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Difficulty in sleeping with blue balls

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Hello all,

I recently started online play with this dom couple. The sessions usually include cbt and edging without cumming for me. After each session I am locked back in chastity and left with instructions for the rest of the day - writing lines, chores, watching porn - that kind of stuff. This has been going on for 3 days now

I love everything about this except that it has become incredibly difficult for me to sleep with the blue balls. I have tried taking cold showers but the dull ache returns in no time. I have gone almost a month once in chastity but I stayed away from porn and anything sexual most of the time. This is totally different.

What can I do to help me sleep better? Please give me some advise.
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Put ice on your balls.
Practise some PC-Pullups/energy drawing. you read about that a lot in Mantak Chia books/literature on tantra and tao. It draws the energy away from the testicles and up into the body. Youll be amazed if you ever get the hang of it
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jackstock wrote: Sat Sep 22, 2018 2:45 pm Put ice on your balls.
Already tried friend. It does help me drift of to sleep but I wake up in couple of hours aching again. Ice and cold showers is what kept me from turning into a sleep walking zombie
44some wrote: Sun Sep 23, 2018 1:43 am How about you tell this couple your difficult experience. Perhaps they'll reward you with some ruined orgasms to take away some of the pressure.
Although I did not want to do this but I did tell them of my difficulty today. At first they tried to push me saying it is supposed to be difficult, but once I told them that I had slept only 10-12 hours the last 3 days combined, they decided to put a stop to it.
So I got a mind blowing body shaking full orgasm today :)
We had tentatively decided on going for 2 weeks in the beginning so I am a bit disappointed in myself.

I am back in chastity now though and this time we have decided on no porn and reduce the number of edges I have to do each day. So hoping I will do better this time
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I've been working with the same key holder for a few months now, and she makes it rough on me when it comes to that. I get random photos of her, tasks that involve watching porn, or writing about fantasies. Basically anything that will get the mind to focus on sex. When I first started, I didn't sleep well. Here is what I do different now.

Wake up with middle of the night erection, go take a piss and relax doing it. Crawl back in bed and you'll fall right back to sleep. Don't fall for the temptation to take a quick glance at porn, just go straight back bed.

Lube - lube the shit out of the base ring so your balls don't bind up.

Resist the urge if you do wake up to partake in anything that will keep you fueled - don't take a quick glance at porn, don't play with your cage or you balls, don't try dry humping your pillow. Just go take a piss, relax, close your eyes. You'll be sleeping in
no time.

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Hi,

Sorry to go off-topic here. I hope you have been able to get some better sleep recently.

I was just curious who your key holder is? Thanks!
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Just wondering how it was going for you. I’m just starting locktober and starting to have some difficulties, too. I’m still doing lots of teasing, thigh. So maybe if it gets too bad, I’ll stop, but the plan is to make it as hard for myself as possible (no pun intended :) ).
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Thanks for the advice guys
modnar wrote: Thu Sep 27, 2018 9:23 pm Hi,

Sorry to go off-topic here. I hope you have been able to get some better sleep recently.
Not watching porn has really helped and I have been able to sleep much better these days. The deal now is that I will be allowed to cum every sunday if I have been good. So far they have let me cum every week although I have not been a good slave all the time.
I was just curious who your key holder is? Thanks!
It is this couple I met in an online forum. I had posted a cuckold theme story I had written over there and I got a PM from them asking if i would like to roleplay online. Couldn't believe my luck :)
I've been working with the same key holder for a few months now, and she makes it rough on me when it comes to that. I get random photos of her, tasks that involve watching porn, or writing about fantasies. Basically anything that will get the mind to focus on sex. When I first started, I didn't sleep well. Here is what I do different now.

Wake up with middle of the night erection, go take a piss and relax doing it. Crawl back in bed and you'll fall right back to sleep. Don't fall for the temptation to take a quick glance at porn, just go straight back bed.

Lube - lube the shit out of the base ring so your balls don't bind up.

Resist the urge if you do wake up to partake in anything that will keep you fueled - don't take a quick glance at porn, don't play with your cage or you balls, don't try dry humping your pillow. Just go take a piss, relax, close your eyes. You'll be sleeping in
no time.
-Ajax
I do get photos once in a while. Looking at them can be painful but I manage :)

Resisting the urge to hump the pillow is tough but I have been doing it now. I have completely stayed off porn and it has made a huge difference. I have also started reading in bed as it helps me drift of to sleep
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Just an update to anyone who happens by this post at some point

After quite a bit of training, I have now been able to make it to make it to two weeks and counting without orgasm. To those who are facing similar problems as detailed in my first post, my only advice is to keep trying. It does become easier after a while
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Where did you find that couple? Could you tell me how I can try your chastity experience?
Thank you so much!
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Ocuspocus4 wrote: Sun Dec 09, 2018 8:06 pm Where did you find that couple? Could you tell me how I can try your chastity experience?
Thank you so much!
Like I said i found them on an online forum where users share erotic stories. I can't really advice you, since I found them unexpectedly and not on a bdsm personals site. Master D loved one of my cuckold theme stories I submitted there and reached out to me. He introduced me to his wife Goddess M and proposed an online arrangement where I get to be their slave. I agreed in spite of the fact that i am not bi or even bi curious and never wanted a male dom. In the beginning it was mostly master who played with me but over time goddess m has become quite fond of me as well.
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Thank you slaveashish ! Tell them if they want another slave to play with, I would be in!
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slaveashish wrote: Sun Sep 23, 2018 6:06 am
jackstock wrote: Sat Sep 22, 2018 2:45 pm Put ice on your balls.
Already tried friend. It does help me drift of to sleep but I wake up in couple of hours aching again. Ice and cold showers is what kept me from turning into a sleep walking zombie
44some wrote: Sun Sep 23, 2018 1:43 am How about you tell this couple your difficult experience. Perhaps they'll reward you with some ruined orgasms to take away some of the pressure.
So I got a mind blowing body shaking full orgasm today :)
We had tentatively decided on going for 2 weeks in the beginning so I am a bit disappointed in myself.

I am back in chastity now though and this time we have decided on no porn and reduce the number of edges I have to do each day. So hoping I will do better this time
I can imagine how your balls felt my god
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