How do you manage to stroke after an edge?

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How do you manage to stroke after an edge?

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Hello,
I've played with TeaseAI for a while now, and everytime i'm wondering, how can I start stroking only seconds after edging?
You see, when I need to edge, I'll hit it. Then the Domme states, that I need to start stroking again, with 1 stroke per second. Literally 10 seconds ago I was on the very edge of cumming and now I am supposed to go for such tempo (which I know is nothing crazy, but I'm super aroused!)? :w00t:

I know, I can ask to slow down, but TeaseAI is not the point. The point is, do you guys are actually able to e.g. after 3 edges, each after 10s rest, continue to stroking in normal tempo? Is it really about getting used to it? I am not super experienced in edging yet, tbh I only edge when I am playing with TeaseAI.

So, can you guys just stroke after edging? If so, can you share how you manage to do it? Is it only about experience and training or you maybe have some tips? Maybe you could share what was your first time with edging?

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I think I know what you mean, it was really difficult in the beginning but gets easier after you keep practising (and losing) :lol:
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eloelo120 wrote: Sun Mar 31, 2019 11:11 am Hello,
I've played with TeaseAI for a while now, and everytime i'm wondering, how can I start stroking only seconds after edging?
You see, when I need to edge, I'll hit it. Then the Domme states, that I need to start stroking again, with 1 stroke per second. Literally 10 seconds ago I was on the very edge of cumming and now I am supposed to go for such tempo (which I know is nothing crazy, but I'm super aroused!)? :w00t:

I know, I can ask to slow down, but TeaseAI is not the point. The point is, do you guys are actually able to e.g. after 3 edges, each after 10s rest, continue to stroking in normal tempo? Is it really about getting used to it? I am not super experienced in edging yet, tbh I only edge when I am playing with TeaseAI.

So, can you guys just stroke after edging? If so, can you share how you manage to do it? Is it only about experience and training or you maybe have some tips? Maybe you could share what was your first time with edging?

Have a nice day!
Cheers.
I personally need a break too. But maybe other people don't. Maybe just try to slow down and wait like 10 seconds. TeaseAI cannot read your mind so it just tries to be as general as possible.
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Well, first of all, when edging repeatedly (maybe hundreds of times, like more the hardest teases/videos may require you to), you need to edge a tad safely. Which isn't saying you should cheat, but you shouldn't peak so high that every 5th or 10th edge actually goes wrong either. You should peak to a point where it's safe to do it repeatedly, tons of times. If you peak so high that you more or less start to cum and have to clench up to stop it, you have gone too far.

Stroking at a steady pace again only seconds after an edge is really hard for sure. And it's meant to be. But to make it somewhat more possible, safe edges as well as a not too intense grip will help a lot. As will experience.
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Hello, interesting question.
Personally, I always pause for a few seconds (15/20) and then start again with slow and soft strokes. Then the pace increased.
As you have been told it is certainly not easy and neither should it be.
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i never understood it either. Came across a few teases that made you stroke furiously right after the edge. I instantly close the tease when that occurs, it's just impossible for me. Edging for me means 1 or a few strokes away from cumming...so making me stroke right after an edge without a second of a break will lead to only one thing and that is orgasm. Maybe it's a skill that is learnable, but i have no clue how.
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I can do it but it is really difficult, as has been said already. After a few days (or imagine two weeks) of denial it might mean that, although just stroking super light, you are on edge immediately and struggle not to cum. That is the point of the technique, I guess. I love the difficulty it imposes, I have to say.
On about how to manage it, I catch myself looking away from the monitor from time to time. Not deliberately, more because I need to focus on my self-control so much that I basically don't see anything around me. Taking a deep breath, trying to relax, usually works then. I can usually crawl my way away from the edge again.
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Wow! :w00t:
Thank you guys so much for your answers! Really appreciate it, learned a lot reading this.

You know, when I'm asked to hit edge, maybe first couple of tries I am not hitting it totally. When teasing hits around 30 minute mark, I'll try to push myself harder to the edge.
"... it's supposed to be hard." - you know, that line changed my thinking about edging! I wasn't thinking about it like that!
/edit: I forgot to mention, yeah I don't stroke too often and whenever I know that I will be stroking tonight, I'll tease myself for couple hours before the session (mostly just watching some porn). So yeah, I am pretty aroused when I start a tease.

Thank you once again, it was nice to see people having same thoughts about this (or similar :lol:) and share some tips.
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