How much edging is too much?

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How much edging is too much?

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Hi, fellow strokers of Milovana

I've got a question for you:
Do you ever edge so many times in a short amount of time that your penis doesn't get hard again? I just lose the interest to continue masturbating, as I feel completely satisfied after such amount of edges even without cumming. Which is kinda sad, because I love edging. It's quite annoying when it happens to me during a tease. And even if I try to cum I have an orgasm but ejaculate less than I normally would.

That's all, thank you for reading!
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Re: How much edging is too much?

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YamiLoli wrote: Mon Apr 01, 2019 2:49 pm Hi, fellow strokers of Milovana

I've got a question for you:
Do you ever edge so many times in a short amount of time that your penis doesn't get hard again? I just lose the interest to continue masturbating, as I feel completely satisfied after such amount of edges even without cumming. Which is kinda sad, because I love edging. It's quite annoying when it happens to me during a tease. And even if I try to cum I have an orgasm but ejaculate less than I normally would.

That's all, thank you for reading!
Hello,
actually I think it's quite normal. Sometimes it happens to me too and I say to myself "ok, that's enough" because even making it come back hard becomes a problem and the only thing I find is just a lot of precum that runs off.
The solution? I wait 10-15 minutes and start again. Generally, waiting for the right time, I can have a satisfying orgasm.
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For me, it varies. Sometimes, I'm so turned on that I edge, then while resting I stay hard, even if I'm resting for a minute with no touch whatsoever (assuming still watching porn or using Tease AI). Other times, when I get soft during my rest period after an edge, it's inevitable that I'll reach a point where I can't get hard anymore. I think it's normal. But the feeling is the same as for you; it's annoying if I'm in the middle of a tease/ TeaseAI session because I can't continue
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Re: How much edging is too much?

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Achab1851 wrote: Mon Apr 01, 2019 4:05 pm
YamiLoli wrote: Mon Apr 01, 2019 2:49 pm Hi, fellow strokers of Milovana

I've got a question for you:
Do you ever edge so many times in a short amount of time that your penis doesn't get hard again? I just lose the interest to continue masturbating, as I feel completely satisfied after such amount of edges even without cumming. Which is kinda sad, because I love edging. It's quite annoying when it happens to me during a tease. And even if I try to cum I have an orgasm but ejaculate less than I normally would.

That's all, thank you for reading!
Hello,
actually I think it's quite normal. Sometimes it happens to me too and I say to myself "ok, that's enough" because even making it come back hard becomes a problem and the only thing I find is just a lot of precum that runs off.
The solution? I wait 10-15 minutes and start again. Generally, waiting for the right time, I can have a satisfying orgasm.
forbiddendesire wrote: Mon Apr 01, 2019 5:12 pm For me, it varies. Sometimes, I'm so turned on that I edge, then while resting I stay hard, even if I'm resting for a minute with no touch whatsoever (assuming still watching porn or using Tease AI). Other times, when I get soft during my rest period after an edge, it's inevitable that I'll reach a point where I can't get hard anymore. I think it's normal. But the feeling is the same as for you; it's annoying if I'm in the middle of a tease/ TeaseAI session because I can't continue
I see. Thank you for your replies, guys. I guess it's just an inevitable part of edging then
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Re: How much edging is too much?

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I can't say this has ever happened to me honestly. But I do think this is a very personal thing and will be different person to person.

For me in general, if I edge a lot it just gets easier and easier to edge. Pretty much to the point where just about any touching at all or a few strokes will put right back on edge. As I start to tire out if anything it gets more difficult to not go over the edge, not more difficult to reach it.

Of course if I stop edging a few minutes to take a break it will help me move back towards a more normal sort of state where it takes some strokes to edge.

I've never gone soft after edging, even in teases that have had me hit 70+ edges or ride the edge for a total time of 20+ minutes.

On the other hand, there are some days just at random where reaching the first edge is difficult and takes a lot of effort, even though I am fully hard. Usually once I reach it everything goes back to feeling pretty normal. I don't honestly know what causes this, other than it just happens. This can happen with sex too for me, and sometimes it is just a crazy amount of work for her to make me cum to the point it can actually kill the fun to try. I've learned to recognize when my body is doing this, and I can then either stroke myself up to the edge to kind of prime myself or we can decide it's a night to focus on her. There are advantages to being able to more or less have sex until she's done without cumming :lol:
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Re: How much edging is too much?

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YamiLoli wrote: Mon Apr 01, 2019 2:49 pm Do you ever edge so many times in a short amount of time that your penis doesn't get hard again?
If I have really stroked and edged extensively (like several hours on the same day) it can happen that I do not get hard anymore. But I am still very horny. Also it can happen if I edge a lot that I cannot feel the edge clearly anymore. I am somehow still extremely horny but I do not feel this clear edge right before orgasm anymore.
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