a sensation and submission thing, and in the right circumstances it could even be considered as 'stimulation.' I've be driven to ruin both through ball squeezing and slaps before when close to the edge.

Someone who is a masochist may have very different answers though.
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Helequin's answer is fantastic, I can relate to most of it. I personally love a few things about ballbusting and prefer having my balls tortured far more than my cock, the B is definitely the part of CBT for me. I tend to enjoy heavier, thuddier impact play rather than light and stinging impact play. Thicker paddles and canes rather than thin ones. I feel the same about my balls and hitting my balls vs my cockhead with the same implement, I feel a deeper feeling on my balls. Squeezing is especially different as the pain is quite dull and builds rather than being sharp. The balls can take quite a beating.

I recommend giving this a try to see for yourself. I've beaten my balls quite severely following Milovana teases but never had I made my balls hurt afterwards for more than 2-3 minutes. Try swinging an apple in a sock into your balls a little tentatively but then really hard after. You'll likely be in a ton of pain and or the floor. However, after likely less than a minute or so it will fade and you'll hardly feel a thing. Intense pain and adrenaline but then it fades, and then comes back, and fades and on and on it goes. For me at least, thats the "high" of ballbusting.

On the porn side, tons of production there. There's a Brat Princess video I have on my laptop where you can very clearly see her foot connecting with his ass cheeks from a frontal kick. Essentially what they are doing are kicking them at an angle where they connect with ass cheeks prior to or simultaneously with the balls. The momentum gets absorbed and it looks like a much harder kick than it is. The guys are getting hit absolutely but it's exaggerated significantly.

Anyway, that's my two cents. Thank you for asking this question! The mind of the ballbustee is complex indeed ;-) :lol:
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Thanks for the replies Helequin and kingswitch. Very informative and helpful. A long time ago I had an experience where a Mistress used a wooden spoon to lightly tap my balls. It didn't feel like anything much at first, then it began to build. After a bit, it became moderately painful but tolerable. Then it started to hurt, each tap gave me a solid jolt. She might have been ramping up how hard She was tapping. She finished with a harder blow that left me feeling racked. So I guess from what you guys wrote, this was actually a Ball Busting.
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Very intetesting. I didn't remember the fade in, out, in, out thing from the couple times i was kicked as a kid. Of ourse, one was a brother, one was a girl for absolutely no reason whatsoever, didn't even know she dxisted. I bet she became fdom bc she walkdd away still talking to fridnds as tho it was no more than a dirty look. Zero proportionality or reason, but i digress.
I recently came to understand the dull ache combined w fap to do a little of that pain/pleasure synergy.
I find these squeezing does LESS after a bit tho. But, that'd just by myself. I'm probably f'in it up bc I'm inexperienced. Id never let another human do it, and certainly not one who took pleasure in my pain. Shed have to ike it soley bc i liked it and wanted to give pleasure as we want give them.

Oh, the reason i posted, ddrrr: u CAN get seripusly hurt or even LOSE them by letting women hit or kick, as a vid and anecdote proved. The story was of a mistress type about another. She would kick her slave so hard that one yime he eventually had terminal dmg to them. Had to be removed. The relaying mist and these doerdo both thought it was funny, and neither cared one iota. They laughed bc she ditched him after. "He lost his balls and his mistress". So, remember, that total trust and loyalty is ONE WAY.
These case, the vid, was surely real. That or they ooled me good. U hadda see the "woman". Looked like a fem bodybuilder sho did steroids, for real. Face red, insane ragw look in her eye, and a vocal sound and fists pounding together afterward was horrifying. I remember thkg, that's walkkng down the street somewhere in hhe world today, heaven help us all.
So the vid shows her w boxing gloves on and a huys balls thru a tiny hole made in a board T the level a speedbag wldv been mounted. The hole wss as tight a fitit as possible. Every time she hit, w fullest force, gheyd lam knto the wood obviously. He'd let out a scream/yell that i still don't believe cldv been faked. It was bloodcurdling, and muffled. He was obviously gagged. None of hum was visible, and i don't think anyone else cldv heard a word or seen a sign if he'd had a safe word.
"She" hit him many times, i forget how many. She was loving it.
I've seen normal vids where the fem kimda half laughs or smiles, in a non'humour type way. Not totally sadistic, but not liking it bc he wanted it either.

I saw the worst thing I've ever seen w a faked up milking achine computer and lectrodes setup. These comp prog seemed very fake, and some lines hopdfully scripted, but the jacker and shocks inside his ass were real, as were his convulsions and muffled screams. U cant fake that tupe cunvulsive movement. Ud have to see it to know how i know. I won't describe the insidiousness of how it was run bc it still bothers me. Dam, id forgoten till i answered this. Arg. Anyway, i thought he might actually die. I cant imagine how it felt. This was NOT the kinda TENS unit thing that can be enjoyable, and even those can be too much for anyone anally.

But, good inf from these replier.
I wish i could find a joi of super light stuff that's not made by a normal mistress/goddess/whatever selfdescribed. I mean one who is only in it for vid hits, not ever paid mistress IRL.
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Post by wrestballs »

I allow myself another answer.
Regarding the difference between the first and the tenth coup, it's simply, according to my guy, a question of electrical flow. The pain gives pleasure and he asks for more.
After, all that has been said above is right. :-)

As for me, as a girl, mental is very important in ballbusting. It's inseparable. :yes:
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