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I'm a lifestyle femdom and keyholder getting ready to record a chastity focused podcast episode that will have a wide reach outside of the existing chastity community.

With 18 years in the lifestyle, I've got a HUGE well of experience to draw from. However, I feel like my experience level causes me to lose touch with "newbie problems" and the kinds of questions that vanilla partners might have when confronted with their sweetie's kink for chastity devices for the very first time.

Since this episode will expose thousands of people to this kink for the first time, I want to make sure I'm not just preaching to the chastity choir. I want to create an episode approachable to beginners so that it can be a useful resource to share when "coming out" to partners. My hope is to inspire others to "try this kink at home" by being both titillating and informative.

- What are your newbie questions about chastity? Here is your chance to ask them!!!

- For those of you who are more experienced, what do you WISH you had known about chastity when you first began your kink journey?

- If your partners have questions, I'm glad to answer those too, from the point of view of a keyholder.

You can post your burning questions here or DM them to me. I will be glad to answer questions on the air in this podcast episode and in some cases via private messages (time permitting!).

If you would like to know more about me and also get a sample of what the Pageist podcast is like, here is a link to a previous episode in which we discussed my movie-making mission to bring FUN back into the femdom lifestyle.

Who I am and why I do what I do:
http://thepageist.com/2017/01/26/episod ... ndageland/

Here is a more practical episode about FLR (Female Led Relationships):
http://thepageist.com/2017/03/02/episod ... d-and-flr/
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Most people think that having room to grow is actually a detriment and that tighter is better so you don't get a chance to build up pressure and get stuck. I will fold that into the podcast too. :)
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I am a newbie and my questions about chastity are:

How should I decide about the different strechers and rings ( for a CB6000)? Is too tight ok..or a bit space better?

How can I resist the first days of frustration? Do you have any tipps therefore?


The Podcast is a very good idea, wish you all the best for it!
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The sizing of your rings and spacers might change over time. Start out with some wiggle room and then adjust from there. :)
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cam_junge_19 wrote: Sun Sep 17, 2017 12:24 pm How can I resist the first days of frustration? Do you have any tipps therefore?
Freeze your keys in ice or mail them to yourself... anything to get them out of temptation!
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I wish I started playing around with chastity sooner than I did, though I've yet to experience it with someone else I've managed to find ways to keep the key out of reach for a period of time. I've brought it up to partners before but they weren't interested etc thus I will keep looking! Also I do have a question, would it be fine to be in chastity for long periods of time assuming the cage can still be cleaned etc and after the wearer has gotten used to it, mostly like if anything harmful can happen because of it if you know? I'm extremely interested in being in chastity and love T&D for some reason, I usually wear it mostly 24/7, taking it off to clean etc and putting it back on. Usually doing webteases that require chastity device and what not trying to push my limits. If something didn't make sense sorry I got kind of carried away, thanks!
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Something on cleanliness seems worthwhile if you intend for long-term play. E.G. What devices can be worn in the shower/bath without fear of rust, How to clean with it on, unlocking to clean etc.

Also circumcised vs not
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Thank you to everyone who has posted or sent in questions, either in public or in private. It is refreshing to hear from such a wide range of ages, locations and experience levels!

Going into this podcast recording with LOTS to talk about!!!
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