I find myself difficult to be humiliated by my partner.

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I find myself difficult to be humiliated by my partner.

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I've felt this way for a while - I find myself incredibly open minded, and unless outside, nearly impossible to humiliate.

Order me to eat my cum?
I'll agree happily, as it prevents as much mess, and tastes quite nice!

Have me suck a strap-on?
Dream come true! Even though deepthroating is too difficult.

Be naked at all times?
Well, inconvenient at winter, but sure!

Shave my pubes?
Good idea, it does get in the way of handjobs at times, and looks kinda sexy as well!

etc etc, like, the conventional ideas of "humiliation" I find.... more adorable. I look at Lovehoney as a tame website, and places like say.... uberkinky to be a fun albeit expensive place. I have always wanted to find ways to be able to be humiliated privately by my partner, though I can only ever think of a few things.... like humping a sex doll, or performing a sexy dance for my partner.

This might be rude of me to ask, but can anyone think of other forms private humiliation with a partner?

Next thing that comes to mind is public scenarios, like buying sexy lingerie at a store (though be it I succeeded once at Ann Summers during a time I had more confidence to approach as men shopping for lingerie there was a norm)
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You may ask her permission before doing something: stroke your cock=permission. Watch porn=permission. Have an orgasm=beg a lot...

Instead of being naked you could wear sexy lingerie all the time. You could go with your partner to the store, buy some panties, stockings, suspenders...

Then, at home, she could tease you and slowly forcing you to wear your new lingerie. Try to imagine yourself, your partner teasing you while you have an hard on wearing these:
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And then, all of a sudden, "click"!
A picture is taken. And another... She could create an album with these pictures...

In your profile you say:
Turn Ons: Denial, Humiliation, feeling of being forced to do something with a moral penalty for failing (i.e. compromising images).
She could use these pictures to force you to do something or, if you don't behave like she wants(for example, if you're in chastity and beg her too much to release you), she could threaten to upload these pictures.

Another scenario: let's say you're in chastity and you're begging her too much to release you. Without you knowing it, she could upload(here on Milovana or somewhere else with a small description of what was going on...) a picture of you wearing those panties, bra...(without your face or any other detail, so that nobody could recognize you) saying that this will be the first of many if you don't stop complaining about you chastity cage.

Another scenario could be this: she wants you to stay in chastity for X weeks/months. If you can't wear your cage for so long, you could beg her to reduce the time in chastity if you wear your lingerie for X weeks/months.

That's all for now.
Bye :wave:
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tigrotto wrote: Wed Nov 22, 2017 2:09 pm You may ask her permission before doing something: stroke your cock=permission. Watch porn=permission. Have an orgasm=beg a lot...

Instead of being naked you could wear sexy lingerie all the time. You could go with your partner to the store, buy some panties, stockings, suspenders...

Then, at home, she could tease you and slowly forcing you to wear your new lingerie. Try to imagine yourself, your partner teasing you while you have an hard on wearing these:
Spoiler: show
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And then, all of a sudden, "click"!
A picture is taken. And another... She could create an album with these pictures...

In your profile you say:
Turn Ons: Denial, Humiliation, feeling of being forced to do something with a moral penalty for failing (i.e. compromising images).
She could use these pictures to force you to do something or, if you don't behave like she wants(for example, if you're in chastity and beg her too much to release you), she could threaten to upload these pictures.

Another scenario: let's say you're in chastity and you're begging her too much to release you. Without you knowing it, she could upload(here on Milovana or somewhere else with a small description of what was going on...) a picture of you wearing those panties, bra...(without your face or any other detail, so that nobody could recognize you) saying that this will be the first of many if you don't stop complaining about you chastity cage.

Another scenario could be this: she wants you to stay in chastity for X weeks/months. If you can't wear your cage for so long, you could beg her to reduce the time in chastity if you wear your lingerie for X weeks/months.

That's all for now.
Bye :wave:
Very creative. Like those ideas. Spicy might contain stuff like this in the future ;)
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GodDragon wrote: Wed Nov 22, 2017 4:15 pm Very creative. Like those ideas. Spicy might contain stuff like this in the future ;)
Thanks!
Feel free to take inspiration from this, if you want!
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