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Best prostate massager with a handle?

Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2017 12:27 am
by GunrunnerNC
The Mrs. is into prostate massage, but she's petite and her fingers don't have quite enough reach for the real fireworks. I've read good things about the Aneros line, but they don't have a handle that would be suitable for her to hold onto to manipulate the toy during sessions. She's not into pegging and doesn't want to use an actual dildo. Does anyone have a favorite/recommended prostate massager that one partner can use on the other easily?

Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2017 6:37 am
by zenlover
We've tried a bunch. The Lelo "Loki Wave" leaves the rest in the dust. https://www.lelo.com/loki-wave

Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2017 5:00 pm
by janmb
That one looks amazing indeed

Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2017 7:19 pm
by GunrunnerNC
Is the loki as big as it looks? We don't do a huge amount of prostate play so I'm a little worried about larger toys.

Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2017 8:00 pm
by dragoul
Is it possible to turn off the vibration completely and just have the 'come-hither’ motion?

Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2017 1:57 pm
by janmb
GunrunnerNC wrote: Tue Sep 26, 2017 7:19 pm Is the loki as big as it looks? We don't do a huge amount of prostate play so I'm a little worried about larger toys.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Using enough lube and time, insertion is not really a problem for anyone, trust me. I don't do a lot of anal play either and am fairly tight, but time and lube solves pretty much anything.

And once inserted, these toys are fairly small at the sphincter. The business end needs a certain girth to work well in my experience.

Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2017 9:32 pm
by janmb
dragoul wrote: Tue Sep 26, 2017 8:00 pm Is it possible to turn off the vibration completely and just have the 'come-hither’ motion?
Yes.

Got to test mine today - sure is an awesome toy.

It is indeed a bit on the bigger side compared to most p-toys, but nothing too huge really. Time and lube takes care of that.

Re: Best prostate massager with a handle?

Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2018 6:51 am
by brownsugar
Probably not the best, but when I saw the Loki thing, that price really threw me for a loop :P

If you want something cheaper, Blissful Cherry has some anal vibrators that work fairly well as prostate massagers. The shaft is ribbed and relatively easy to angle it into your prostate, at least from my own personal experience.

If I had the money, I would buy the Loki hands down, but given that I don't, this Blissful Cherry sex toy was a good alternative.