Re: BDSM and consent
Posted: Sun May 13, 2018 9:03 pm
The basic misconception, but fortunately one that exists mainly among the vanilla population, is that the dom(me) is the strong part and the sub is weak. The truth is the exact opposite. Which is also a large part of what makes subbing so fun and rewarding: You push your own boundaries and choose to place trust into someone else. In many ways, while this is clearly not often a factor in porn, in personal life, what is a stronger, better expression of love than choosing to submit to someone, placing absolute trust in them?